How to Prepare Your Child for Preschool

If your child is starting preschool, you may be approaching this major milestone with conflicting emotions. You're probably excited about the fun he'll have and the friends he'll make. But you may feel a little sad that your baby is venturing into the world without you. These emotions are normal. Your child will also have a range of reactions -- feeling proud to be a big kid but worried about saying good-bye to you. There's a lot you can do to get ready for the big day. Keep your efforts low key; if you make too big a deal of this milestone, your child may feel more worried than excited. Here are some ideas to keep the focus on fun.

By Rebecca Parlakian and Claire Lerner

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How to Prepare in the Weeks Before Preschool

Start by reading stories about preschool. Choose books that include typical preschool activities, as well as those that deal with separation. Point to the pictures and ask your child how the different characters might be feeling. Don't be surprised if she wants to read these books over and over. This is how children process new ideas and work through feelings.

Help your child picture what preschool will be like. Take turns playing the roles of Mommy, kid, and teacher. Act out saying good-bye to Mom and hello to the teacher. When you get tired of that scenario, add other activities, like snacktime and finger painting.

Schedule a visit to the school. Seeing the classroom, meeting the teachers, and playing with the toys can make this transition easier. Familiarity helps children feel safe.

Answer your child's questions, even if they're difficult. It's important to respond honestly, in language she can understand. ("Yes, I will leave you for a little while, but I will come back to get you at lunchtime.")

Next: How to Say Good-Bye on the First Day

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