So you've been trying and trying and -- finally! -- those two tiny pink lines have appeared on the pregnancy test. After grilling your new ob about whether your baby is developing as expected, you probably have one more lingering question: Now that the deed is done, can you...um...still have sex?
Absolutely, obstetricians say. If your pregnancy is uncomplicated, and you feel up to it, you can dance in the sheets until your water breaks. "Men often feel a little ignored because everything is so centered on the baby, so we encourage couples to have sex because it helps keep them bonded," says Terry Hoffman, MD, an ob-gyn at Mercy Medical Center in Baltimore.
Actually, sex may be more fun during pregnancy precisely because the pressure is off. If sex had begun to seem like a chore because you were working overtime to get pregnant, now it's all fun and games. And if you've spent most of your reproductive years trying not to get pregnant, well, you're out of the woods there too. "It was really freeing," says Michele, of San Francisco, mom to 8-month-old Kai. (Last names have been omitted throughout for privacy.) "My husband used to pull out or stop to put on a condom. Once I got pregnant, we didn't have that extra stress."
I am 34 weeks pregnant. We definately don't do it as often now, but still often enough. In my first & second trimester we could not get enough of each other. He said that I was wearing him out, LOL. He loved it and never complained though. He was a champ.
11/19/2009 02:42:51 PM Report AbuseIam 18 weeks pregnant, and I want to have sex all time, but my husband doesnt! it makes me feel like Iam not good looking for him anymore.
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11/10/2009 11:27:59 AM Report Abuseummm you're guys arent normal im on my 3 kid and this is his time.mine cant stay off of me.this is the time when u should be the most beautiful thing in the world to him and catching yeah....theres a problem
11/10/2009 11:27:17 AM Report AbuseI may be just being silly but I'm jealous of his hand. Its not fair home all day with a 5 year old and I can't exactly please myself doesn't seem right and I wait for him all day and then I find him doing for himself and it makes me cry I feel like I'm still not good enough.
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