Having a c-section means your baby will be lifted out directly from your belly, rather than pushed out from your you-know-what. A c-section is surgery, and you'll have two incisions -- one in your abdomen and one in your uterus -- while you're under anesthesia. C-sections have come a long way (and are much less invasive than they used to be), but the reasons they're sometimes necessary have not changed that much -- since the goal of every birth is to end up with a healthy mother and a healthy baby.
Some women may think about scheduling a c-section in advance for other reasons -- like wanting to have an exact plan for when their baby will be born, or because they're worried about the pain of having a vaginal birth, but experts advise against having the procedure strictly for convenience's sake, especially before 39 weeks. For one thing, a c-section is major abdominal surgery, and there's always the risk of complications with anesthesia or post-procedure infections. There's also a long and painful recovery period, which can make you pretty uncomfortable and have a harder time breastfeeding in the first few weeks after your baby's born.
A c-section is actually a pretty quick operation. It takes about 45 minutes from start to finish, but your baby will be born (get ready to hear those amazing first cries!) in the first 10 minutes. Before surgery you'll be given anesthesia. If you haven't already received an epidural, you'll probably get a spinal block, which will numb you from your chest to your toes. Your partner can generally stay by your side during the procedure (unless it's a real emergency and you need general anesthesia). General anesthesia -- where you're completely knocked out and unaware of what's happening -- is not used very often anymore. It's usually reserved for extreme situations because it can be administered very quickly.
You might also be given a catheter to keep your bladder empty during the operation and receive an IV in your arm, through which you will receive fluids and pain medication after surgery. The doctors will put up a screen so you won't see the surgery being performed, but you'll be able to hear your baby as soon as he's born and hold him soon afterward.
Once the anesthesiologist is certain that you're numb, your doctor will make the first incision in your abdomen, which will be about 6 inches long (usually horizontal, toward your pubic bone). A second incision is then made in your uterus, through which your baby is delivered. You may feel a slight tugging sensation as your baby emerges. A pediatrician will immediately check out your baby, and if all is well, he'll be given to either you or your partner to hold. While your new family gets acquainted, your doctor will remove the placenta and begin to close both incisions.
Right after surgery, you'll go to a recovery room for about an hour, where your vital signs will be monitored and you'll receive pain medication. If your baby's healthy, he can stay with you during this time (it's a great opportunity to hold him and try to breastfeed if you haven't already).
The first day or so after your c-section, you may feel a little nauseated and weak. It may be uncomfortable to cough, sneeze, or even laugh. After a day or so, you'll be encouraged to get up and start moving around, which is important to prevent fluid from building up in your lungs, boost circulation, and help with digestion. It'll be hard at first, but the more you move, the better you'll feel.
After about three or four days, you'll probably be able to go home, after your doctor removes your stitches. You'll get a prescription for pain medication to help you through the next week (if you plan to nurse, make sure your doctor knows so he can prescribe medications that are safe). Once you're home, resist the temptation to busy yourself with stuff around the house -- just focus on resting, making sure not to lift anything heavier than your baby. Although many c-section mothers report feeling better rather quickly, it's still important to take it easy -- remember, you just had major surgery. You'll probably be back to your old self in about a month to six weeks.
The area around your incision will be tender for the first few weeks and you should watch it closely. If it becomes very red or inflamed, or if you start running a fever, call your doctor, since this could be a sign of infection. Most women notice that their actual scar is numb from the nerves being cut, but this numbness should go away over the next few months. Your scar will continue to get lighter and look better with time -- and eventually it'll fade to almost the color of your skin. C-section incisions are made very low these days, so they're easy to conceal -- even in bikinis and low-rise jeans.
Intercourse will be off limits for the first six weeks (trust us, it'll be the last thing on your mind anyway!) after you deliver, which gives your incision time to heal and your cervix time to close and return to normal. When your doctor gives you the green light to get started, know that your first time back in the saddle will actually be much more comfortable than it would have been after having a vaginal delivery.
Having a c-section should not affect your sex drive, but many new moms aren't exactly dying to jump back into bed so quickly -- and that's totally normal. For one thing, you're probably exhausted from your newborn's round-the-clock eating-crying-pooping schedule. And the hormones you release while breastfeeding have also been known to temporarily lower libido too.
Some women may be more likely to need a c-section than others, though, so there are things that you can do throughout pregnancy that may lower your chances of needing one. Eating well, staying active, and maintaining a healthy weight gain can minimize your chances of developing the types of complications that often lead to cesareans, like preterm birth, a too-large baby, and conditions like diabetes and high blood pressure, for example.
You should also talk to your doctor about his philosophy on cesareans, and make sure it matches yours. Some physicians are more likely to recommend c-sections than others, or have varying definition of what's really medically necessary. And if your doctor says you need a c-section, don't hesitate to ask why. In certain cases (like if your baby is large) you may be allowed to try a vaginal birth for a period of time to see if surgery can be avoided, but you'll only be offered this opportunity if your doctor considers it safe for both you and your baby.
Try to avoid being induced for labor unless your doctor says you need to be. Research shows that women who are induced are more likely to need c-sections than those who go into labor on their own (usually because labor is more likely to stall, which can cause distress for the baby).
And if you end up having a c-section don't feel guilty -- you didn't do anything to cause it. Some women report feeling cheated out of the experience of childbirth and that's natural, but your best defense against these feelings is to focus on the positive result: a healthy baby and a healthy mom to care for him!
Sources: The Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy; The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists educational pamphlet Cesarean Birth
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