Lessons From a Zen Mommy

Do what you're doing while you're doing it.

Mom translation: Stop multitasking!

An important teaching in Zen is that our entire life is happening right now. The past is over and the future hasn't happened yet. Therefore, all we have is the present. Our do-it-now, do-it-fast lifestyle tricks us into thinking we can do everything at the same time and not miss out. Who hasn't tried to talk to a friend while playing Candy Land with her child? For me it's always a fail. Both friend and kid feel ignored, and I feel inadequate. Then there are good days, when I remember to make a choice and stick with it. If Azalea and I are reading, I resist taking a call until we're finished. Doing what I'm doing while I'm doing it makes us all happier.

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