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Wimpy & Whiny: Understanding Emotionally Sensitive Children
My 6-year-old daughter, Stella, seemed to have developed into a first-class wimp. She shrieked when I tried to brush the knots out of her hair, had a meltdown whenever I told her no, and burst into tears when her little sister teased her. I used to think Stella was a drama queen. But then I talked to an expert and learned that she wasn't acting.
Stella has what many experts call emotional sensitivity. "It's a common personality trait that causes some kids to feel physical and emotional pain more deeply than others do," explains Jeremy Schneider, a family therapist in New York City. Children are born emotionally sensitive, but their behavior may not seem out of the ordinary until age 5 or 6 when their peers cut back on tantrums and meltdowns. Although kids won't outgrow these feelings, they can learn to control their reactions -- in essence, toughen up. That's what happened with Stella. Follow these steps to help your child manage her emotions.
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I disagree. This describes my best friend as a child and I think it's so sad to think she was so often pushed to "toughen up" and didn't receive compassionate responses and helpful coping tools. Thankfully, she survived her childhood (which I remember well) and is now a compassionate and successful adult; but I wonder how her life might have been different had someone suggested this way of working with her to her parents.
8/23/2011 03:20:57 PM Report Abuseone of the most ridiculous articles I've ever read.
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