We asked experts, and here's what they had to say.

By Virginia Sole-Smith
Updated May 08, 2020
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Toy guns are nothing new, nor is the question of whether or not they are healthy for kids to be playing with. As a parent, you don’t have to buy them if they make you uncomfortable, but, according to experts, you probably shouldn’t forbid them either.

“Ideally, kids can make their own guns, or pretend that some other toy is a weapon, because it’s a more flexible, imaginative form of play,” says Jane Katch, an educator and author of Under Deadman’s Skin: Discovering the Meaning of Children’s Violent Play. “But I don’t advise parents to ban water guns, cap guns, or other pretend weapons if their child is interested in them because that sends the scary message that holding a plastic toy could make you a dangerous person.” After all, a play gun can’t hurt anybody, and banning them can just make them more desirable.

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At any age, though, it’s smart to set some ground rules for play with toy guns. “Explain that some people don’t like to have even a pretend gun pointed at them, and so your child needs to ask a friend’s permission before playing that way with this toy,” says Diane Levin, Ph.D., professor of early-childhood education at Wheelock College, in Boston, and coauthor of The War Play Dilemma. “This isn’t saying that all guns are bad, but it is making it clear that playing guns isn’t the same as playing dolls. There may need to be different rules.”

One rule that should be hammered home: If you ever see a real gun, or even one you think might be real, don’t touch it, and always go find a grown-up.

Comments (1)

Anonymous
May 15, 2020
The idea that kids can make their own gun is focused on brainstorming, creativity and builds self-confidence through making one because it makes them feel accomplished when they can create something cool. About semi automatic raffles, playing with a toy only increases the curiosity about the real version more. If we teach them early on that semi automatics are cool and they will play with them, it is only natural they are going to look for them when they grow up. I don't think that telling a child to hold back on those kinda toy guns sends the message that they are a dangerous person. Let's face it, those guns' sole purpose is to shoot a bunch as quickly as possible. That is nothing but dangerous and a life-threatening idea. I see no reason to teach my child to amp it up. I would rather teach them to compete with not semi-automatics but words, ideas.