Our Readers' Best Bedtime Routines

End Battles Over Books

Sleeping Child

When my daughter was younger, we struggled with how long to read before bed. She always wanted a story, but sometimes she'd take so long getting ready for bed that we'd have only a few minutes before lights-out. My solution was to organize the books by length: short books on the top bookshelf, medium ones in the middle, and the longest on the bottom. Because she liked to pick her books, I would say, "Tonight we have time for a book from the top shelf," or, if we had more time, "We can read something from the bottom shelf tonight." She was motivated to get ready for bed more quickly, and as a bonus, it was an easy way to keep the books organized.

Anna-Maria Goossens
Holyoke, MA

Show Them, Don't Tell Them

We created pictures of what our sons need to do each night before bed. The pictures are hung on the wall with Velcro in chronological order, and the boys get to move each one to a "done" column once they complete the task. Sometimes they'll find a star instead of a task; that means they get to choose a treat from our prize box. We've been doing this for more than ten years now, and it makes bedtime go smoothly.

Christine Piper
Copake, NY

Banish Bad Thoughts

Our kids were often scared of the dark and anxious about having bad dreams. One evening, my husband and I came up with a creative way to handle those fears. We took turns "filling the corners" of the bedroom with imaginary things: mountains of Legos, fancy fairy houses, a slide that went from the bedroom to a favorite playground, endless piles of candy, friendly baby animals, and so on. Thanks to this technique, we reassured our kids with positive thoughts and gave them a solid defense against nighttime worries. Although our son is now 10 and our daughter is 8, during stressful weeks, we still get requests from them to "fill the corners."

Cindy Wian
Schuylerville, NY

Keep Track of Time

In trying to fit in homework, dinner, and family time each evening, my husband and I would often lose track of the time and end up letting our daughter stay up too late or hurrying to get her into bed. I decided to set an alarm on my cell phone for 7:50 p.m. Sundays through Thursdays. With the help of this reminder, she now has plenty of time for putting on pajamas, brushing teeth, and getting tucked in. This simple idea has really helped our daughter establish a nightly routine.

Shelly Frederick
Bella Vista, AR

Offer a Free Pass

To help my son learn to stay in bed, I made a get-out-of-bed-free pass. Once he's tucked in, he can present his pass for something quick like a hug or a drink of water, but after that, he has to stay put for the rest of the evening.

John McCreary
Amherst, MA


Originally published in the September 2013 issue of FamilyFun magazine.

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