Mom's Story Proves There's No Such Thing as Being 'Naggy' When It Comes to Car Seat Safety

A mom from Tennessee admitted that she was being "naggy" when she asked her husband to fix their baby's car seat straps. But moments later, it made all the difference. 

A mom from Memphis, Tennessee is making headlines after her post about car seat safety went viral. On July 14, Rebecca Tafaro Boyer took to Facebook to share a story of how being a "naggy" mom in regard to her L.O.'s car seat straps made a world of difference when her husband got into an accident.

She shared that it was her first day back from maternity leave. "I demanded that my husband send me hourly updates and recaps on how baby William was handling his first day away from mommy," she wrote. "This afternoon around 2:15, I got a text from my hubby during their trip to Walgreens. My nagging wife reply was to correct William’s position in the car seat - the straps were too loose and the chest clip was way too low. And because I know my husband, I’m sure that he laughed at me and rolled his eyes before tightening the car seat and fixing the chest clip."

Fast-forward 15 minutes, and Boyer's phone rang. "My husband’s panicked voice came through the line, 'Honey, we had a car wreck. We are fine, but the car is going to be totaled,'" she shared. "The boys were less than three miles from our house when a woman pulled into oncoming traffic to try and make a quick left turn. David just didn’t have enough time to stop - it could have happened to anyone. He slammed on the brakes at nearly 50 miles an hour before colliding with the front passenger side door of her SUV. My precious little bundle of joy was so well restrained in his car seat, THAT HE DIDN’T EVEN WAKE UP. Even with the impact of the two cars, William only received a minor jolt - so insignificant that he was able to continue on with his nap, and then spend the next two hours flirting with nurses in the Le Bonheur ED. My husband didn’t fare quite as well - his foot is broken in three places, has three dislocated toes, and we go back to the doctor Monday to make sure that he doesn’t need surgery. The car is a loss, but cars can be replaced - my boys can't."

She went on to remind parents, "All infants should be REAR FACING in the back seat until at least the age of two and snuggly secured in a 5 POINT HARNESS in a car seat base that does not move more than one inch in any direction. I am so thankful that my husband took the extra one minute that was necessary to put William in his car seat safely. I can’t even begin to imagine how different the outcome could have been. I truly believe that the reason my family is at home sitting on the couch with a pair of crutches instead of down at the hospital is because of my annoying nagging mom voice. And do y’all know what happens now to the beautiful three month old car seat that protected my little monkey man? It goes STRAIGHT 👏 IN 👏 THE 👏 TRASH 👏 according to the NHTSA (National Highway Traffic Safety Administration) my expensive, barely broken in car seat is now garbage. Any car seat that has been involved in a moderate to severe motor vehicle incident where the car cannot be driven away from the scene of the crash immediately becomes defective."

The Boyers decided that they would get "the same damn car seat because that thing did [its] job."

In the wake of the incident, Boyer is expressing pure gratitude—and focused on raising awareness.

She summed up her original post: "Tonight I am on my knees thanking God for watching over my two precious boys, thanking the amazing staff at Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital Emergency Department for checking out my little man so quickly, praising Britax for making an incredibly safe car seat, lamenting the loss of my beloved Volkswagen Jetta, and most of all thanking my husband - who has finally proven that yes indeed he is actually listening when I nag him! Information on car seat safety and proper installation can be found online via safekids.org, at your local children’s hospital, or local police department."


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