Parents magazine: What is your earliest memory in the kitchen?
Melissa Clark: My earliest memory in the kitchen was probably when I was about 4 years old. I remember waking up so early that it was still black outside. I went down to the kitchen to wait for my parents to wake up. We had a TV in the room and I turned it on. There was no programming at that hour, and I remember staring at a multicolor, striped screen, eating a banana, enjoying the peace.
I also remember helping my dad make cookies. He loved to make walnut crescents, and I helped him by rolling the dough into little logs that he shaped into slivered moons. Licking my fingers was the best part, naturally.
Parents: If I you had to choose one recipe from your newest book, In the Kitchen with a Good Appetite, for readers to make, what would it be?
MC: That's tough, but I'll go for something really easy and very tasty: Spicy, Garlicky Cashew Chicken. It's quick enough for after work but packs huge flavor, and it's the kind of recipe that takes well to variation. You can use the cashew sauce on anything from pork to tofu to fish to soba noodles.
Parents: What do you do to get Dahlia to eat food she doesn't want to eat?
MC: Bad parenting confession: I've been known to bribe her ("eat this one piece of broccoli and you can have dried mango for dessert"), to make it into a game ("look, mommy's eating a piece of chicken, let's see who can eat it faster!"), to cajole: ("eat a bite of barley for Grandma"), and to stuff pieces of sausage into her mouth when she's distracted. Sigh.
Parents: Does your husband help you out in the kitchen?
MC: He's my best (and only) sous chef. He dices, chops, minces, and helps clean up. Not to mention he mixes the cocktails.
Parents: What inspired you to get into cooking and food writing?
MC: It was such a natural way for me to combine the two pastimes I loved the most -- eating and writing. And then when I discovered MFK Fisher, I had a model.
Parents: If you had to choose between cookies, pie, or cake for dessert and could eat only one, what would you eat?
MC: This is brutally difficult, but I'll go for pie!
Parents: What is your favorite city to eat in outside of New York?
MC: Easy, Paris. In the USA, I adore L.A. for great eating.
Parents: Is there anything that you refuse to eat?
MC: I was once offered water bug on a stick in Thailand. It looked too much like the roaches in my old East Village apartment so I declined. I did eat the grasshoppers though.
Parents: What advice would you give to parents who want to include their children in the cooking process but aren't sure where to start?
MC: Cook more yourself, and let your kids watch. They will start asking to help. Even my 21-month-old likes to take the peas out of the pod.
Parents: Do you have a fool-proof go-to ingredient or recipe?
MC: Roasting! I roast anything that won't crawl out of the oven. It seems to work on nearly every type of meat, fish, or veg, and it's so easy. I can put a chicken or whole fish or tray of sliced eggplant in the oven before Dahlia's bedtime, then sit down to dinner when she's asleep -- on nights when we are eating late.
Parents: As a working mom, how often do you cook dinner for your family and how often do you eat out or deliver take-out?
MC: I have the great advantage of working at home, so I cook a lot, about four to five times per week. But I'm also immersed in the food world, so it's easy for me to cook in small doses -- a little chopping here, some washing of greens there. We typically order in once a week, and go out once or twice.
Parents: What is your favorite aspect of being a food writer?
MC: Getting paid to obsess over food, to cook it, eat it, and share it.
Parents: Name one recipe that you're in the process of perfecting.
MC: I've been working on a whole wheat scone recipe for a while; I want it rich and not too healthy tasting, but I also want to keep it from turning into a sugar bomb. It's a balance and I haven't got it down yet.
Parents: What is Dahlia's favorite dish?
MC: Right now it's creamed corn, but it changes a lot. (Take the kernels off one ear of corn, simmer in a few tablespoons of heavy cream -- that's all you do!) She also loves "coco rice" (brown rice cooked with half water and half coconut milk), prosciutto, and sausages.
Parents: What's your favorite food to make with Dahlia?
MC: She loves to take the peas out of the pod and eat them. That's about as sophisticated as it gets! Oh, she helps me make smoothies by breaking up the banana and throwing it into the blender.