Although 70 percent of women said they feel worse about how their body looks after having kids, 30 percent of moms like their body better and feel more "powerful and confident" in their looks, according to a 2013 TODAY.com survey of more than 3,000 women.
"I went through the body image thing a lot of girls go through in college, when I was fixated on my body and my weight," says Leslie Goldman of Chicago, mom of a 2-year-old daughter who is expecting her second child in six weeks. "None of that was a part of my life after my late twenties, but postpartum is still so freeing and empowering for me to watch my body in a whole new light, healing from surgery and still producing food to feed my baby."
While Goldman felt a bit self-conscious about her C-section scar in the beginning — when it was "very red and kind of puckery" — now, in the gym locker room, she's happy she has a physical sign of motherhood and views other women with C-section scars as kindred spirits. "I'm sure many women working out are moms," Goldman says. "But when I see the C-section scar, I know we went through the same thing and it's a signifier we're all in this together."
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