Birthday Party Theme Ideas for 2- to 4-Year-Olds

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Teddy Bear Picnic

Throw a picnic party, indoors or out. Encourage guests to bring their favorite teddy bear along for the big event. Use a picnic basket for a centerpiece, and put sandwiches, cookies, and lemonade on the menu.

Game: Bear Paw Relay Race. You will need two pair of heavy socks or mittens. For each player, you'll need one small cookie (Teddy Grahams are a good choice) wrapped in tissue paper or other easy-tear wrapping. Divide the guests into two teams. At the signal, each player must put on the socks or mittens, crawl across the floor to the cookie dish, take out one cookie, crawl back to the team, unwrap the cookie, and pop it in his or her mouth. (It's tricky with paw-hands!) Then give the mittens or socks to the next player. The first team to finish wins.

Party favor: Bear stickers.

Activity: Make fun bear-shaped balloons.

Planning timeline:

  • One month before party day: Make guest list, plan menu, send invitations.
  • Two weeks before party day: Shop for party favors, paper goods, and items needed for the relay race. Ask a friend or relative who has RSVP'd to act as your assistant on party day.
  • One week before party day: Shop for menu items.

Crayon Party

If there's one toy every toddler can agree on, it's the ever popular crayon. A crayon party, with plenty of color choices for everyone, is sure to get the creative juices flowing. Invest in some boxes of fun colors and sizes -- nice big fat crayons are an extra bonus.

Game: Color a Tablecloth. Take a page from your favorite kid-friendly restaurant. Tape sturdy white paper over the dining room table and turn the mini artists loose. Grown-ups can join in too (if they can muscle in a place at the table). Save your tablecloth as a memento for your birthday boy or girl.

Party favor: Bouquet of new crayons. Go for some unusual colors and shapes.

Planning timeline:

  • One month before party day: Make guest list, plan menu, send invitations.
  • Two weeks before party day: Shop for party favors, paper goods, and items needed for the tablecloth art project. Ask a friend or relative who has RSVP'd to act as your assistant on party day.
  • One week before party day: Shop for menu items.

Frog Party

Have a hopping good time with this fun theme. It's a little off the beaten path, but certainly won't require much explanation. Everyone loves a happy hoppy frog. It's good for indoor or outdoor parties, and most materials will be easy to find.

Game: Frog Pass Relay. You will need two large round green balloons. Divide your guests into two equal teams and ask each team to line up. Each player at the head of a line gets a balloon. At "Go!" players on each team pass the balloon frog over their heads to their teammates. The balloon passes head over head until it gets to the end of the line and that player take the balloon and runs around to the front of the line and begins passing it backward again. The race continues until every player has had a turn at the front of the line. First team to do this wins.

Party favor: Rubber frog toys.

Planning timeline:

  • One month before party day: Make guest list, plan menu, send invitations.
  • Two weeks before party day: Shop for party favors, paper goods, and items needed for the balloon pass game. Ask a friend or relative who has RSVP'd to act as your assistant on party day.
  • One week before party day: Shop for menu items.

Sources: The Best Birthday Parties Ever! A Kid's Do-It-Yourself Guide (The Millbrook Press) by Kathy Ross; Great Parties for Kids (Williamson Publishing Co.) by Nancy Fyke; Pin the Tail on the Donkey, and Other Party Games (Morrow Junior Books/New York) by Joanna Cole and Stephanie Calmenson; Rainy Days and Saturdays (Workman Publishing Co.) by Linda Hetzer

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