Re: Trying to decide y/n on a second...
02-15-2014 04:35 PM
I was sure we were happy with our son as an only child and that we wouldn't try for another. Then we suffered a loss in the family and it became painfully obvious to me how important it was for my husband to have the support of his brother and even though I, his wife, was there for him....it was different. His brother was someone he grew up with and the feelings (towards the loss of a parent)were mutual and just understood . They were able to support one another and be there for one another differently than I could. Shortly after, we tried for #2, we wanted our son to have family even after we are gone and we want him to have a sibling bond that is unbreakable. We now have 2 little boys. ..one 6 weeks and one almost 4.
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