SPECIAL OFFER: - Limited Time Only!
(The ad below will not display on your printed page)

Say YES to your FREE SUBSCRIPTION today! Simply fill in the form below and click "Subscribe". You'll receive American Baby® magazine ABSOLUTELY FREE! (U.S. requests only)

Email:

First Name:

Last Name:

Address:

City:

State:

Zip:

Mother's Birth State: 
Is this your first child?
Yes
No
Due date or child's birthdate:
Your first FREE issue of American Baby® Magazine packed with great tips and expert advice will arrive within 4 to 6 weeks. In the meantime, your e-mail address is required to access your account and member benefits online, but rest assured that we will not share your e-mail address with anyone. Free subscription is subject to publisher's qualifications. Publisher bases number of issues served on birth and due dates provided. Click here to view our privacy policy.

Building Baby Sleep Habits

Question

At what age can babies be spoiled by holding them while they sleep? My 3-week-old often wakes up as soon as I lay her down.

Answer

Kids at this age are already actively trying to learn how to fall asleep and will begin to develop habits that help them to drift off to sleep. If you hold her while sleeping, she will probably come to expect that. I wouldn't call this spoiled at all, but a habit you may or may not want to encourage. For some families, the best choice is to sleep together. For others, teaching the baby to sleep independently is preferred. To do this, you want to look for opportunities when she is quite drowsy so you can lay her down almost asleep. If she rouses or awakens, often the best choice is to stay with her and to pat her gently but firmly to help her settle herself, without picking her back up. Of course, sometimes she will fall asleep other ways and that is fine. But you want to look for opportunities for her to learn.

Again, either way is fine. You don't have to do it either way. It is not spoiling, just building sleep habits. You can choose one way now and then switch later, although the switch often means a few long, exhausting weeks.

 

The information on this Web site is designed for educational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for informed medical advice or care. You should not use this information to diagnose or treat any health problems or illnesses without consulting your pediatrician or family doctor. Please consult a doctor with any questions or concerns you might have regarding your or your child's condition.