Ben Heldfond Ben Heldfond is co-parent to a 16-year-old named Asher. He is co-founder of Our Happy Divorce, a service that offers guidance on creating a post-divorce happy, modern family and is co-author of Our Happy Divorce: How Ending Our Marriage Brought Us Together. His mission is to help families during divorce. About Parents Parents, a Dotdash Meredith Brand, is an award-winning online resource for trustworthy, empathetic, and supportive information and inspiration for your families. We reach 9 million readers a month. Our content is written by experienced journalists, fact checked, and reviewed by our Expert Review Board for accuracy. Learn more about us and our editorial guidelines.