I feel your pain. I had 13 YEARS of secondary infertility. After I had my oldest daughter, I went on the pill for a couple of years until we were ready to start trying again. Years and years went by, I spoke to my the Nurse Practioner at my OB/GYN a few times and she just kind of blew me off. So years more went by, I got divorced (not because of that), another year or so went by and got remarried. We went several years married before we decided to try to get pregnant. I had one short pregnancy that broke my heart. After of over a year trying after that, I was FINALLY sent to a fertility specialist and found out that I have endometriosis. Had surgery to have that removed and finally...FINALLY had #2. Petrified the whole pregnancy...afterall, I was 37 and not in my prime by this time.
I guess the short story is don't give up until they run out of answers. I know your pain and I feel for you. <3
I understand the pain u all are going through! And iam so sorry. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage we were both devastated and it took 3 yrs later to get pregnant with my daughter who is now 17. I decided to go on the pill n wait to have another one so when we finally did after a few years of trying nothing because I was keeping track of everything. So I stopped worrying and stressing and kept myself busy with running and exercising. 10 years later I had another daughter and after her I decided not to take any kind of contraceptives. I kept running and doin my exercises then 2 years later I had my son and a year later I had another son. Whew! The point I'm trying to make is don't stress yourself out that is the main key and I know its hard to do at first but it will pay off in the end. Just take it one day at a time Oh and by the way I'm expecting again and we couldnt be more happy! Good luck ladies!!