Choosing Your Labor Support

Choosing who will stay with you throughout your childbirth experience is a big deal. Learn how to make the right decision.
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What Is Labor Support?

Throughout history, women in labor have been helped and comforted by other women. Those serving as "support" stayed throughout labor and provided physical comfort, emotional support, and information to the woman in labor.

While childbirth has changed a great deal from early civilization, the benefits of labor support have not. Today, labor support can be provided by a man or a woman. In addition to coaching women through labor and catering to their physical and emotional needs, today's labor support serve as the main source of communication between the woman in labor and the medical professionals during delivery.

It's very important that you talk with your choice of labor support before delivery about what you want from childbirth. Make sure to clearly express your feelings on cesareans, vacuum extractions, forceps delivery, episiotomies, other labor complications, and pain-relieving drugs. This person will then be your representative in labor when you may be too tired or in too much pain to discuss your feelings with the doctor.

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sarah2305 wrote:

Wow. . . . reading this story has got me worried! My boyfriend very much wants to be there, and I want him to be there. But he is not what I would ever call a "calming presence" In fact I'll probably be the one trying to get him to calm the heck down. I'd better be looking for a doula! And hoping I can have two people in there.

8/30/2011 12:59:05 PM Report Abuse
tnllofton wrote:

I've chosen my older brother. He has been with me my whole life (yes, and our parents too) and he knows me better than I know myself. He works with very ill children so he's been around a hospital. Moreover, he may just be the only person who can tell me "shut up", "push", "suck it up", "great job", etc. Who better than my calming force to be in the room with me and his new niece/nephew?

6/8/2011 05:02:36 PM Report Abuse
willisfam wrote:

Think long and hard about who you want to be with you at the time of labor. It is completely your decision. Here is a great blog about labor and who they choose and why: http://momscompass.blogspot.com/2010/12/labor-who-do-you-want-with-you.html

12/29/2010 12:07:15 PM Report Abuse
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