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MrsAColeman
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Registered: ‎01-09-2014

miscarriages

I have had 3 miscarriages and just found out I am 5 weeks pregnant. Does anybody have any tips and ideas about not being so over the top and scared about having another one. I had a check up before I got pregnant and the doctor said I was fine but I'm still so scared.
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jessieaherold
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Registered: ‎11-02-2013

Re: miscarriages

 

          I am so sorry for your losses. :smileysad:  I just recently experienced a missed miscarriage as well in Dec, this was my first pregnancy. I was devasted to find out when I went in for my first ultrasound that they were unable to detect a heartbeat. I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you and send some good vibes your way!  I know it is hard to relax and try not to think about it.  We are waiting for clearance from my doctor so we can start TTC again but I am nervous that any other pregnancy will turn out like my first pregnancy.  Again sending good vibes your way and keeping my fingers crossed for you!  :smileyhappy:

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Bubblebug17
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Registered: ‎01-21-2014

Re: miscarriages

I too am just coming off of a miscarriage in July and I just found out I am pregnant (almost 5 weeks).  I am terrified I will have another miscarriage.  I over-think every cramp, everything I eat, everything I do.  This is going to be a long 12 weeks.... What have others done to help keep their minds off of it? 

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nursedebbie2003
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Registered: ‎01-24-2014

Re: miscarriages

I am on my 12th pregnancy, all of the past ones have ended with a loss. I usually get to 4-5 weeks and lose the pregnancy. We just found out that we are pregnant and we are 7 weeks today! Our Hcg was 4,607. This has never gotten over 900.

I completely understand the worrying and the uncontrolable fear. I too have freaked about twinges...which have been gas bubbles. I had cramping which ended up being a pulled groin muscle. My hubs has gotten sick and I refuse to sleep in the room with him.

What I have found to help me is praying to God and putting all my fears and pregnancy in his hands. When I feel myself getting to stressed I listen to soothing music and google like crazy anything and everything about pregnancies and I have found reading others worry posts and finding that things have worked out for them helps calm me and renew my hope

 

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jessieaherold
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Registered: ‎11-02-2013

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jessieaherold
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Re: miscarriages

 

          CONGTRATS!!!   I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you nursedebbie! We have recently started TTC again and I am extremely nervous about how things will go but like you said I am leaving it in the Lords hands.  I also have been googling lke crazy and it does help to read others posts. Agian I will be keeping my fingers crossed and wish you and your hubby all the best. Hope he feels better soon!

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nursedebbie2003
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Registered: ‎01-24-2014

Re: miscarriages

Thank you jessieaherold. My husband seems to slowly easing as the days go by. He made a joke about being barefoot and in the kitchen today. This is a good sign.

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