A waitress at a Des Moines, Iowa restaurant who paid for a breastfeeding mother's pizza dinner and gave her a note thanking her for breastfeeding her baby has gone viral across mom blogs and social media sites, with more than 2,000 Facebook shares alone. Reactions range from cheers of support to disagreement that public breastfeeding should be rewarded or celebrated. More from Yahoo! Shine:
Jackie Johnson-Smith, 33, a stay-at-home mother from Ankeny, Iowa was celebrating her 33rd birthday on Sunday at Fong's Pizza in Des Moines with her husband and their three kids, ages 4, 3, and 12 months, when her youngest started fussing. "I usually don't go downtown for dinner because lots of places aren't family-friendly but I had heard good things about Fong's," Johnson-Smith told Yahoo! Shine. "It was chaotic—I had one kid licking the honey container on the table, another standing on his chair, and my baby was fussing." So Johnson-Smith threw on a nursing cover and began discreetly breastfeeding her 12-month-old. "I usually don't like to breastfeed in public because people can be judgmental," she says. "The waitress kept walking by, and I was worried she didn't want me nursing in the restaurant." Eventually, worried that her baby would continue crying, Johnson-Smith left the restaurant and finished nursing in the car.
Shortly after, Johnson-Smith's husband walked out with a huge smile on his face. "He handed me the dinner receipt and at first I was confused—why is he showing me how much my birthday dinner cost?" said Johnson-Smith. To her surprise, there was a handwritten note on the paper: 'I bought one of your pizzas. Please thank your wife for breastfeeding!'
"I was in total shock and started tearing up," said Johnson-Smith. "After dealing with people's reactions for so long, it was like the universe was giving me a pat on the back. I was too stunned to go back inside and thank the waitress."
...[Waitress Bodi] Kinney, a mother herself, is familiar with the burden of breastfeeding in public. "Although I nurse my baby no matter where I am—at the supermarket, in clothing stores—people often react negatively. Recently, I had to leave my daughter's school play to nurse my 8-month-old for fear of offending someone. I wanted to let this woman know in some shape or form, that she was doing the right thing."
Image: Receipt from waitress Bodi Kinney, via Yahoo! Shine