6 Ways to Make the Holidays More Meaningful

Create Rituals

A unique tradition teaches kids that they're part of something special—your family—and binds this holiday to future ones.

"One year, the day before Christmas, I was about to snap. So I threw food in a pack and told my family we were having a picnic. Though confused, they went along with it. We live in a mountain valley, so getting to a secluded spot was easy. The downside: It was so cold that the food froze! Our 'Doomsday Picnic' has become a tradition (we go better prepared now!). It's a time to relax—we love it." Lynnette F. Harris; Millville, Utah

"Every year during the holidays our entire family sits down to watch National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. It makes us realize that we are not as dysfunctional as we might think!" Betsy Gravalec; Marietta, Georgia

"To help our kids really understand the holiday, on Christmas morning we throw a birthday party—complete with cake—to celebrate Jesus's birth. Sometimes the kids seem as excited about the balloons as they are about the gifts!" Kelly Wilson Mason; Ohio

"Rather than giving gifts to all 17 family members, we each draw a name and then give the money we would have spent on Hanukkah gifts for everyone else as a donation to charity. Before opening presents, we all share what we did with the money to benefit someone less privileged than we are." Carol Hochman Dierksen; Orlando, Florida

"Every year, when the first snow falls I make 'First Day of Snow' fudge, just like my mom did. You could make it any time, but it just wouldn't taste the same." Kris Wittenberg; Eagle, Colorado

Originally published in the December 2009 issue of Parents magazine.

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