Dining Dramas: Toddler Feeding Problems, Solved

Toddlers can be such funny eaters. Find out why, and how to help them develop healthy eating habits.
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Why Are Toddlers Such Funny Eaters?

When my son was in preschool, he had a pal who was obsessed with pasta. One day, his mother dropped him off for a playdate and warned me that he'd only eat plain noodles with grated Parmesan on the side. I dutifully boiled some penne, yet the kid wouldn't touch it. At pickup time, I confessed to the mom that her son didn't eat a thing all day. "Oh, I forgot to tell you -- he only likes fettuccine!" she said.

I guess I should have known that no ordinary pasta would do, since toddlers are famous for their mealtime quirks. Some days, your child will eat as if he hasn't seen food in days; on others, he'll play with his meal or refuse everything, even the toaster waffles he'd eat at every meal if you let him. "A lot of toddlers' food issues are actually just power struggles," says Andrea McCoy, MD, an associate professor of pediatrics at Temple University's School of Medicine, in Philadelphia. One of the few things kids can control now is what they eat, and they're not shy about making demands. But you don't have to cave in or argue. Instead, encourage healthy eating -- and save your sanity -- with these solutions to common mealtime dramas.

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suziebaum wrote:

My 1 yr old son is more picky when he is teething, especially with the spoon. He has also become very independent and wants to do everything himself. I have tried to give him mostly finger food, and he also still gets formula. He loves throwing food on the ground, and watching the dog eat it so I have to put the dog out. More food goes on the floor than in his mouth. He likes to eat baby food directly from the pouch (ie. Happy Baby), but I prefer to make his food. Any suggestions?

8/26/2011 05:17:46 PM Report Abuse
theresa_625 wrote:

my daughter is 17months n she does not want to eat to eat no meat what should i do

2/8/2011 11:07:09 AM Report Abuse
PaloumaD wrote:

I have a 16 month old son. Lately, he's been making faces and pushing the food away, pretty much everything I give him, he doesn't want. Even the foods he usually eats. Not sure what to do, I sometimes struggle to get him to eat some days. Please help!

10/7/2010 02:18:48 PM Report Abuse
LTBoito wrote:

My 17 month old son prefers to eat meals as a family. If 1 or both of us is not eating with him, he is not interested and will wait to eat until we eat with him. There are also some days that he eats everything we offer and other days he hardly eats anything at all. I try to remind myself as long as it all balances out at the end of the week, it's ok. :-)

9/21/2010 11:13:21 AM Report Abuse
trisket36 wrote:

I have twins who are 15 months old. My son will eat everything you put in frount of him. My daughter won't try anything unless she sees me eat it first. For a couple days she refused to eat anything. I wasn't sharing meal time with them at that point. Once I noticed that she would watch me while I ate I began having meals with them daily. I found that whatever I ate and then said "yummy" about, my daughter was eager to try it. Now I can get her to eat almost anything. Good luck parents!!

9/7/2010 07:56:55 PM Report Abuse
beetz07 wrote:

http://www.chop.edu/service/pediatric-feeding-and-swallowing-center/home.html

7/13/2010 11:46:09 AM Report Abuse
nambisi wrote:

this topic has realy educated me

5/29/2010 03:56:17 AM Report Abuse
wildhunter wrote:

Our son is 14 months and doesn't like to touch food that is different than 'dry foods' like crackers, toast, freeze dried fruit. He wants us to feed him everything else and some days doesn't each much of anything except goldfish and animal crackers. Our doctor says too he will grow out of it- but it would be great for him to eat our food instead of the graduate meals- if that- that he does eat. Any suggestions on getting him to expand his eating?

5/27/2010 11:16:05 AM Report Abuse
joelmaddensriotgirl27gc wrote:

My daughter is 17 months.. Her eating habbit are very weird too.. Some days she will pig out and others she wont. It depends on what she wants. I try to make her eat heathly, but the food she wants i also label as snack/junk food. Im not too worried about her eating habbits. She drinks enough fluids throughout the day. I think some of us parents are too paranoid.

5/23/2010 09:36:22 PM Report Abuse
StacieLynn wrote:

I really need help moms, my daughter is 17 months and is EXTREMELY picky. She hardly eats ANYTHING!!! She used to only want to eat crackers, now she will go day refusing to eat, and when i try to feed her, she throws up. He doc says she will grow out of it, but i am REALLY worries. it's not normal for a baby to just refuse to eat!!!! PLEASE ANYONE..... IDEAS??????

5/10/2010 06:47:53 PM Report Abuse
serazenasweetie wrote:

Our issue is drinking. We have not taken away the bottle yet because she isn't inclined to drink from a sippy cup. She'll sip here and there throughout the day, but we still give her a bottle of milk when she wakes up and before bed. I think she wouldn't drink more than an ounce or two of fluids all day if we took away the bottle. Any suggestions?

3/12/2010 12:46:49 PM Report Abuse
serazenasweetie wrote:

We've found that there's a correlation between how much our 18-month old eats and when was the last time she pooped. Obviously certain foods will speed up or slow down the works, so if she's backed up, she won't eat. If things are flowing smoothly, she eats like a piggy piggy!

3/12/2010 12:46:45 PM Report Abuse
krs811 wrote:

My daughter is 16 months old and will only eat cheese. She will eat grilled cheese, and quesadillas but that's about it. Other than that it's animal crackers. This just started recently, I used to be able to give her anything and she would eat it. I don't know what to do to get this to change.

3/2/2010 11:50:08 AM Report Abuse
cpalmer14 wrote:

My daughter is 17 months old and she is a very pickey eater. She will some table food but not very much. She at times likes those Graduate pasta pick ups and other foods from Graduate but lately nothing at all but water, juice, milk. She still likes the #2 beef, lamb and mac and cheese. Is this normal???

3/2/2010 11:32:49 AM Report Abuse
lynnvillegrl wrote:

My daughter is 16 months and she refuses to eat anything other than what I have labeled as snack food. I went to the grocery store and bought a lot of different healthy foods that I thought she would eat but I ended up spending lunch time preparing several different meals that she wouldn't touch.

2/22/2010 08:08:33 PM Report Abuse
UnperfectMama wrote:

It's normal. They get "too busy" to eat.

1/19/2010 04:07:27 PM Report Abuse
odoylelass wrote:

My daughter is 14 months and has a day here and there where she will not eat anything. She will drink water, juice and milk but other than that nothing. I'm hoping this is normal?

1/2/2010 09:05:16 PM Report Abuse
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