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Should The “Sandusky” Sanctions Against Penn State Be Dropped?

Friday, January 4th, 2013

The governor of Pennsylvania is now challenging – legally – the steep sanctions imposed against Penn State by the NCAA in response to the sordid Sandusky scandal. The basic argument the governor is offering is not a new one: it’s that the university and football program should not be punished for the actions of a few. And this argument remains as flawed – and offensive – as ever. 

Look, the “few” who were punished for their acts included: a former assistant coach (who sexually abused boys on the Penn State premises), the revered head coach, the athletic director, a vice president, and the president of the university. This isn’t just a “few” whose actions were reprehensible (Sandusky), misguided or worse (Paterno), and downright offensive and in fact criminal (the university officials). A university is not just an abstract entity: it’s a complex infrastructure with its own set of working rules. Clearly, at Penn State, the chain that connected the football program to the athletic program to the president of the university was exposed as being morally bankrupt and insulated from the real world for many years. Let’s also remember who the victims were – youth – and the crimes committed against them – sexual abuse.

Since the sanctions were imposed, Penn State has responded in an honorable manner. They have taken every step to rebuild the image of the university as an institution that will not put athletics ahead of the fundamental educational and moral values that it must uphold. They had vigils. They have hosted a conference on preventing child abuse. They have housed – for many years – professors and researchers who contribute much to improving the lives of children. The football program conducted itself with pride this year and showed respect for the victims.

I get, in a practical sense, that many people at Penn State are bearing the burden of the few. I congratulate them for taking this on. It’s the right thing to do. If they weren’t doing that, we’d have no confidence that things have really changed much there. I would hope that the governor of Pennsylvania would see that and support that – because his message is that we should all forget about the criminal acts that were committed there and the extensive efforts made to protect the university rather than help the victims. We should never forget what happened there. Let Penn State continue to absorb the sanctions with honor and with a forward looking perspective to be sure that the phrase “Penn State Proud” resonates in a good way.

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The Lasting Lesson From The Sandusky Scandal

Tuesday, October 9th, 2012

You probably heard that Jerry Sandusky was sentenced today to what amounts to a life sentence. 

You may have also heard that he still claims that he is innocent – after being convicted of 45 counts of child sex abuse.

So after all of the fallout, including upcoming trials for former Penn State administrators, the firing of a legendary football coach, and unprecedented sanctions against the university’s football program (one of the most renowned in the country), Jerry Sandusky essentially suggests that all of these actions were misguided because he didn’t do what everyone has concluded he has done.

Or put another way – the individuals who spoke up about his abuses are lying.

And that leads us to the lasting lesson of the Sandusky scandal – abusers lie. They often paint their victims as liars. They especially like to suggest that kids are not trustworthy reporters of their behavior and that their actions are misunderstood. They like to hide behind a public persona and want you to not only believe that they are being vilified by people in the community and, in this case, the press and the court.

They want you to doubt the truth.

And that’s what we have learned. If a parent gets a signal that something is not right between their child and an adult that is entrusted to them, the parent has to pursue it properly and vigorously. They have to go through the chain of command and not stop until they are completely satisfied that they have learned the truth. Sure, you can’t assume an adult has done something until you uncover more evidence – but the fact is that you shouldn’t assume an adult in a responsible position is inherently incapable of committing a horrendous act just because of their reputation in the community. The days of assuming that kids can’t be trusted to speak up, and that adults should be trusted because of “who they are” are long gone.

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Penn State To Host Conference On Child Trauma Research, Prevention, And Treatment

Friday, August 31st, 2012

While the magnitude of the Penn State scandal has been recognized by many (including this author), it is important to also understand how the university is taking positive steps to be proactive with respect to supporting efforts aimed at prevention of child trauma. With that in mind, it is worth noting that the university will be hosting a conference in State College, PA, on October 29-30, 2012, which will convene a variety of experts to discuss research, prevention, and treatment. 

Notably, this conference will feature discussions with two very prominent individuals who have suffered sexual abuse as children: Elizabeth Smart and Sugar Ray Leonard. It will also bring expertise from academia to inform on current issues with respect to prevention and treatment.

For those in the area who might be interested in attending, information on registration (and more details about the conference) can be found here.

Research supporting child development – including prevention and treatment studies – have long been a tradition at Penn State. This conference will not only bring together experts but also remind us of the very real contributions that Penn State faculty have made (and continue to make) in support of children, including those who have suffered trauma.

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The Sandusky Verdict: What’s The Biggest Take-Home Message For Parents?

Monday, June 25th, 2012

By now you have heard that Jerry Sandusky was convicted of 45 counts of child abuse and child endangerment. Last November, I wrote about my feelings as a professional, a parent, and a Penn State grad. Since then, not much has changed for me. That said, I think the trial and conviction certainly reinforces a principle I believe we all have to adhere to these days: 

Cultivating Informed Trust

I don’t want to be a distrustful parent and harbor suspicions about all the adults entrusted with caring for my child (teachers, coaches, etc). I don’t want to be a helicopter parent and micro manage the time my child spends away from me. But I do think we all have a very real obligation to be involved and informed. We need to establish a respectful dialogue with the adults in our child’s life. We need to let them know that we will want to be informed and keep an eye on our kid. We want them to know that we will, now and then, want to observe what they are doing and how they do it. We also want them to know that we don’t want to indulge our kids, but in the end, we want to make sure that the adults they are around treat them fairly and with respect.

We also want our kids to know that we want to hear about their lives. Although we want them to treat adults with respect and follow rules, we want them to know that they should never do something that seems uncomfortable. In fact, they should never feel uncomfortable, uneasy, coerced or threatened. And they should not only know that they can talk to us – we should openly talk to them and stay informed about their feelings and their experiences. An open line of communication with kids is one of the most powerful ways to help protect them because we can get warning signals of something (or someone) gone awry.

There are lots of other good tips to consider – you can read some here. But for me the overarching idea is informed trust – we have to stay involved and informed with the adults in our kids’ lives, as well as with our kids. That way we can strike a balance and let our kids experience the world as safely as possible – and know that they always can (and should) rely on their parents to support and protect them.

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