Your Complete Guide to Pregnancy Sex

What's safe, what's not, plus the best expert advice and real-mom tips to make pregnancy sex as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.
Can You Have Sex During Pregnancy?

So you've been trying and trying and -- finally! -- those two tiny pink lines have appeared on the pregnancy test. After grilling your new ob about whether your baby is developing as expected, you probably have one more lingering question: Now that the deed is done, can you...um...still have sex?

Absolutely, obstetricians say. If your pregnancy is uncomplicated, and you feel up to it, you can dance in the sheets until your water breaks. "Men often feel a little ignored because everything is so centered on the baby, so we encourage couples to have sex because it helps keep them bonded," says Terry Hoffman, MD, an ob-gyn at Mercy Medical Center in Baltimore.

Actually, sex may be more fun during pregnancy precisely because the pressure is off. If sex had begun to seem like a chore because you were working overtime to get pregnant, now it's all fun and games. And if you've spent most of your reproductive years trying not to get pregnant, well, you're out of the woods there too. "It was really freeing," says Michele, of San Francisco, mom to 8-month-old Kai. (Last names have been omitted throughout for privacy.) "My husband used to pull out or stop to put on a condom. Once I got pregnant, we didn't have that extra stress."


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secalligaro wrote:

yvonne~My boyfriend is the same way now!! I feel bad but I have to tell him no!!

10/23/2009 07:45:49 AM Report Abuse
yvonne_hector2009 wrote:

my husband seems to enjoy sex even more now that im pregnant.I thought he would'nt enjoy it as much but he actually wants it more now then he did before i got pregnant.

10/22/2009 08:09:42 PM Report Abuse
secalligaro wrote:

mcakester~To make your boyfriend feel better about having sex to show him that he cant hurt you play with your self!! Or if you don't want to do that then show him online show him facts that it can't hurt you I'm 36 weeks along and my boyfriend and i have sex still and he was just as scared then he relaxed after reading facts about the plus side of having sex. I hope this help you!

10/22/2009 09:33:45 AM Report Abuse
secalligaro wrote:

jessicascasso~My i have had the same thing to help the soreness and burning use a lubrication. I have also asked my doctor and she said its just somethings a prego goes though! Don't worry about it unless you start to bleed.

10/22/2009 09:33:39 AM Report Abuse
april.steward wrote:

My boyfriend won't have sex with me, because he says that he is scared and that he may hurt the baby and I'm 6 months pregnant.

10/19/2009 07:33:21 PM Report Abuse
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