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School Bullying Flyer Angers Parents, Goes Viral

Friday, April 18th, 2014

A flyer sent home to the families of fifth-graders at a Lincoln, Nebraska elementary school has angered parents and prompted an embarrassed retraction by the school because it offered anti-bullying advice that is questionable at best, dangerous at worst.  Jezebel reports on some of the bullying coping strategies the flyer suggests to students at Zemen Elementary School:

  • Rule #7: Do not tell on bullies. The number one reason bullies hate their victims, is because the victims tell on them. Telling makes the bully want to retaliate. Tell an adult only when a real injury or crime (theft of something valuable) has occurred. Would we keep our friends if we tattled on them?
  • Rule #8: Don’t be a sore loser.
  • Rule #9: Learn to laugh at yourself and not get “hooked” by put-downs. Make a joke out of it or agree with the put-down. For example: “If you think I’m ugly, you should see my sister!”

The Lincoln Journal Star has more on the school’s response:

LPS Communications Director Mary Kay Roth said the flier was not approved to be sent home and was inadvertently included in fifth-graders’ Tuesday folders that went home to parents. Such folders typically contain student work and other information for parents.

“It’s a staff issue, so we’re taking care of the staffing error,” Roth said. “It wasn’t supposed to be sent home.”

She declined to elaborate on exactly how it happened, but said Zeman teachers will talk to all fifth-graders Thursday to clarify how the district believes students should handle bullying.

“Our educators at Zeman Elementary School work hard to provide accurate and appropriate lessons and education for our students in how to handle bullying situations,” Williams, the principal, said in the message to parents. “The flier was sent home with good intentions, unfortunately it contained advice that did not accurately reflect LPS best practices regarding response to bullying incidents.”

Student Services Director Russ Uhing said the district has ongoing lessons about bullying, and fifth-graders at Zeman had been talking about how to handle the situation if they become targets of a bully. That message, he said, was “very different” from the one that was sent home.

The information shared with students in class, Uhing said, included LPS’s philosophy: asking the bully to stop, then walking away; and if it continues, telling a parent or teacher.

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Missing Boy Found Safe in Toy Prize Machine

Thursday, April 17th, 2014

A 3-year-old Nebraska boy who snuck out of his home while his mother was in the bathroom was found safe at a nearby bowling alley, though he was certainly in an unexpected location.  More from Newser:

An astonished customer notified employees after spotting the boy in the machine. “I really don’t think he noticed any of us outside the machine because he was just picking up stuffed animals and putting them down where they come out of,” the establishment’s bartender tells KLKN.

The machine’s owner was called and he opened the machine so the uninjured boy could get out. He says the boy must have gotten in through the machine’s prize hole. “You have to weave your way in and out so he had to work pretty hard to get in there,” he explains. “I had heard about this happening in other parts of the country, it’s kind of a rarity.”

The boy was returned home with a stuffed animal from the machine as a souvenir, and police say his mother will not be charged because she was quick to report her son missing, reports the New York Daily News.

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