7 Ways to Prepare for Baby (and save your sanity!)
With the birth of our sweet little Adelyne, my mind is obviously pretty centered on baby related things right now. Life with a new baby is such an exciting time and I’m loving these days of first smiles and coos, soft baby skin, lots of cuddles while nursing and the interrupted nights of sleep. Alright, I don’t really love the interrupted nights but hey, it’s just part of the baby package!
But as much I love this newborn stage, I’m always amazed at how much time and energy it takes to care for a new baby! I mean, seriously, some days it can seem like that is all you get done. And then add being sleep deprived to that and life can quickly start to feel overwhelming!
I’ve been grateful over and over these last several weeks for the time I took to do things ahead of time to make these baby days just a little bit easier. This is our fourth child (we have one in Heaven) and think I’m finally getting this whole “prepare ahead for those newborn days” thing a little bit down. I can’t stress enough how much planning ahead has helped alleviate my stress level and helped me enjoy these days as much as a busy, sleep deprived mom can. Because as you moms with older children already know, these tiny newborn baby days pass so fast. And if you aren’t intentional, you’ll blink and they’ll be gone and you’ll find that you didn’t even get the chance to enjoy them!
So, here are the 7 things that I recommend doing ahead of time to prepare for baby and save your sanity at the same time!
1. Stock the freezer with food
In those first several weeks post baby, there is nothing like being able to go to the freezer, pull out dinner and have one less thing to worry about! I like to stock my freezer in the following three ways.
* FREEZER MEALS
I make a variety of casseroles and soups as well as meat loaf/meat balls and marinated chicken and then stick them in the freezer. Then all I need to is to pull out one of these and I’ll have my dinner mostly complete once I bake or heat up the dish.
I also like to make extra homemade bread, homemade granola, homemade breakfast sandwiches and even cookies to put in the freezer too. Really, anything like that, especially if it’s something you typically eat anyway, is very helpful to have ready to pull out to use when needed.
Tip: Be sure to label your foods with the baking/reheating instructions as well as any additional instructions. This will save you the hassle of having to find the recipe to get that info later. Plus if your husband or someone else is helping you, it will make it super easy for them to know what needs to happen!
* CONVENIENCE FOODS
While not as healthy, sometimes convenience foods like chicken nuggets, frozen pizzas and fish sticks are just nice to have. As I see deals for these, I’ll grab the occasional box to give me a little bonus boost. We try to avoid prepared foods but sometimes, well, I think they have their place!
* COOKED MEAT
While not as handy as having a whole dish prepared, it’s also nice to have some already cooked chicken, ground beef and even sausage on hand to speed up dinner prep. This is especially great to throw in soups because you don’t even need to take the time to thaw it! But I like to use them to make lots of other things as well.
Tip: Depending what you plan to use the ground beef for, it’s helpful to go ahead and cook it up with the onion already added. Or if you plan to use it for tacos, go ahead and add the taco seasoning to it before you freeze it.
2. Stock up on household basics
It takes a little bit to get back into the swing of things with grocery shopping, especially if you have other children as well as the new baby. You’ll make your life a whole lot easier if you gradually stock up on the basic pantry and household items that your family typically uses.
You can do this a couple of ways. I know one person who, in order to not stress her grocery budget, simply buys an extra item or two each week for several months before baby arrives. Since I deal shop and tend to stockpile a bit anyway, I prefer to just gradually stock up on these items as they go on sale. I often start buying extra as much as 4 months before baby arrives. This allows me to buy the items at really low prices while at the same time stocking up.
Here are some of the things you might find helpful to stock up on:
- laundry detergent
- toiletries like toothpaste, body wash and shampoo
- hand soap
- paper plates for the first week or so (especially if you don’t have a dishwasher)
- pasta and rice
- toilet paper and tissues
- thank you cards and stamps (not really a household basic, but you’ll be so glad to have them on hand!)
3. Stock up on diapers and wipes
I highly recommend having at least several packs of newborn diapers as well as several packs of wipes bought ahead of time to save having to make extra trips to the store. With newborn babies easily going through up to 10 diapers a day, you’ll soon discover that a pack of diapers doesn’t last long at all! Plus, if you buy ahead you can watch for sales and hopefully save yourself some money too.
Planning to stock up on diapers? Check out my 4 Tips on How to Save Money and Build a Diaper Stockpile for even more helpful ideas.
Tip: If you have other children that are still in diapers as well, buy ahead for them too. There is nothing more annoying that realizing at 11 pm. that you just used the last diaper in the house! Ask me how I know!
4. Buy post-baby essentials
When you’re thinking about how to make your life easier after baby, it’s easy to forget your own post-baby needs. But you’ll be grateful to have plenty of pads and/or disposable underwear and ibuprofen/Tylenol on hand. And don’t forget about nursing pads! (If you prefer reusable nursing pads, you can get 5 pairs for free -just pay shipping- when you use code ENBABY at checkout.)
And don’t forget the snacks! When I asked on The Thrifty Frugal Mom Facebook page what people found helpful to do to make things go more smoothly after the birth of a baby reader Monica said this, “Stock up on diapers and plenty of ready to eat snacks. (I was so hungry while breast feeding).”
Some of my favorite go-to snack ideas include Easy 3 Ingredient Healthy Fudge, Energy Bites, nuts and cheese sticks. I also enjoy homemade yogurt and fruit slush too, although both of those are a little harder to eat on the run.
5. Remember the siblings
The arrival of a new baby can be a tough adjustment for older siblings, especially if they aren’t very old themselves. It’s helpful to purchase a few fun toys ahead of time and have them handy to pull out when needed. Or if you are wanting to save money, arrange to borrow a few toys from a friend instead. We also like to go to the library and get a bunch of new books and books on tape. If your children love books as much as ours do, this is a real lifesaver!
You can also prepare a few fun activities to do as well. If you need some ideas, checkout my Pinterest board. If your child is a little older you might also want to consider some of these educational ideas too.
I’ve also found that it’s beneficial to include the children in helping with the new baby as much as possible. They love feeling needed and important! Reader Susie shared a great way of doing this. She said, “Make a small basket for after the baby comes with diapers, wipes, pacifier, burp rag, receiving blanket etc. As you move from room to room, just grab the basket with all the ‘baby items’ including your phone. It helps especially if there’s younger children and want to help. When you move from one area to another just grab your basket!”
6. Line up help
I’m blessed to have my mom come help me for a week after my baby is born. It allows me to sit back, rest, focus on healing and just enjoy my baby while someone else makes sure everything happens. And I’ve been especially grateful to have her be able to take the baby at night those first several days when the baby isn’t settled into any kind of sleep routine and doesn’t want to settle well at night.
With each of our children we’ve also had someone help out a day or two a week for several weeks after that as well. It’s been so nice and I can’t recommend it enough! Sometimes that help has volunteered their services and sometimes we’ve gone looking for someone who is willing. If you don’t think you’ll need help with daily housework, you might still want to consider lining someone up to do your cleaning, do your laundry and/or entertain your older children occasionally to give you a chance to nap.
And by all means, if someone offers to help you, let them! It’s not every day that you have people actually wanting to give you a hand. And they’ll enjoy the blessing of being able to do something for someone else while you’ll hopefully be able to enjoy those newborn days more too as a result!
7. Pre-select birth announcements
Reader Monica O. sent an email with this great idea. She said, “One thing I remember doing that helped and was kind of fun was pre-selecting one or two birth announcements online and filling in as much information as I could before our son was born. Then, after he was born, all I had to do was upload my favorite picture, type in his length and weight, and press the order button. As an added bonus, a helpful friend gave us some baby themed return address labels as a gift that I could use when sending out announcements. ”
I love this and had totally forgotten that I had done this very thing with our firstborn! It made is super easy to get the birth announcements out soon after he was born instead of getting pushed off for a couple of months (or not done at all!) like happened with our other three.
What do you recommend that parents-to-be do to prepare for baby and make those post baby days more enjoyable? Which of these 7 have been the most beneficial for you?Add a Comment