8 Tips for a Fun Family Cruise

Cruising is becoming more popular than ever with young families. Why? Because it truly offers something for everyone. So jump on board and get ready for some serious high-seas fun!

Fun Family Cruise Catie McCabe

When my family climbed abroad the Norwegian Breakaway last spring for our first-ever cruise, we were ready to explore everything the ship and its destinations had to offer. But between checking out the epic waterslides, cool kids’ club, and turquoise waters of the Bahamas, I had another mission: trying to figure out what makes cruising so popular. After all, 76 percent of people who’ve been on a cruise say it’s better than land-based vacations. That’s a lot of happy travelers! 

After just two days on the boat, the answer was clear: Cruises offer so much to do that each family can craft its own unique experience. “Just because everyone is on the same ship doesn’t mean everyone is having the same vacation,” says Stephanie Goldberg Glazer, a travel agent and owner of Live Well, Travel Often Travel Agency, in Miami. “How you enjoy it is entirely up to you.” A family cruise is almost like those one-size-fits-all dresses that can be converted into dozens of styles. At first, it doesn’t seem possible that one thing can work for so many and be totally customizable at the same time. But I own that magic dress, and after my very first family cruise, I know, gosh darn it, both can do exactly that! Ready to make those #vacationgoals a reality? Just follow our advice, and you’ll have smooth sailing from here on out.

Book Early

Fellow parents are looking to vacation during school and summer breaks, just like you, so start planning nine to 12 months prior to setting sail to get dibs on the best cabin types and destinations, says Colleen McDaniel, senior executive editor at CruiseCritic. But procrastinators (raising my hand!), rejoice: “If you’re fairly flexible with cabin types, dates, and itineraries—and you can drive to a port—you’re better able to score a last-minute deal, even during popular times,” says Goldberg Glazer.

Choose a Home Port

When planning a vacation, you might think it’s smarter to focus on where you wind up, not where you start. But if you’re not married to a specific destination, figure out if you’re able to drive to a nearby port. This way, you can eliminate the added cost (and hassle) of flying your family. Me? I live in Brooklyn, a short car ride from one of the New York City ports, which host seven cruise lines including family favorites Disney, Carnival, and Norwegian. Cruises depart from obvious locations in Florida and California, but they also leave from ports in Mobile, AL; New Orleans; Boston; San Francisco; Baltimore; Seattle; and many other coastal cities.

Get a Room

Standard cabins, while snug, can accommodate as many as four, thanks to pullout sofas and super-cool bunks that emerge from the ceiling. Family cabins can generally house up to six, and connected suites can hold about a dozen. But because I booked late, we had to go with what was available, which happened to be side-by-side, but not connected, staterooms. This was the best mistake ever. We all loved being able to rest and decompress between activities without being on top of one another. While I got this setup by accident, if adjoining is what you crave, book early, and know it will cost more. “Usually the third and fourth person in a room can be booked at a lower rate,” says Goldberg Glazer. “So say the parents are $1,200 per person, kid one and kid two may be only $499.” If you book more than one room, that discount doesn’t happen. “If there are no good thirdand fourth-person deals, you may be better off with two rooms—and more space,” says Goldberg Glazer.

Learn About Kids’ Clubs

All the big-hitter family-cruise lines have clubs for the 3- to 11- or 12-year old set. After taking a gander at each of the offerings, I quickly surmised that my first-timers (7 and 10 at the time) would have a blast at any of the clubs. We settled on the Norwegian Breakaway, with its Splash Academy kids’ club. Because of my boys’ ages, they landed in two separate programs—and that’s not unusual. (Disney is one of the only kids’ clubs to host all ages in the same group.) And not all cruises divide kids in the same manner, so check first. “I needed my kids to be together so they’d be comfortable,” says Nicole DeBickes, a mother of two with 11 cruises under her belt who also blogs at FamilyWithLatitude.com. “I found that we’d be able to keep the kids together on Disney and Norwegian but that they’d be split on Royal Caribbean. Knowing that helped us pick the right line.” (Even though my kids were in different groups, they were still able to hang together during certain free-play hours.) Bringing teenagers along? There are dedicated areas and activities for them too. Disney Cruise Line’s private island, Castaway Cay, even has a beach just for 13- to 17-year-olds!

Get Ahead of the Queasies

My oldest son and I have a messy history with motion sickness, so that was a real concern. “It’s a big worry for many, but shouldn’t be a deterrent, especially because most will never experience it,” says Goldberg Glazer. Why? Cruise ships, particularly large ones, have stabilizers to minimize motion. Plus, there are many places where you can look out at the horizon. (Having a steady spot to fix your eyes quells the queasiness.) Nonetheless, I came prepared with Dramamine and NoMo Nausea acupressure and aromatherapy bands for all. While we needed (and liked using) the peppermint-infused bands on the very first night, which was rocky, we didn’t need them again the rest of our vacation. If motion sickness happens to sneak up on you, know that most ships’ guest services will give out seasickness pills for free. You just have to ask. And if you can’t spot the horizon because it’s dark, head to the center of the ship, which is steadiest.

Don’t Worry About Food

If your family is dotted with allergies, intolerances, or food particulars, you’ll be fine. Seriously. “Cruise lines can handle any food restrictions or preferences,” says Goldberg Glazer. “Just make your cruise line aware of your issues when making your reservation and speak with the maître d’ upon boarding.” Parents of picky eaters can go ahead and exhale: Kids’ menus are everywhere. But be assured that your children will absolutely be allowed to order off the regular menu too— music to my ears, especially since my kids teeter-totter between their love of hot dogs and shrimp scampi.

Keep Busy on Port Days

Our cruise made three stops, but we remained on board during our first port day in Florida. While fellow passengers filed off the ship, we stayed behind to enjoy less-crowded pools and amenities. Some, like Corinne Lavinio, a mother of two who has been on five cruises, never leave the ship. “We don’t want to be nickeland-dimed with excursions or feel rushed, so we stay put,” she says. I hear that. But my boys had never dipped their toes in the turquoise waters of the Bahamas and could not wait to do so. (And, my goodness, me too!) For the next two stops, we disembarked with a plan. I prebooked excursions—a snorkel day and a dolphin encounter—directly through Norwegian. While this tends to cost more, it seemed the safest bet. “When you book excursions directly through the cruise line, they’re required to wait for you before departing for the next port of call,” notes McDaniel. 

“That’s not the case if you book independently.” That said, for my next cruise (oh, there will be a next cruise), I’ll probably work with a travel agent to secure excursions; I’ll pack snorkeling sets instead of renting; and perhaps I’ll steal this idea from Johnique Tullis-Brodie, a mother of three and a three-time cruiser: “Instead of excursions, we get a day pass at a hotel or rent cabanas. We get access to a pool, the beach, and bars and restaurants. It’s perfect.” 

Be Open-Minded

To be honest, I wasn’t convinced that I’d like cruising. I thought it would be too crowded, that the food would stink, that I’d feel claustrophobic, and that we’d be bored. I’m stunned by how wrong I was on all fronts. My family fell for the Broadway-esque shows, the huge variety of yummy restaurants, the music, the sporty activities, even the bingo—hook, line, and sinker. I’m also amazed that cruising is not as crazy-pricey as I imagined. And while lots of ships up-sell you on drinks and onboard extras—such as spas, certain shows, and specialty dining—you don’t have to participate in any of that. “With so much included and at your fingertips, a family cruise is a lot of bang for your buck,” says Kristine Gobbo, a mom of two who has cruised twice. “Plus, it makes vacationing with kids so easy.” What more can you ask for?