Birth Story: One Woman's VBAC

Amy tells her story of a c-section followed by a vaginal delivery.
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Introduction

Now I should state up front that I'm not one of those women who feel she failed as a "woman" because she underwent a c-section. At the time I didn't feel I had missed a self-actualizing experience by not going through labor "naturally." Sure, I felt like I had missed out on my own Lifetime movie-of-the-week labor scene that all women dream about. You know the one. I would be pushing and screaming, making jokes with my husband. Sweat would be pouring down my face but nevertheless I'd look gorgeous. The doctor would shout out, "You have a healthy baby girl." And then my husband and I would look adoringly at each other, he'd kiss me on the forehead, and in a day or so I'd be back in my size-4 pants. Yes I missed this la-la land fantasy. So does everyone. As long as I had a healthy baby, I didn't feel I had missed much else.

That was my first daughter. My c-section babe. My second daughter was a vaginal delivery. Like most things in life, both have their advantages and their disadvantages.

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ashley.kasson wrote:

I'm 34 weeks now and I have a 14 month old daughter. I got pregnant seven months after having Tessa. She was a breech baby so I had a c-section. I've been told by my doctor a repeat c-section is smart because I got pregnant before the recommended year, but I was told by another doctor I should try for a VBAC. I'm very torn and not sure what to do. I'm going towards the VBAC because I want more children. What are your thoughts?

3/29/2012 08:33:36 PM Report Abuse
dentophilia1 wrote:

I'm 34ws and I'm obsessed with VBAC, your story was really inspiring.. my 1st delivery was an emergency c section due to failure to progress, i know my chances are low but it worth a try

12/30/2011 12:27:45 AM Report Abuse
Candyg0919 wrote:

positive thinker... i feel the same way, im 33 1/2 weeks nd very nervous of having a natural birth or c section...im open to what ever the dr ends up doing as long as i have a healthy bby boy...

8/18/2011 06:47:24 PM Report Abuse
lissa10 wrote:

Great story, all wonderful points! I am pregnant with my 4th child. First two were vaginal deliveries, #3 was breech so he was C-section, for #4 I am hoping and praying for a VBAC! Thanks for the article it was very "hit the nail on the head". :)

5/19/2011 11:30:34 AM Report Abuse
zedrekrodriguez wrote:

hello women like u inspire me too im 34 wks and my 1st was a csection in 2006. my doctor told me he agrees with the vbac but either way eventhough i want a vbac the thought of risk that something can happen to me or my lil one scares me. but i also have relatives that haved vbacs. i never signed a release form but i think was it is, is that u cant go back n sue hospital or docs in case of something gone bad.

11/11/2010 10:48:16 PM Report Abuse
slwrench_2000 wrote:

I had to go to a midwife for my VBAC due to most doctors wanted to schedual a c-sec at 39 weeks and I said no way. I ended up loving the midwife experience and had my VBAC after telling a doctor on call at the hospital that i was not going to "get it over with" by having a c-sec while he was the doctor at the hospital. I have no problem telling doctors that they are not always correct in what a woman and he baby want and need

7/31/2010 12:04:27 PM Report Abuse
pifrwd wrote:

A release form is just something that says you can't sue the hospital if something happens to you or your baby. If you read about all the VBAC statistics, complications are fairly rare, and some studies show less problems occuring with VBACs than with repeat c-sections. You have to weigh the pros and cons and think about what is going to be best for you personally. I believe strongly that doctors should be encouraging woman to have natural births if they are good canidates for them.

7/16/2010 12:18:35 PM Report Abuse
kel0105 wrote:

My first daughter was vaginal birth with no difficulties, my second daughter was breech so she was a scheduled section, now my third (I am 34 weeks), I was hoping for VBAC but I was told of the risks and that I would have to sign a "release" form to attempt VBAC. Not sure what this releases the dr or hospital from but sounds too risky to me. Did anyone else have to sign papers?

5/14/2010 11:24:26 AM Report Abuse
egelony wrote:

Thank u for sharing your story. I'm 33weeks with my 2nd baby now and i'd go for vbac too. I had my 1st son in 2005 through a c-section. I really want to have a vaginal birth. So, do u think walking around a lot helps? Thanks...

3/4/2010 11:23:27 AM Report Abuse
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