___ Narrow down the theme or activities to what your child loves. Open-ended themes such as wheels, a garden party, or under the sea, allow you to mix up decorations and colors.
___ Go with your strengths. Do what you're good at and get help for the rest. If you're not such a great baker, buy the cake or cupcakes, and lead the kids in a rousing sing-along.
___ Ask a friend to take photos or videotape the event so you can be in the pictures, too.
___ Do as much as possible of the prep work and decorating beforehand.
___ Decorate the cake with small plastic figures of your child's favorite characters.
___ To prevent choking, avoid serving young children popcorn, hard candies, hot dogs, raw carrots, grapes, and nuts. Opt for Mylar balloons instead of latex ones.
___ Polaroids, board books, rubber duckies, bubbles, or even favorite song lyrics (printed and stapled) can add splash to goody bags.
___ Keep it simple. Remember: Your child's life will be full of birthdays. If you don't get it perfect this time, you can try again next year!
Excerpted from the AmericanBaby.com Ages & Stages weekly baby newsletter, Week 51.
Originally published on AmericanBaby.com, July 2006.
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