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iceskt4evr
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Getting re-married and moving abroad.

Hi everyone,

 

I'm not sure where to begin. My fiance usually says at the beginning. I have been divorced now for almost six years. My ex husband and I didn't always get along, but we now share custody of our six year old son. We get along ok now. For the most part.

 

I am getting re-married in September and then I am moving overseas to be with my husband who is the Royal Air Force over in the UK. I will be with him until he is out of the service and then we will be moving back to the states.

 

What I'm worried about is, is the right thing to do? My son is also seeing a psychologist and a psychiatrist and those doctors recommend that right now he be with one parent full time, and around other kids his age. He has a half brother from his dad and step-mom. While when he is with me, it's just him and I.

 

I am afraid that if I leave it will hurt him and do more harm than good. But at the same time, I feel that right now, it's something that I need to do. I know that makes me sound like bad mother and a horrible person.

 

But if anyone has any advice for me, I would most appreciate it.

 

Thank you.

Alicia