
Give it up when...
Your child is 2, but there's no need to rush things before that age. The American Academy of Pediatrics now encourages pacifier use as a way for babies to soothe themselves and as a tactic for possibly reducing the risk for SIDS, points out Robin Goldstein, PhD, author of The Parenting Bible. The jury is still out on whether pacis, if they linger into the toddler years, cause dental problems or speech delays.
Here's how
Happily announce to your child that the pacifier now lives in the crib, and if she wants it, she has to climb in there with it. (Bonus: this gives her a great incentive to go to bed at night!) When you sense your child is ready to give it up altogether, a visit from the Binky Fairy may be in order. Just remember: don't go cold turkey when your child is in the middle of another major transition, like potty training because she will need even more comfort at those times.
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Love it and very imformative. I had a question about this and it was answered . Thanks a million.
12/5/2011 04:19:53 AM Report AbuseOur son turns four at the end of October and he just gave his paci up a month ago, he only used it at nap and bed times. He started preschool and we told him big boys who go to preschool do not use pacifiers. We also told him he would have to give up his favorite stuffed toy if he insisted on keeping the pacifier. He gave it up and has not asked for it since, although he told his grandmother he would get it back after he finished preschool!
9/30/2011 08:45:10 PM Report AbuseRedirection instead of Reprimanding is the key to successful teaching and training. Anyone who scolds should scold their own brain. One mother said to her seven year old yesterday, "We wouldn't be late if Jessica hadn't been so slow." Jessica overheard, retreated, put her head down, and cried silently as she was afraid to be seen crying for fear of another reprimand. Do you do this? conniehunter@me.com
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