Though most safety information is geared toward children ages 5 and older, experts agree you should talk to your preschooler about safety now. "It's never too soon as long as you're approaching the topic in a developmentally appropriate way," says Walter Gilliam, PhD, director of the Edward Zigler Center in Child Development and Social Policy, at Yale University.
While it's true that most preschoolers don't play outside or walk around alone, they still need clear information about what to do if they become separated from you in public. Here's a five-point safety plan taken from various experts and recommended for young children.
While most parents teach their kids to never go with a stranger, their understanding of this concept is often murky. Gilliam explains, "Preschoolers think of a stranger as someone who's 'scary' or 'bad,' so a friendly or nice person may not be seen as a threat by a young child."
Samantha Wilson, a former police officer who founded kidproofusa.com, says that teaching our kids "don't talk to strangers" is actually the biggest mistake parents make. "Instead, we have to teach kids never to go anywhere with anyone without asking their parents' permission first." This is the lesson we should reinforce as soon as we begin speaking to children about safety. It's clear and easy to understand, even for preschoolers.
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A friend of mine recently had a scare with two sons who went home to an empty house - she got home and her sons had been home but could not be found ... she immediately set some ground rules, read her post here: http://mothersraisingboys.com/?p=1716. She is the founder of the online community Raising Boys World and talks about raising her four boys - safety is always a top concern... great post, I enjoyed it!
11/7/2011 02:47:01 PM Report AbuseAlso teach your kids their full name. My daughter 3, knows her full name and my husbands as well as mine. We've never had to use it, but we've practiced with friends and family.
2/4/2010 03:30:55 PM Report AbuseYes! Teach your child your actual name! I was a clerk at JC Penny for 4 yrs. and it was always so frustrating when a child didn't know their mom's name- I can't page for "mommy."
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