By now, you've probably grown so accustomed to your child's daily nap and the private time it affords you that you're not ready to give it up. But many 3-year-olds are. That doesn't mean you can't -- or shouldn't -- schedule a rest period every day, however. A half-hour or 45-minute break can be very refreshing for both parent and child. Just don't expect it to always go smoothly.
Since 3-year-olds often believe that big kids don't need naps, you should call this period something else: quiet time, rest time, or private time, for instance. Explain to her that you need it as much as she does; that will make her feel more grown up.
Also explain that she doesn't have to go to sleep but that she must stay in her room and play quietly for a set period. (Use a timer to provide your child with a concrete gauge of time.)
For an extremely active or resistant child, offer special toys -- books, puzzles, dolls -- that he is allowed to play with only during this quiet time of day. Or allow your child to choose his own toys. A daily ritual of selecting playthings or winding down with a story can help ease the switch to relaxation.
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