How to Teach Kids to Swim at Every Age
Tempted to sign your little one up for swimming lessons this summer? That's a smart move, considering that drowning is a top cause of death among children, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP).
"While no course can 'drown-proof' a child, a progressive learn-to-swim program can provide your child with skills that will last a lifetime," says Connie Harvey, national health-and-safety expert for the American Red Cross.
The AAP recommends that parents hold off on formal swimming lessons until after their child's first birthday—and you should always consider their "emotional maturity, physical and developmental abilities and limitations, and comfort level" before enrolling them. If you don't think they're ready for swim lessons, consider a parent-child program that focuses on water games, swimming-readiness skills, and safety in and around the pool.
Always take the time to research swim lessons before enrolling. Classes should focus on both swimming skills and "water survival competency skills," says the AAP, and they should be taught by instructors certified through a nationally recognized learn-to-swim curriculum. "There should also be lifeguards on duty who have current CPR and First Aid certification," adds the organization. What's more, the lessons should be age appropriate, and the water should be kept warm and clean.
Whether you enroll in swim lessons or take to the backyard pool, here's how to teach a child to swim at every age.
1 to 2 Years Old
At this age, you simply want to introduce your child to the water. Play in the pool with them yourself, or join a class that focuses on having fun and getting comfortable in the water (instead of learning to swim). Activities may include showing them how to splash, singing songs while bobbing around, and playing gentle games together.
Water Safety Tips:
- Keep your baby in your arms at all times.
- Do not submerge any child under 3. Kids this age can swallow a large amount of water—enough to dilute the chemicals in their blood, causing sleepiness, nausea, and seizures. In rare cases, water intoxication can be fatal.
- Dress them in a swim diaper that prevents fecal matter from leaking into the pool, which is a major health risk for other swimmers.
- An infant can drown in an inch or two of water in less than 30 seconds, so beware of all water hazards, including inflatable baby pools, buckets, toilets, and tubs.
2 to 3 Years Old
Wondering how to teach a toddler to swim? Your curious tot will be more active in the water now, though they still need an adult to hold them. In your pool or swimming program, play fun games that encourage them to move their arms (for example, throw a ball across the pool and have them reach for it), kick their legs, and float supported on their stomach or back.
Show them how to blow bubbles in the water so they learn to get their face wet without swallowing. By the time they're 3, they may be able to do these things with little help from you.
Water Safety Tips:
- Your toddler may feel so comfortable in the water that they think they can swim solo. But don't leave them alone—even for a minute. They need constant adult supervision around water.
- Make sure the pool gate is always closed and the lock is out of reach. That's because "the Consumer Product Safety Commission found that 69 percent of children under the age of 5 years were not expected to be in the water at the time of a drowning," says the AAP.
- Stress basic pool safety, like not running near the pool and only going into the water with Mommy or Daddy.
- Avoid water wings, air-filled swimsuits, and inflatable flotation toys. Your toddler will sink if they deflate, and these items can give them (and you) a false sense of security. If you want to use a flotation device, buy a U.S. Coast Guard-approved life jacket.
- Don't leave toys in the pool after your child gets out. They may be tempted to reach for them.
4 to 5 Years Old
Now that your child is developing enough coordination to swim by themselves, they can enroll in formal swimming lessons. If they don't have much experience in the water, choose a program that will help them get comfortable. You might be allowed to participate in their first class to make the transition easier.
In the shallow water, your child should learn how to float independently, submerge their head under the water for five to 10 seconds, go from a standing to a swimming position without assistance, glide through the water, reach an exit point, and use coordinated kicking and arm movements. Their swimming class should focus on both water and safety skills.
Water Safety Tips:
- Even though you don't have to hold your child, a guardian should practice "reach supervision" by being in the water within reaching distance.
- Be patient. Your child may be a fish one day and afraid of the water the next. Don't force them to do an activity until they're ready.
- Make sure your pool marks the deep and shallow ends. Having a lifeline to separate the two ends is also smart.
- Never assume another adult is watching, even if a lifeguard is present.
- Some children hate to get their face wet. Practice at home by encouraging your kid to put their head under the shower spray.
6 Years Old and Up
An older child can hold their breath for longer periods of time, swim underwater, and retrieve objects at the bottom. They'll be able to jump into the water and resurface on their own. They can start learning all swimming strokes, including the breast- and backstroke. Their greater endurance will allow them to swim longer distances.
At this point, you don't have to be in the water with your child, but you still need to supervise all pool activities, as they might overestimate their own abilities.
Water Safety Tips:
- An adult should watch all water activities. Even a good swimmer can drown.
- Make it a rule that your child can swim only with an adult present, and encourage them to always swim with a buddy.
- Teach them to dive when an adult is watching and the water is deep.
- You should be extra vigilant at the beach or a lake. A child's swimming skills in a pool don't necessarily translate to open water.
- Always have your child wear a life jacket when boating or water skiing, even if they can swim.
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This is one of the most irresponsible articles about teaching children how to swim that I’ve read, and I’m so disappointed to see it was written in 2021 (when there is enough research available to show that many of the recommendations given here are dangerous and reflect a lack of knowledge, at best). There are so many dangerous and irresponsible suggestions of what to look for in swimming instructors and lessons; I expect more from “Parents” magazine and encourage every actual parent to do much more research before signing their children up for lessons based upon the advice given in this article.Read More
I love all the pointers, when my girls were young, we had them in lessons early. My oldest married a man with two sons, neither of which has had one swim lesson. ages 6 & 13. I would like to know how to manage that at my home. the youngest is not afraid of the water but of lessons, i am an excellent swimmer and would like to give the boys lessons myself. Any direction would be appreciated. Thank you in advance. btw, new granddaughter aged 9 months, we are beginning to introduce her to the water.Read More