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Make Room For Romance


Parent or parent-to-be? You still deserve a little romance!

As a busy parent or parent-to-be, it's difficult to make time for romance. With a little effort and creativity you can renew the excitement and attraction that brought you and your partner together. Try these tips to inject more love and romance into your day:


  • Take a long, leisurely bath together. Enjoy a glass of champagne or juice with sparkling water, and drop a cherry in it.

  • Give each other a slow, soothing shoulder massage. Try using oils scented with a sensual aroma like jasmine, rose, or musk.

  • Play exotic or soft music. Dance slowly by candlelight.

  • Rent a romantic video and snuggle under a soft blanket. You can even try watching it "au naturel."

  • Feed each other. Try chocolates and fresh fruits.

  • Tell your partner what first attracted you to him. Then talk about what you love the most now.

  • Look through photos taken when you first met. Remember how you felt when you started falling in love.

  • Relive your first date. Return to the scene or re-create it as closely as possible.

  • Sit together in the moonlight and just hold hands. Let nature take its course.


Getting a babysitter is optional. Just wait until the kids are asleep and stay up a little later to give each other some undivided attention.

All content here, including advice from doctors and other health professionals, should be considered as opinion only. Always seek the direct advice of your own doctor in connection with any questions or issues you may have regarding your own health or the health of others.


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elizabethaconner, my husband is in the military also, when he has to leave again we're going to send little dvd tapes and voice recordings back and forth. The last time he left he made a book for me and wrote down bible verses, his enterpretation of what it meant to him and and inspirational message for me for every day. Every month or so there was an envelope taped to the book and I went on some sort of scavenger hunt. It was so much fun and I felt very close to him when he came back. It made the time go by so much faster and when he called we always had something fun to talk abt.
4/2/2008 5:34 PM CDT
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maxmondray wrote:
At this point, I am at a lost of words of my relationship. We barely talk and i feel soooo unattractive due to the added weight. If I voice my feelings it turns into an argument. I think it's time...
1/9/2008 11:05 AM CST
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I think these are fabulous ideas. In fact we used to take very long baths together with a bottle of wine. What I can't figure out is when to try this stuff now?! If baby is sleeping husband usually is too- or we're busy- or baby is screaming. Or if the time is perfect, I'm not in the mood (which I rarely am these days). Does anyone have any suggestions?
8/8/2007 3:14 PM CDT
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I like this article and it really helps when the couple is a couple in the same space. My husband is in the military and gone for months at a time. Any suggestions on how to have the romance long distance? There is only so much we can do before rules get broken.
8/1/2007 10:00 PM CDT
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