Common Pregnancy Dreams and What's Really Behind Them

What's the meaning of some of those crazy dreams you've been having?
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Although everyone dreams every night, the dreams of pregnant women tend to be packed with emotion -- a reflection of the dramatic life changes she's about to undergo.

Remember that dreams have no bearing on reality. Feelings of ambivalence -- about motherhood, your changing role, and new responsibilities -- are normal. Just because you have these feelings doesn't mean you don't want to have a baby. Acknowledging your feelings (even the negative ones) and doubts will help you work through them in a more productive way. Your dreams can also be a good way to open up a dialogue with your spouse. "I had the craziest dream, and I think what I'm really worried about is..." Getting your fears out in the open is the best way to over come them.

Here are six of the most common images and subject matters for dreams, and what they might mean, according to Hillary Grill, coauthor of Dreaming for Two (Dutton, 2002).

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amandabeesknee1 wrote:

I had a dream that the chick-fil-a cows were in a gang and were taking over the town I live in. They were breaking into peoples houses and chasing us down the street. To get away from them we ran into a house, went down the escalator (yeah crazy) and right into the river at the bottom of the escalator. From their we floated down the river in canons smoking cigarettes. One crazy dream!

9/29/2011 02:08:56 PM Report Abuse
lilkrystal221 wrote:

i've had dreams where i thought im having a boy but i think thats only becuz i want a boy

8/19/2011 12:39:19 PM Report Abuse
kmafatle1 wrote:

Hi I dreamt the dark area around my nipple was active and I seem to be green in color like an alien. Then on different days I dreamt of water, sometimes a crocodile in water.

7/28/2011 11:31:12 AM Report Abuse
shellyb_vampir1 wrote:

I find out next ultrasound if its a boy or girl, yayy!! *crosses fingers for a girl* Before I read this I was worried that the cheating dreams I was having were actually happening, now I feel a lot better and not as worried. ...but I will still keep an eye out, as he has messed up before.

5/28/2011 11:59:56 AM Report Abuse
gulfgirl051 wrote:

?? weird right! i dont know. and other dreams have been so sad and worrisome i wake up crying or in fear and out of breath!

5/12/2011 05:00:40 PM Report Abuse
gulfgirl051 wrote:

omg yes... i have the craziest dreams! this is my first pregnancy and my dream was about me and my fiancee getting ready to go out with friends for the weekend and i forgot my suitcase and then we ended up getting attacked by the worlds most poison filled snaked and i had to run back in fear to get one of my sharpest knives and then killed it and then strangely it turned into a dog

5/12/2011 05:00:12 PM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

with my 2nd baby i had a dream that my water broke and a bunch of little baby frogs came out with it and then they all started trying to hop away and i was like nooo my little froggy babies!! and i was trying to scoop them all up

5/12/2011 04:30:08 PM Report Abuse
rweisner1 wrote:

I have a lot of sexual dreams when I'm pregnant. I had them when I was pregnant the first time, and now it's starting again with baby number 2!

3/31/2011 11:35:32 AM Report Abuse
kelseymcpherson wrote:

1st pregnancy- I had a dream that the baby poked his head out of my belly button, looked around and went back in.. Than a couple days later (in the same dream still) I gave birth to him completely through my belly button.

3/24/2011 08:57:40 PM Report Abuse
kelseymcpherson wrote:

2nd pregnancy-I was going to take the intelligender test one night and it said for best results to wait for the first mornings urine. So I did just that. But during the night I had a dream the half of the urine was green (boy) and the other half was orange (girl), in my dream meaning I was having twin, one boy & one girl. Than I also had another dream the same night where I gave birth to my fraternal twins and after those 2 came out babies kept coming out! Weird right.

3/24/2011 08:57:12 PM Report Abuse
free2bu69 wrote:

I have had dreams to were I was just hanging out with friends and family and nothing out of the ordinary, then out of nowhere there was a baby that was mine. Sometimes a girl but most of the time a boy. The next thing the dream changes once I realize it was my baby and started to be it's mother. And the strange part of it is that I was not even pregnant and was on birth control at the time.

1/20/2011 10:05:10 PM Report Abuse
JAguilar13 wrote:

continue.... Then I stood by a boardwalk looking out onto the ocean. I started to get the feeling of the slugs crawling all over me but sure enough there they were. Except this time it was only a few of them instead of a bunch of them when I was up in the mountains.

1/20/2011 12:55:57 PM Report Abuse
JAguilar13 wrote:

I haven't had any dreams. Although prior to getting pregnant (wasn't planning for it at all), I had a dream where I had visited my cousin in California. I had so much fun, but I was a little concerned about the houses built so high up in the mountains. Then I started getting this weird ickly feeling towards my lower back and hind legs. There were slugs crawling up all over me. I had to peel them off one by one and was grossed out by it.

1/20/2011 12:55:46 PM Report Abuse
bella072882 wrote:

I have had a few dreams about a hipo trying to step on my stomach...It was so scary that I woke up holding my belly and crying because I thought that the hipo was going to kill my baby. What does things like that mean?? I have had 3 miscarriages. Do you think maybe I am just scared I will loose this one too>??

12/30/2010 01:38:38 PM Report Abuse
tarapapineau wrote:

I wake up crying in the middle of the night..tears, sadness, guilt...I can never remember my dream though.

11/23/2010 11:29:50 AM Report Abuse
tiedyemullett wrote:

I have had several dreams. Most common for me are these two opposite dreams. In one i give birth to something like a little vampire girl or monster, not ugly just not human, and i dont remember all the details just that there is blood and it is scary. In the other, I give birth to a perfectly healthy baby girl. I really dont get it, but im going to assume it still falls within the range of normal.

11/5/2010 09:23:03 AM Report Abuse
msthubbard wrote:

I had a dream that I was pregnant and I was in a beautiful summer dress. The design of the dress was so accurate in my dream that it felt real and the details were great. Well a week later I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. The second dream I had that week was about two baby girls. That's scary because I don't think I am ready for twins, however whatever God blesses me with I will be happy.

8/12/2010 12:12:57 PM Report Abuse
winddancer0142 wrote:

I haven't had any of these dreams. I wonder if I'm just an odd one. I had a dream though where I had to protect my baby and my new puppy from a zombie apocalypse though. And I was the only one with the cure in my blood.

6/5/2010 02:45:18 PM Report Abuse
reyna_alcantar15 wrote:

I had the worse dream ever last year in oct. I got pregnant for the first time and in nov 4th I had my first ultra sound and 2 days later I had a dream that ppl were trying to make me abort and after that I started spotting so I went to the doctor and he gave me the worse news ever that my baby didn't make it and then they did a D&C after that my back started hurting so I told a massager to come and he asked did u fall,or had a dream or some thing I said yes and he said dreams some times warn u

6/3/2010 06:46:23 PM Report Abuse
cutie_angel_bro wrote:

omg i have had the dream about the alien, i dnt remember giving birth but i remember having a little girl and then all of a sudden she was in a jar of liquid and was like a fist size, like the baby is now. it was soooo weird, i didnt realize i could have all these crazy dreams.

4/23/2010 03:11:08 PM Report Abuse
alannahmae wrote:

I had a dream that I was pregnant with twins a girl and a boy... and my mom performed a c section on me and i only saw the boy come out... then my little sisters sewed me up with red yarn... weird right... that was a dream from my first pregnancy... I am only 7 weeks along on this baby... I'm interested if i will have any weird dreams

4/22/2010 09:43:00 PM Report Abuse
delissaferguso wrote:

oh my god!!!!!!!!! i've had the dream where i gave birth and i had to put my baby back in and my mom was standing there telling me "hey, do it this way, just cut your stomach open from your bellybutton, it's sooo much easier that way i promise!" i whined "i don't want to put her back! do i have to?" but i kept trying because i knew she was better off in there for a while. im so glad im not alone on this dream. thank you so much!

4/21/2010 01:19:15 PM Report Abuse
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