Reader Tiffany already has a perfect girls' name all lined up—except for the middle name.
We were all settled on Lily Patricia, after my husband's grandmother. But we found out over the holidays that Patsy wasn't the nickname we assumed it was but her actual given name and she hated the name Patricia! Her name was Patsy Lou but I'm not wild about Lily Lou either. Our last name starts with a G, so we have a hard time with middle names that start with vowels as it occasionally creates awkward initials. We like old-ish sounding names (are toying with Frederick and Theodore on the boy's side). We're not finding out the baby's sex until it is born (due in May)!
Oooh, I love Lily Patricia—it's too bad that your husband's grandmother doesn't! Patsy and Lou don't strike quite the right chord with Lily, so we definitely do need to move in another direction. What about another name that gives you that "Pat" start in homage to his grandmother? I really love the idea of a Lily Patience or Lily Patia.