28 Hours

I calculated this while I was sitting in class yesterday. Ideally, that’s how many hours I think I need in a day. 24 is just not cutting it.

I need 24 hours to do the things I usually do… commute, classes, clinic, commute, pick up Caroline at daycare, make dinner, feed both of us and the pets, clean up around the house, wash diapers, give her a bath, put her to bed, study. (Most nights, Tyler doesn’t get home until she’s already in bed.) Then another hour so that I could spread out my day and not be constantly on the run, or maybe even use my lunch hour to actually *gasp* eat lunch. Another hour to spend with Caroline. Another hour to have some time to myself. And the last hour to SLEEP!

I love my life. I’m glad I went back to school, and the reason I’m constantly racing around is because I’m being productive, and I like that. But I have to admit I’m feeling a little run down these days. I came down with pneumonia last week, and spent the week in bed. Once I stopped feeling like I was literally going to die, it was kind of nice to just lay there and play on the internet and sleep whenever I wanted. Of course I had to pay for it when I finally went back to school on Monday, since a whole week off has caused my schedule to explode in my face, but it was still nice while it lasted. I am pretty sure I went back before I was fully rested and healed, but I couldn’t really justify taking any more time off.

Have I mentioned how awesomely productive I am these days? It is pretty satisfying how quickly things have come back to me after being gone for so long, so quickly after starting clinic. I guess a year isn’t really that much time after all. We get letters evaluating our performance every couple of months, and my latest letter congratulated me on my progress. Which made me very, very happy. I have to admit that it’s not really me being successful, though… it’s been a huge advantage to be good friends with people in my old class, because when they need to give something away to an underclassman (like a denture patient), they think of me first.

Whatever. I am still patting myself on the back. :)

In other news, today is the anniversary of Caroline’s coming-home day! We got to take her home from the NICU exactly one year ago. The nightmare was over, exactly one year ago. I smile whenever I think about that day. We were so nervous to have her away from the nurses and the monitors, but so happy and excited to finally have her home with us. I never really allowed myself to believe that she was coming home until we actually had her in her carseat, and we were walking through the hospital lobby, grinning at each other. It was the first day I really felt like she was mine.

We didn’t do anything to “celebrate”, since her coming-home day is relatively close to her birthday (even though it seemed like years at the time), but I did give her extra squeezes and love today. Even though I’m sure it will be just another day to her, I know I’ll always remember February 18 as the first real day of our life as a family of three.

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  1. by MJS

    On February 18, 2010 at 9:58 pm

    I know the blog is a place for you, but I also wonder: how Tyler is doing these days? Good luck with everything, and here's wishing for those extra four hours in the day… I hear you on that in a big way! :)

  2. by Kelly

    On February 19, 2010 at 8:58 am

    Glad everything is going well! Keep us posted on how the lil lady big is doin'.

  3. by jCam

    On March 1, 2010 at 8:05 pm

    Hey Julia, I gave you an award :-) http://jcamsfreakinawesomeblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/more-love-for-awesome.html

  4. by MJS

    On March 3, 2010 at 1:27 am

    … hey, I love the new background too! :)