Moms Sound Off On Education
Fix Our Schools
Education was on everyone's mind: Standards are low, schools never have enough money, and parents have too few choices. O'Brien, a mother of four, asked the group for a show of hands, and all the women agreed that schools aren't up to snuff. "American students are not necessarily being prepared for the world that they're entering," O'Brien said. "So how do we close the achievement gap? And what's the best way to raise those standards?"
Many of the moms with the strongest opinions work in schools and understand the struggles of both parents and teachers. "My concern is that the push toward pencil-and-paper tests, and then assessing teachers and students solely on those exams, doesn't focus on the whole student," said Allison Casal-Dunn, 30, Democrat, a special-ed teacher and mother of a 2-year-old.
Some moms were frustrated with education spending decisions. "I'm not against unions, but some of the salaries and pensions that teachers and administrators in the public sector earn aren't sustainable," said Jessica Grant, 34, Republican, mom of children ages 7, 4, and 21 months. "Wouldn't that money be put to better use by putting more teachers in the classroom?"
Alicia Harper, 28, a committed Obama voter and mom of a 4-year-old, attended struggling inner-city schools in Brooklyn and taught elementary school there for several years. "The achievement gap is so devastating that by the time they are 9 years old, children in low-income areas are already three or four grade levels behind their more privileged peers, and it gets wider with every school year," she said. "Now that my son is in pre-K, I can make sure he's got all the resources he needs. But for the kids who don't? It's tragic."
O'Brien summed up the scope of the challenge: "The reality is, school budgets are being cut; educators are being cut; music, even sports, are being cut. How do we figure out how to both increase those things that we see as valuable and at the same time balance a budget?"
Amy Julia Becker, 35, who defines herself as a moderate, has a 61/2-year-old daughter with Down syndrome, as well as a 4-year-old and a 20-month-old. Her older daughter received early intervention from the time she was born, sometimes with four in-home therapy visits per week, and now she's in a mainstream classroom. "Schools are set up to say, 'it costs x number of dollars per child,' but it costs a lot more to educate my daughter than it does to educate another child," she said. "We need to figure out what we want in our community. Do we want kids educated side by side? Do we want to send kids out of district? There are a lot of conversations we need to have."
Natalie Diaz, 35, Republican, a mother of 7-year-old twins, agreed. "One of my twins has special needs. His disabilities are not severe enough to put him into a specialized program, but he's not high-functioning enough to be in a gen-ed class with 35 students. So we opted for Catholic school, where he's in a class with only 22 other kids. Knock on wood, everything is turning out perfectly. But I feel the education system hasn't given me any options."
Even if it is expensive, moms agree that a quality education that prepares all children for the future should be a national priority. "When you hear individual stories of kids who fall through the cracks, it seems brutally unfair and makes you want to cry," said O'Brien. "This seems to be a middle- income problem today, and I feel like there's been a shift from when I was growing up. Being middle income doesn't guarantee that regular, perfectly fine public school anymore."