Five Things I Appreciate About Military Kids

On November 5, I had the pleasure of attending a Sesame Street event for military families at the Joint Base Myer-Henderson Hall in Arlington, Virginia. Although I have been on military bases before, this was the first time I had a chance to spend time around military kids. Based on that experience, I want to share the five things I appreciate about them.

  1. They have great manners. I’m not overly fussy around kids, and I don’t expect knee-jerk pleases and thank yous and excuse mes. That said, I was blown away by the sincere manners that the kids displayed. As I was covering this event for this blog, I was circulating around for three hours, which gave me plenty of opportunity to watch the kids interact with their parents, with each other, and with the cast and staff from Sesame Street. Abby Cadabby was of course a big draw as she was available to meet with the kids – who all lined up in a polite and orderly way and waited their turn in line. After talking to Abby, I heard lots of thank yous (unprompted) mixed with hugs.
  2. They are engaged. When it was time to let loose, the kids let loose! They were in front of the stage singing with Gordon from Sesame Street and with members of the Electric Company. And when it was time to try out new resources (such as new computer apps), they were there in a flash and every table was filled with focused kids.
  3. They are appreciative. This isn’t just about manners – it’s really clear that they appreciate that time and effort was spent on them. They don’t seem to expect that – they just appreciate it when it happens.
  4. They are resilient. The whole point of the Sesame Street initiative is to help kids and their families deal with enormous stresses. Their demeanor and positive spirit showed their resiliency. I’ve read about it, and in particular hear about it when I talk to military moms, but it’s great to see it in person.
  5. They have great parents. Although the kids deserve a whole lot of credit for their behavior, great behavior doesn’t happen without great parenting.

There are of course more positives I could share. But these are my big five.  (Here’s a shot of Jessica from The Electric Company and choreographer Brian Thomas teaching kids the dance to the new “Let it Out” video  © 2011 Sesame Workshop. Photo by: Evy Mages).


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  1. by laura

    On November 17, 2011 at 7:24 pm

    Great post! Love that you were able to have this wonderful opportunity to really ‘see’ military children.

    Thank you!