Get Your Kids Excited About Books: 3 to 4 Years

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Christa Renee
Raise a book lover with our quick tips and book recommendations for reading to toddlers.
Christa Renee
Christa Renee

Get Toddlers to Love Books

Nurture an early love of books and help your kids do better in school by exposing them to reading at every stage. As a toddler, your child's coordination improves; she'll begin making marks on a page, a critical stage in her reading readiness. "Drawing and pretend writing help your child grasp the complex process of reading," says J. Richard Gentry, Ph.D., author of Raising Confident Readers. You can help: Provide easy access to crayons, markers, and other drawing materials. And ask her to make a picture to go with a story she likes -- not a copy, but her interpretation.

Get our best tips for encouraging a toddler's love of books.

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Bryan McCay

Point to the Words as You Read

Run your finger beneath the print on a page as you read. Your child will start to realize that the sounds you make come from the letters she sees.

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Talk It Out as You Read

Ask questions that will evoke a thoughtful response ("Why do you think he feels so angry?"). Explain new words and concepts, but try to keep the story flowing.

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Listen and Write In Daily Life

Visit a noisy park or a quiet corner of your neighborhood. Instruct your child to let you know when he hears a noise. Then have him mimic the sound and try it write it down (as you coach him to "sound it out").

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Serve Food to Tie with a Book

Prepare food that relates to the story you're reading. Have your child make pancakes with you when you read If You Give a Pig a Pancake, or munch on thick slices of toast with jelly as you turn the pages of Bread and Jam for Frances.

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Come Up With a Craft

The next time you take out The Very Hungry Caterpillar, create antennae using pom-poms, a headband, and pipe cleaners. Have your child wear it every time you read the books.

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Let Her Scribble While You Read

If your child won't sit still and listen while you read, see whether keeping her hands busy with a crayon and paper reduces her fidgeting. "Even adults doodle when they talk on the phone," says Jim Trelease, author of The Read-Aloud Handbook.

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Make the Most of TV Time

Yes, TV can help with reading. As your child watches Dora the Explorer, activate the closed-caption feature. Over time she may start to connect the dialogue with the words.

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Build a Book Nook

A reading space needn't be fancy, just cozy. A corner with pillows, stuffed animals, and a book basket will do fine to encourage your toddler's reading.

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Christa Renee

What to Look for in Books for a 3- to 4-Year Old

When selecting books to read to a toddler, keep these four tips in mind:

1. Choose books with simple text a child can memorize as she begins to recognize words.
2. Broaden kids' horizons by picking books with new characters (such as the clever pig from My Lucky Day) and settings (such as Botswana, where Honey ... Honey ... Lion! takes place).
3. Select stories about making friends, going to school, or visiting the doctor.
4. Choose more complex tales for read-alouds.

Originally published in the April 2010 issue of Parents magazine.

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