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These women take mom humor to a new level

These women take mom humor to a new level 34873
From left, guest Castiglia with the Pump and Dump moms

Social media has made humor a constant undercurrent in the average mom's day, but it can be beyond therapeutic to get together with real friends "IRL" as my kids would say and watch something funny happen right before your eyes. That's the beauty of The Pump and Dump show, which a few of us from Parents caught in New York City not long ago. There is something about seeing other moms (and a few brave dads) laughing uncontrollably at the same crazy stuff that you've noticed happening in your own life that is very freeing--and more powerful than getting your laughs watching YouTube.

The PND team, Shayna Ferm, a comedian and mother of two, and MC Doula (aka Tracey Tee), mother of one, host an evening packed with inappropriate lyrics set to live music, games (such as a motherhood-themed version of "Never Have I Ever") and other audience interaction, and often a local guest comic who is also a mom. In New York it was the hilarious Carolyn Castiglia, whose riff on dating as a single mom was upstaged only by her own freestyle rap to audience members' anonymously contributed confessions of "The Most F----d Up Thing My Kid Did This Week." (See a sample of mom confessions here.)

Ferm and her "coach" MC Doula are on tour now, leaving their kids at home in Denver, so join their audience of "breeders" (their words) if you can. Songs include "Eat Your F---ing Food," and "When I Die, I Want to Come Back as a Dad."  Yes, the F word features prominently here. I was counting the number of times it was used but was laughing so hard I lost track. Underlying the irreverent lyrics is a message of acceptance for all our many mommy shortcomings and an embrace of all kinds of mom. "We have placenta-eating moms and moms who've never even tried a cloth diaper. We just all have to remember that we are doing the best that we can," Ferm said at one point. Or, to quote her lyrics: "You're an awesome mom and you're not alone. You're doing fine. Just pour yourself a whiskey during bath time."

Can't get to Chicago, Mill Valley, or Denver, where the show is playing  this fall? Download the tunes, gather a few friends, decide on a signature cocktail and have a listening party. Keep the tissues handy—you'll laugh until you cry.

 

Here's a video from another fun mom, Honest Toddler's Bunmi Laditan: 

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