What the Old Wives' Tales Say About Whether You'll Have a Boy or a Girl

Are you having a boy or a girl? These old wives' tales are a fun (but not scientific!) way to guess the sex of your baby.
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Body Changes & How You Carry

Old wives' tales are little more than super-circulated rumors. Never proven to be true, they're sayings and adages that generations of women have passed down to one another regarding family health ("Eating carrots improves your vision"), safe parenting ("Wait an hour after eating before swimming"), and -- most popularly -- pregnancy.

Little is known about the origins of the following old wives' tales regarding how to guess baby's sex, but many pregnant women today still swing chains above their bellies and examine how they're carrying to determine what they're having. Whether you're trying to guess your own baby's gender or looking for shower games for a friend, read on for the top ways women have guessed: boy or girl?

Body Changes

  • If you prefer sleeping on your left side, you'll have a boy. Right side? A girl.
  • Extreme nausea means you are having a girl.
  • If your hands are dry, you are having a boy; soft -- expect a girl.
  • If you're craving citrus, you're having a girl.
  • If your skin breaks out, expect a girl.
  • If you feel graceful during pregnancy, you'll have a girl. Clumsy? It's a boy.
  • If you gain weight in your face, it means you're having a girl.
  • Craving salt? Expect a boy. A little something sweet? You're having a girl.
  • If your right breast is larger than the left, you are having a girl. If the left is larger, a boy.
  • Feeling extremely moody? Expect a girl.

 
How Are You Carrying?

  • If baby is low, expect a boy. High, it's a girl.
  • If you're carrying in front, it's a boy. All around your middle? A girl.

 

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samijo_82007 wrote:

mine are mixed some say boy some say girl. which do i believe? the chinese says girl the other says boy and the wise tales are a mix up of the 2... which is it?

5/21/2012 07:36:27 PM Report Abuse
california100 wrote:

Yeahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!! Thanx

5/15/2012 10:58:19 AM Report Abuse
lindsay446 wrote:

I dont beleive anything I hear,and I realy do not listen you are what you are and carry how your body sees fit,and thats it..just enjoyt it!! thats the key

4/27/2012 05:37:17 AM Report Abuse
silkesoapmom wrote:

My first three pregnancies ended with all girls. I had monring sickness with all of them as well as swelling. However, my diet with all of them was different. This is my forth pregnancy - unexpected - I am exhausted, fatigued, no sickness, dizzy, lightheaded, and feel like I have been "drinking" which I haven't. I am 6 weeks - measuring larger at 9 weeks. Been told that my s/sx conclude twins - but I am not sure. I will be having my first US in 2 weeks. Any suggestions? Gender(s)?

4/5/2012 10:57:53 PM Report Abuse
lachelle_reka wrote:

i am all the opposite...the boy symptoms && im having a girl!

3/8/2012 01:23:09 AM Report Abuse
soljagirlxo04 wrote:

alot of this methods leads to say im having a girl. im always moodie always getting morning sickness all day. and i have alot of people tell me im having a girl.

3/2/2012 10:25:23 PM Report Abuse
gonzalezevelyn745 wrote:

im 16 weeks preg and it said i am having a girl but i dout it cuz ive yet to through up at all its my first baby and everything seems ok the heart beat went from 167 to 156 and none of the old wives tales worked for me only becuz my sytoms are mixed either way i dont care so long as its healthy

2/23/2012 09:52:20 AM Report Abuse
gbugsmommy wrote:

lol this is so wrong. i have a little girl and during my pregnancy with her my skin never broke out, i had absolutely NO nausea the entire pregnancy, i didn't gain any weight in my face (btw, i'm in nursing school and weight gain in the face is NEVER good = PIH), my left boob is/was bigger, i carried in the front and she was low. old wives tales are something that nobody should ever rely on! unless my daughter is the only one to defy all these "rules" lol.

2/13/2012 12:42:11 PM Report Abuse
brittany_wiggins08 wrote:

I never got sick hardly with my daughter...But I am 12 wks and have been going thru the all day sickness! And always heard the 2nd baby, you carry lower. So every pregnancy is different. Its impossible to tell if your having a boy or a girl.

1/8/2012 12:57:04 PM Report Abuse
joshuacarr21 wrote:

We have two boys already and this time we are hoping for a little girl ! It's really hard to tell what a woman is going to have . I do feel a lot different this time , so just maybe it will be a girl :)

12/20/2011 10:12:03 AM Report Abuse
mikylaboyer1 wrote:

im 7 weeks pregnant and my morning sickness is all day sickness and i am always nauseas. i am hoping i have a baby girl and my fiance is hoping so too. if i have a boy i will be fine but a girl would just be amazing lol :)

11/29/2011 07:54:11 PM Report Abuse
alexanderkimbe1 wrote:

i dont know what im haveing im always sick sleepy moody..nasuea my head aches and everything...

10/7/2011 09:49:13 PM Report Abuse
hope278 wrote:

I'ts all just a game. only the ultrasound can tell you a baby's gender for sure. I'm 4 months pregnant with my 1st. ALL the predictions above say girl for me, and I really hope it is a girl. But I'm not gonna get my heart broken. I will be fine with either.

10/3/2011 07:24:10 AM Report Abuse
e3firstclasspr1 wrote:

I know I'm having a girl this time around. I too believe God puts it in your heart what your having, like with my son, I wanted a girl so bad but I knew I was having a boy. With this one, I just know it's a girl. I'm super excited because this will be my boyfriend's first baby and he really wants a girl too. Which I think is fantastic!

9/6/2011 07:55:07 AM Report Abuse
agibson7663 wrote:

HAHA, I like your examples of 'old wives tales' - carrots contain a vitamin called carotene that is used to make the rods in the eye which help you see in dim light. As for 'no swimming after eating' for the body to efficiently digest food, it works best if you aren't doing some kind of exercise - you have a greater chance of getting muscle cramps because instead of only the digestive system or your other muscles using energy they both are!

8/12/2011 01:49:12 PM Report Abuse
Megan04 wrote:

Okay for me those things were totally wrong. Going off the symptoms and the prediction chart I should have had girls with each pregnancy. I had two boys and I'm on baby number 3 and I'm just assuming its a boy.

5/7/2011 09:54:25 PM Report Abuse
glorwill1 wrote:

True that none of these silly symptoms really mean anything, even the ultrasound technician can be occasionally wrong , especially if they say its a girl. I do believe ,however that God puts in your heart what your really having. i have 3 girls. Each time I would have loved to have a boy, but in my heart I knew each one was always a girl. and I love them all! =)

1/13/2011 10:03:44 PM Report Abuse
curlyq17831 wrote:

My husband and I aren't finding out what we are having. I think it's fun to read and guess what the baby might be. We don't care either way, so these types of things just make it fun! You can't take them serious.

12/16/2010 10:21:32 PM Report Abuse
tanya_r_1985 wrote:

I have to say my doctor said to watch out of these kind of things! It doesn't matter how you carry, or what you crave. My doctor calls these MYTHS and said that if we believe in them we will only be disappointed by what we are told! What if all the signs that say you are having a boy turns out to be a girl or if all the signs say you are having a girl and its a boy? Best Bet is to wait until you have your ultrasound to confirm what you are having!! Don't go by these Myths!

10/11/2010 09:54:40 PM Report Abuse
amazonwonder13 wrote:

Don't set your heart to any of the information you get from old wives tales. According to the Chineses calender that everyone I knew swore by, said I was having a boy. My ultrasound confirmed I was having a GIRL. Also, my body is half and half with the descriptions above. I'm carrying my baby to the front like a boy, but like I said it's a girl. Best advice: Have fun with the old wives tales, but wait till the ultrasound before you celebrate.

8/13/2010 05:12:49 PM Report Abuse
mnm15220041 wrote:

i did the the chart thing in my last preg n guess wat it was rite.. i had a girl ..now it says a girl again...but the body changes r totally different.during last pregnancy my skin broke i vommitted the whole 9 months..luvd icecreams n sweet stuff..in short i waz a total disaster..means ugly.not at all graceful..but now its totally different.i luv leeping on my right.luv salty food.but its not a boy..so ostill dont know..fingres crossed...

8/5/2010 05:43:53 PM Report Abuse
stephaniencam wrote:

I dont belive there is any tell-tell sign of what the gender of the baby might be. When I was preg with my first child every sign, test, quiz I took said I would have a girl! I carried like it was a girl and the heartbeat was suppose to indicate it was a girl, but guess what? I have a happy healthy 3 year old boy! I am now preg again with my second child and I am just waiting until the ultra-sound!

8/4/2010 09:42:40 PM Report Abuse
sassygirly2480 wrote:

Ok lol I took this before I knew and I took it again after and both times it was right I am having another boy!!!! Even though both pregnancies have been WAY different!!!

8/3/2010 05:16:46 PM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

Don't belive this chart!! I deeply belived that I was having a boy because the chart said I was, when I went in for my ultrasound it shows I'm having a girl. I was really upset because I really firmly belived I was having a boy. Next time I will not play this game. beware it is not accurate.

7/30/2010 07:58:45 PM Report Abuse
kj.carlisle wrote:

The Chinese calendar was right for me the first time. I had a girl as predicted. I am nine weeks pregnant now with number to and it is saying girl again, so I guess we'll see! I guess having another girl wouldn't be so bad as we already have so much girl stuff. My husband wants a boy though of course!

7/29/2010 08:02:00 AM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

i have 1 son- carried all out front, 140 heartbeat, the chinese thing was accurate, but i puked my guts up. now i'm preggo again- the heartbeat is 169 and the chinese chart says boy. either way it's fun, it keeps you from worrying your kid's going to have 2 heads for awhile, and you have a 50/50 chance of being right.

7/23/2010 03:29:47 PM Report Abuse
brittkisses40 wrote:

im craving EVERYTHING!!! especially sweet stuff i do believe in these myths because i do and feel most of these things like my skin breaking out,sleeping on my right side, and one boob is bigger than the other!!! but im hoping for a girl! all the signs r pointing that way!

7/15/2010 10:18:22 PM Report Abuse
aagnor09 wrote:

i was complete opposite with my kids my son was all the symptoms of a girl and my daughter was all the symptoms of a boy so idk

7/2/2010 12:22:33 PM Report Abuse
shisri80 wrote:

WOW!!! THE BODY CHANGES is sooooooooo wrong with me and my close ones! WE are having a BOY with: Prefering to sleep on my right. my sister and friends had nausea and have a boy each. My hands are soft I have no craving but love citrus anyday and time I have a breakout I feel graceful and It's a boy! My sister gained weight in face and it's boy!

6/29/2010 07:59:21 AM Report Abuse
kitty22lmh2002 wrote:

i been craving friuts,sweet food, and baby been quiet alltime moving sometime like 10 timne a day my belly is high i was wonder if it a girl that what they say and told once before one person say i having a girl cuz she knew signs and guess what i born my first son i dont know if they are right abt girl or boy i go ahead find out in 20 weeks no matter i happy with healthy baby!

6/1/2010 11:13:39 AM Report Abuse
hayes4942 wrote:

how can i tell wheather i am having a boy or a girl if i'm not even 3weeks prego?

5/31/2010 03:02:52 PM Report Abuse
bettywalls1 wrote:

i have tried everthing to find out what i was having with all my kids and somehow i have always came out wrong i have 6 children and i am about to have my 7th child i could not ask for anything better i always wanted a big family never did i know i would have them back to back the ages are 5,4,2,1 and 5month old twin dauthers i found out the sex until they where born

5/26/2010 09:43:19 PM Report Abuse
freyja_krheanna wrote:

they say if the baby is attached to the right its a boy, if its in the leftside its a girl..

5/17/2010 10:50:51 AM Report Abuse
melissa1519 wrote:

Wow. My body must be way off. Everything that is listed above is the exact opposite of what I went through. When I was prego with my son I couldn't get enough citrus fruits, my hands were very soft and he carried very high. Now that I am prego with a girl (20 weeks today) I am carrying really low, I have no nausea, craving nothing but salt and I favor my left side when I sleep. How's that for a prediction? ;)

5/17/2010 10:24:21 AM Report Abuse
buffy_spike99 wrote:

some of the wives tales are true since a had my 1st boy and now 12 years later having another boy weird rite?

5/10/2010 07:45:38 PM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

i like the thought of this because i really am hoping for a girl even though the dr already said its a boy!!! i already have a boy 6 years old and i kinda wanted him to be the protctive brother because all my brothers are younger than me.

4/28/2010 11:36:55 AM Report Abuse
urizaelsa wrote:

i sometimes get sleepy very tired and my stomach isnt that low its high and i do get extremely moody and emotional. what could i be having, boy or girl?

4/16/2010 04:39:33 PM Report Abuse
hardeepmann84 wrote:

it is true if right breast is largerit is boy

4/11/2010 06:21:42 PM Report Abuse
pamela.denty wrote:

this is my first baby and im only in the first trimester, but i think that you reallly sdont know what your having until you see it for yourself or when it comes out. i dont believe the things people say

3/30/2010 10:06:55 PM Report Abuse
shareev_1985 wrote:

I had my periond on time but it was a few dats shorter than normal. I have been sick to my stomach and have had slight cramping. I dont expect my period until around april 11. I took a home test 2days ago but it was negative. Could it be wrong?

3/29/2010 12:46:37 PM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

The chinese chart is not always right. It said last time that I was having a girl and I had a boy. This time it says I am having a boy, so we will see.

3/23/2010 12:28:12 PM Report Abuse
meghansnyder wrote:

The chinese calendar matches all 3 of my babies form when i conceived. It is crazy but it is just something fun to do.

3/22/2010 12:46:19 PM Report Abuse
nicolenorder142 wrote:

ive also heard of going by heartbeat during your first ultrasound, lower the heartbeat better chance of a girl, higher the hearbeat better chance of a boy..sounds crazy to me, every babys heart beat is different

3/8/2010 02:04:30 PM Report Abuse
lilredbarbie wrote:

THE 98% CORRECT WAY TO FIND OUT THE GENDER OF YOUR BABY AS LONG AS YOU ALREADY HAVE A CHILD! CHECK YOUR CHILD'S HAIRLINE ON THE BACK OF THEIR NECK, IF IT GOES STRAIGHT ACROSS YOU WILL HAVE THE SAME GENDER AS YOUR LAST, IF IT COMES TO A POINT IT WILL BE THE OPPOSITE GENDER THAN YOUR LAST. IE: MY HAIRLINE IS STRAIGHT, THEN MY MOM HAD A GIRL, MY SISTERS IS POINTED, MY MOM HAD MY BROTHER, MY BROTHERS IS STRAIGHT, SHE HAD ANOTHER BOY :)

2/27/2010 10:00:09 AM Report Abuse
lelanibostie wrote:

ive had all the boy and girl symptoms wat do i do????????????help(first pregnancy im kinda new to this......)plz write back.

2/24/2010 03:47:40 PM Report Abuse
ourfamily870 wrote:

This is my second pregnancy now with my first i had no symptoms, i just hated everything i smelt the same as with this pregnancy, I ended up having a boy my first pregnancy, but I vomitted around my 6th month and 8th month. My sister was the same way in both her pregnancies she had a boy first and then a girl. With her girl she had no symptoms at all. So every pregnancy isn't the same and I feel no one can predict nothing about what you are having off of opinions

2/9/2010 01:44:22 PM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

the reason I asked about the chain is on one of the web sites says a string not a chain with a ring

1/10/2010 11:26:44 AM Report Abuse
anonymous wrote:

I did the chain with ring because it is the only thing I could hang on it goes in a cirle so I guess it says a girl, so I took the same chain with the ring and it swings back and forth. Because it wasn't a string does that mean that it isn't right??? help

1/10/2010 11:17:52 AM Report Abuse
babygurlck74 wrote:

the one about dangling a chain with a charm works. i did it formy mom with 4 of her pregnancies and it was right all four times, even after the doctor told her otherwise after her sonograms. I didnt try it with my first, but i am this time!

1/9/2010 04:58:13 PM Report Abuse
stephanietrammell56 wrote:

Sharawhitney I have to ask. I just found out that Im having twins what are your symptoms. I have some of the symptoms of girls like the acne and moodyness and I crave sweet but sour fruit. I have a lot of nausea and I am extremly tired can you help

12/27/2009 01:09:21 PM Report Abuse
JJL72587J wrote:

I think it all depends. My symptoms: acne, craving sour candy, feel clumsy, soft hands, extreme nausea, right side sleeper, carrying low and in front! I am having a boy!

12/27/2009 11:51:22 AM Report Abuse
anniezylo wrote:

my grandma always said that about if its high or low exspect a girl or a boy and i believe in these tales because she ways always righ...[=

12/24/2009 10:31:36 PM Report Abuse
sharawhitney wrote:

These methods don't work if your having twins, Im having Faternal twins and the predictions say that I could go eather way so mabe they do work and im having one of each

12/17/2009 08:15:27 PM Report Abuse
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