What's Your Child's Separation Anxiety Style?

The Silent Observer

What she's feeling: Let me check out what's going on around here before I jump in and start playing with these kids.

Your response: Give your child time to adjust to her new environment. Then help her get used to the idea of becoming involved by reading books about school together, playing school at home, and talking about the teachers and children.

P.S. Remember that your kid is learning as she's observing. You might want to talk to her teacher about helping her find her comfort zone so she can get more involved.

Originally published in the September 2007 issue of Parents magazine.

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