“We play this collaborative cooking video game called Overcooked, which is ironic because we never cook in real life.” —Rebecca F., Durham, North Carolina
“My husband found some websites with easy recipes, and every Wednesday we make a new cocktail. It’s a nice midweek pick-me-up!” —Marisa Bassett, Washington, D.C.
“A couple of times a month, we get the kids into bed early and then make our own dinner and have some wine. We choose something that we both genuinely want to eat. Even tenderloin is way cheaper than a restaurant and a sitter.” —Cynthia Smith, Austin
“A few months ago I noticed Kevin had started doing New York Times crossword puzzles on his phone, just casually while we watched TV. Soon we started doing them together. He gets about 75 percent done, and then we fill in what we can as a team. We aren’t talking about stress, and we aren’t forcing “alone time.” We are just having fun cursing at the puzzle writer. It’s one of the things I look forward to the most each day.” —Heather C., Los Angeles