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Spanking With "Dignity" Is Okay, Says the Pope

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The pope made headlines last month with his repeated support for breastfeeding moms, but now he's in the news for a different reason: his (apparent) support for spanking done with dignity.

A recent papal address in St. Peter's Square made waves when Pope Francis shared a story about a father's physical discipline tactic. CNN reports:

"I once heard at a wedding a father say, 'I sometimes have to hit my children a little but never in the face, so as to not demean them.' How nice, I thought, he has a sense of dignity," the Pope said.

"When he punishes, he does it right and moves on."

"A good father knows how to wait and knows how to forgive from the bottom of his heart. Of course he can also discipline with a firm hand: he's not weak, submissive, sentimental," he said.

"This father knows how to discipline without demeaning; he knows how to protect without restraint."

Much like the vaccines debate, the spanking debate is a touchy, ongoing topic -- and Pope Francis's remarks seem to fall into the "spare the rod, spoil the rod" side. What makes his comments surprising is that the United Nations recently recommended the Vatican prohibit corporal punishment toward child.

While some have taken to Twitter to express their disappointment, a Vatican spokesperson, Father Thomas Rosica, says the pope wasn't supporting physical punishment so much as proper discipline. "Let us not read into the Pope's words anything other than what is there. He speaks constantly of mercy and tenderness," he said.

"The pope was obviously not speaking about committing violence or cruelty against a child but rather about 'helping someone to grow and mature,'" reports The New York Times.

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Sherry Huang is a Features Editor for Parents.com who covers baby-related content. She loves collecting children's picture books and has an undeniable love for cookies of all kinds. Her spirit animal would be Beyoncé Pad Thai. Follow her on Twitter @sherendipitea

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