Baby Name Dilemma: A Name for a Twin
It can be hard to find two names you love when you have twins on the way! That's reader Stephanie's dilemma:
My twins are due in October - a boy and a girl, and we have chosen Violet Kathryn for the girl's name, but are at a loss of a boy's name. We would like the middle name Joseph to honor a family member, but we haven't fallen in love with any boy's names! They will be joining big brothers Kieran Anthony and Grayson Alexander, and I want to find a boy name that pairs well with his bigger siblings as well as his sister. Any suggestions are welcome!
Finding the name for a third boy (who is also part of boy-girl twins) can be tricky. I like the idea of continuing your "ending in n" theme you have going on with the older boys, but I'd like to work that "v" in, to tie it in with his sister's names.
I have a few favorites that could work in that area: My top choice is Gavin, a top 50 name that has a lovely meaning—white hawk—and was a knight of the Round Table. It's similar in popularity to the other names you've used, and shares the two-syllable structure of your other boys' names. If Gavin isn't working for you, try Vaughn, a Welsh name that means "little," and is currently just inside the top 1000 baby names. (If you'd rather make it more modern and sleek, try Von, a Norse name that means hope.)
The danger, of course, is choosing a name that's too similar to Kieran or Grayson. I like Declan or Deacon, which add that hard "k" sound in the middle, to help this name stand out from the others in the sibling set. Or go in the other direction, with softer names that don't have the hard Ks or Gs—names like Owen and Lennon. Other two-syllable names that aren't quite as well known as the Aiden/Brayden/Jayden crew—and I think have a touch of cool—would be Alden, Edwin, Winston and Tristan.
You could also go with a name that ends in "T," to link your son with his sister. I like August, Barrett, Dermot, Everett, Prescott, and Rupert. (Rupert's my absolute favorite of these, but I love Violet and Everett as a sibling set!)
Okay, readers, your turn! What should Stephanie name baby boy #3? Share your thoughts in the comments. And if you have a great baby name dilemma, send it my way at firstname.lastname@example.org, and you could see it answered here. Do your own baby name spelunking with our Baby Name Finder, and keep up with the very latest in baby names by liking In Name Only on Facebook.