Octomom Says Her Babies ‘Disgust’ Her

OctomomNadya Suleman, the California mother who became known as the “Octomom” after she gave birth to octuplets in 2009, has reportedly told In Touch magazine that her babies “disgust” her, that she has suffered from suicidal thoughts, and that her financial woes are overwhelming.

CNN.com reports:

Suleman, who was labeled with the moniker “Octomom” after she gave birth to octuplets in 2009, told the publication, “I hate the babies, they disgust me.”

She went on, “My older six are animals, getting more and more out of control, because I have no time to properly discipline them.”

 

The single mom told the magazine that the only way she can cope is to lock herself in the bathroom and cry.

“Sometimes I sit there for hours and even eat my lunch sitting on the toilet floor. Anything to get peace and quiet,” she said….

“Some days I have thought about killing myself. I cannot cope,” Suleman tells In Touch. She says of her kids, “Obviously, I love them – but I absolutely wish I had not had them.”

The doctor who performed the in-vitro fertilization procedure that resulted in Suleman’s octuplets is currently appealing suspension of his medical license.

(image via: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/)

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  1. by Mandi Crable

    On July 2, 2011 at 9:22 am

    Ms. Suleman disgusts me. Whether she said this or not is irrelevant. Its now in print, and now something her children will have to live with. Its time she be a real mom and realize what she’s doing to her kids. Where ever she lives, the state should intervene on behalf of the kids and remove them immediately. If they disgust her so, there are hundreds of parents out there who would be honored at the chance of being parents.

  2. by Amber Duffey

    On July 2, 2011 at 10:12 am

    I feel that a mother who truly loves her children would not say she wishes she never had them. She might say that she wishes she could give them a better life, but not for them to ciece-exist.

    I am a mother myself and I understand there are days that kids are going to down right misbehave, despite any discipline a parent gives them, but I cannot think of a time I wish my child wasn’t born.

    I believe we have to deal with the consequences of our actions, and if she has contemplated killing herself because she is overwhelmed, she needs to do what is best for her children before they find her on the bathroom floor:/

    I will keep both the children and their mother in my prayers. We all need to be loved, no matter our flaws.

  3. by Hopeflys

    On July 2, 2011 at 10:40 am

    Surprise? Hardly. Octomom made a fetish video in her kids playroom using her kids toys featuring humiliation and violence against a man dressed as a baby. Brandishing a whip she chased a man dressed only in a diaper around her kids playroom yelling “you want spanky?”

  4. by mary aquino

    On July 2, 2011 at 6:14 pm

    I would gladly take a couple of the babies off of her hands.

  5. by Leslie

    On July 2, 2011 at 11:49 pm

    As a mom and woman, I feel sympathy for her. Imagine what it would be like to be in her shoes. Imagine your own stress as a mother, and multiply that by 50! It shouldn’t matter what happened in the past, she now has her children and no one should judge her! Shouldn’t we want her to be a better mom? She just needs several methods of help and tons of our vibes and prayers. She’s in a bad place, and I wish her the best… For her sake and her kids!

  6. by Heather

    On July 3, 2011 at 12:28 pm

    I think the only reason she’s saying any of this is to get handouts from people. I think maybe she should have thought about ass this before she decided to have 14 children on her own.

  7. by Alice

    On July 14, 2011 at 12:22 pm

    CPS should take the kids away from her. She’s a total wacko. If her babies disgust her that much, why did she had assisted fertilization when she already had 6 kids?? This woman is a ticking time bomb.

  8. by Ashton

    On August 3, 2011 at 3:34 pm

    So when she spends hours on end in the bathroom, who is taking care of the children. Yes, I can see 14 children being stressful, but the things she is saying make me so angry. There are thousands of parents out there who have lost their babies and would do anything to have them back in their arms, and she says things like this about her children. Children should not be described as “animals”

  9. by Sandy

    On August 18, 2011 at 9:57 am

    I feel bad for her. It sounds like she has a serious case of post-partum that is not being taken care of. I cannot even imagine the stress of trying to raise a child as a single parent much less multiple children within a similar age range. We all make mistakes (sometimes the same one over and over again) but that doesn’t mean we should leave that person & those around them to suffer. I hope she gets the help she and her children need in order to lead a healthy, happy life.

  10. by Lee

    On August 20, 2011 at 7:24 am

    I have no sympathy for this welfare wanting trash at all, she had 6 kids already that she was getting help from the State already to take care of them. She used that money to get knocked up to have more? Why, just to get more welfare, and we wonder why the State of California has ran out of money, because of people like this….The children should all be taken away from this trash and given to good homes that can take care of them..If she is going to committ suicide, she needs to hurry up and do it so the kids can start to have a better life while they are still young…..

  11. by Ivona

    On September 14, 2011 at 9:12 pm

    Nobody forced her to have the first 6 children and to follow that with an in vitro procedure which resulted in octuplets. Birth control’s available to all women. She neglected to use it. Nobody’s responsible for her childcare bills except for her.

  12. by Xalleah

    On September 15, 2011 at 9:11 pm

    Postpartum psychosis is a mental disorder that can cause feelings like this. It may not be right for her to say such things, but I hope that her honesty gets her some help instead of more negativity coming her way. And I hope she gets it for her children’s sake because the way you feel about your kids effects the way they feel about themselves.

  13. by christina

    On September 16, 2011 at 5:43 pm

    This IS a case for CPS if I ever saw one….if something really terrible should happen…..we are going to say the ‘writing was on the wall’ ….and nothing was done.
    And furthermore….we should not condemn her! Yes she made very bad choices, but there is a lot of hope!

  14. by Carey

    On September 28, 2011 at 9:38 pm

    I feel bad for everyone involved. There is no question in my mind she is suffering from postpartum depression. One birth can give you that, IMAGE eight of them. I also feel that she has other underlying mental health issues such as bipolar, ADHD and/or histrionic disorders…she is attention seeking, takes unnecessary risk, makes decisions without thinking them through, can’t sleep, anxiety, panicky, talks a mile a minute, can’t keep a line of thought….she IS a ticking time bomb and if someone does not step in, they will all be gone, I’m so serious about this, we’ve seen it happen before…someone is screaming for help and no one does anything, until it’s too late and we all just stand around scratching our heads….

  15. by B Meaker

    On October 3, 2011 at 10:57 am

    Oh boo hoo, poor little you. You dumb little twit (or did I spell that wrong)? This is a situation that can be taken care of so simply that it will make your empty little head spin—-simply find an adoption agency–hopefully a decent adoption agency. There are way too many people out in the world who cannot have babies to allow you to wallow in your own stupidity and selfishness. They will be much better off in homes where there is less stress, and your health will be much better too.

  16. by Cammy

    On October 7, 2011 at 1:19 pm

    SHE disgusts ME!! Adopt them out and give them a loving home if you can’t provide at least that to them… They are your children!

  17. by cheese

    On October 7, 2011 at 2:30 pm

    Give them up for adoption and live in the sewers you selfish cow.

  18. by Morgan

    On October 7, 2011 at 2:48 pm

    I am a single mom of 2 expecting 1 more. I can’t imagine the hardship she has to deal with on a dialy basis, but she made her bed, and now she must lie in it. After having ONE child you should now how difficult it must be to have more and especially multiples. This was not something that just happened…SHE DID THIS! Although I belive she and those beautiful children need our prayers, I believe that she did this to get money. John and Kate Plus 8 spoke to her twisited mide the way no sane person would EVER interpret. She thought wow…if I do this, people will make me rich. Well you know what hon…plan backfired….why don’t you be a WOMAN and do what you need to do to provide for the children YOU brought into this world.
    I have 4 jobs that I do only on the weekends so I can be with my children when they are not with their dads to give them everything they deserve, and times are tight, but I would NEVER wish I had not had them! I would re examine MY life, and my choices, and do what I need to do because I am a REAL mother.
    She knew what she was getting herself into, and although she didn’t get what she wanted out of it…she needs to be a mom…and if she can’t do it, she needs to find someone who can. I don’t believe in just giving children up for adoption, because while there are many deserving people who WANT to be PARENTS, there are also WAY too many children wanting to be love by ANYONE! And because there are so many….they don’t get that. She brought them into this world, she needs to get help for the post partum depression (which I had, so you can’t say I’m being a hypocrite…I still loved and took care of my children after having my daughter) and BE the loving, caring, hardworking mom she was supposed to be when she popped out her first money maker.
    Work….be a woman….and stop putting yourself above your children at every turn of your life!

  19. by Elizabeth

    On October 7, 2011 at 8:08 pm

    Then give them up to people who will love and care for them. She never should have had them, and now that the media attention and all the freebies have gone away, she’s realized the mess she’s gotten in to. I have no sympathy for her. I hope someone comes in and rescues these children before she goes Andrea Yates on them.

  20. by Marie Beasley

    On October 10, 2011 at 9:14 pm

    Why do you all feel sorry for this woman This is what she wanted and now that she is not the center of attention she is doesn’t want the work. I have 4 children and One on the way and I homeschool them all. Yes they are very busy and there are days that you want to pull your hair out, but I would never say the things that she said. Not to mention she already had a house full of kids and went and did this again. She has an addiction to attention not loving her kids. she just wanted to be on tv. I have no sympathy for her but I do feel so so so very sorry for the kids. What a crappy person to have to call mom.

  21. by Yesenia Collazo

    On October 11, 2011 at 10:12 am

    Has anyone contacted the authorities on her? If she feels her children “disgust her” and actually goes on record saying she “hates the babies” can someone please tell me WHY she still has custody of them , why has this very public article NOT gone to the authorities?

  22. by angela

    On October 12, 2011 at 9:38 am

    she disgusts me. she is the one who had all 14 of them. i don’t feel bad for her at all. someone needs to take her kids away before we read about her doing something horrible to them.

  23. by Rebecca Acevedo

    On October 12, 2011 at 12:09 pm

    CPS needs to step in and take these kids away… all of them. she wan’t a fit mother for the first 6, and I am glad her doc got his license suspended. then she needs to be put in a psychiatric ward. if not for her own good, but to keep her from having more kids!!!!

  24. by Doris

    On October 12, 2011 at 1:49 pm

    One baby takes 100% of your time…so how is this helping Octomom?? If she were a good Mom, she would have known this and wised up

  25. by Kelly

    On October 12, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    SHE IS A SAD LADY SHE KNEW WHEN SHE WAS PREGNANT SHE WAS HAVING 8 BABIES SO U MADE UR BED U LIE IN IT I DON’T FEEL A BIT SORRY FOR HER AS GIVE THOSE BABIES A BETTER PLACE TO GO BESIDES WITH U HER ASS HOW DO U CALL UR CHILDREN ANIMAL’S ISN’T ONE OF THEM SPECIALLY CHALLENGED IN A WHEEL CHAIR HOW U CALL HIM A ALIEN OR HER SHE’S A ANIMAL.

  26. by Kelsey

    On October 20, 2011 at 4:41 pm

    This woman infuriates me. She had 6 children. Then went through in-vitro resulting in 8 more children. These innocent babies deserve a mother who loves them and can’t imagine her life without them. Not a mother who wishes her life was without them. That’s awful. There are so many wonderful people who want children and cannot have them, and this woman has so many and doesn’t want them. If I could reach through the computer and smack her I would.

  27. by Gwyn

    On October 27, 2011 at 1:58 pm

    How sad. Even sadder to read most of these responses. If you have ever dealt with PPD, you would know that those are obvious signs. I truly hope that she gets the mental help she needs so that she can love her children as they deserve. Yeah she got into this situation of so many kids on her own, but I doubt she foresaw the depression she would suffer.

  28. by logans proud momma

    On November 2, 2011 at 9:35 am

    seriously? sympathy for her? this woman hd 8 kids because she wanted attention… the other 6 werent doing it for her. this is so irritating because she made a decision to have 14 children, these 8 were not an accidental pregnancy there is no sympathy coming my way. i know too many girls (some family) that have children because they think it will get them attention from people and it is evident that they do not truely love their children i have watched a child from a home like this (not as many children) and she is an unhappy child always trying to get attention because she has learned from her mother that it is the most important thing. my concern is only for the children, they should not grow up feeling as though they are unloved and unwanted. her older children are old enough to feel the impact of the public and you can guarantee that other kids know whats going on… to this women i say SHAME ON YOU! of course you regret having them, it backfired and instead of the public rallying for you, we rallied against you. I am sorry lady but you need to grow up, keep your mouth shut, and love your kids.

  29. by TomF

    On November 2, 2011 at 11:30 am

    She’s not exactly the first mom to think of babies as bling and attention magnets, then be repulsed by the actual child-raising process. She may be the first to endure this kind of sustained outrage from all across the culture (but mostly other women).

    Yes, the Octomom is an idiot, but so are a lot of moms and would-be moms. I have plenty of smart but vain, self-absorbed female friends who toy out loud with adopting a Chinese girl or two — in the same way they toy with leasing a new BMW or hitting Nordstrom hard. Just another way to accessorize. Not so different, in the end, from Ms. Suleman.

  30. by Rambo

    On November 5, 2011 at 2:25 pm

    So…where is the dad or dads of all these young un’s?..these guys need to step up to the plate and help her with her overwhelming load..making kids was the fun part, but now that they are here they need to be present and help this poor woman take care of these babies. I am a guy, but I have read that post partum stress is really bad and can have serious consequences if not treated. If two or three kids are a heavy burden..imagine 14!…While I don’t condone her choice of words or feelings, I think this poor woman was terribly unprepared for this and needs serious help.

  31. by TD

    On November 8, 2011 at 1:30 pm

    One word for her: Adoption. I gave birth to a baby boy in 1991, and he was adopted by a wonderful couple that I chose. So many people who would make great parents can’t have any kids of their own, and then you have slimeballs ranging from this type to the ones who make a living by having babies. Unfair doesn’t even begin to describe it! And those kids are the ones who have to pay for it in the end.

  32. by kelly piper

    On November 16, 2011 at 9:44 am

    Post partum or not, this bimbo is not fit to have children. They should all be taken away. To have six kids and then make a medical effort to have more as a single mom is insanely selfish. She was not thinking about her kids when she did it, she was eyeing welfare and/or the fame that she has shopped around for many times. The kids will grow up to be a bunch of psychopaths if someone doesn’t place them in better homes.

  33. by HS

    On November 16, 2011 at 10:50 am

    The words out of her mouth are horrible. I do not know enough about her to judge her as horrible. This could be a severe case of untreated postpartum depression, or just a case of depression. To me that is what it sounds like, she says she can not cope. Maybe she is the only one surprised that having eight children all at once, when there were already six in the house caused these feelings, but she most likely needs treatment, and a support network, not harsh words, and judgement.

    That help may need to be in the form of child protective services, but I feel that way not because I sit in judgement of her as a human being. I feel that way, because until the situation is under control and she is better able to cope, she could be a threat to her children, even it it comes in the form of negligence and not outright physical abuse.

  34. by Dora Glasberg

    On December 3, 2011 at 6:03 am

    I do not know why she was even allowed to take those 8 babies home.
    Unfit mentally and emotionally to be a mother – period.

  35. by danielle

    On December 3, 2011 at 6:23 pm

    This woman had these children for attention, and in my opinion has some kind of Munchasen sydrome coupled with a narcissism disorder. She is not capable of being a mother to only one child, never mind 14. Why child services has not stepped in is beyond me. I guess they will wait until she harms some of them before they step in. She exhibits classic Munchausen syndrome..as soon as the attention wears off she comes up with some new sensational tag line to shine the light back on her.

  36. by Baelzebub

    On December 4, 2011 at 1:12 am

    Ummmm She should be disgusted by her own damn face. Botched plastic surgery and colagen injections are a little more disgusting then some snot nosed brats.

  37. by Nina De Santo

    On December 7, 2011 at 4:19 pm

    I wish they would take those kids away from her and allow a loving family to adopt them. Ones who will love them and realize how lucky they are to have such a wonderful gift as a child. She DISGUSTS ME!

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  39. by Deborah Andrew

    On December 8, 2011 at 12:38 pm

    Maybe the Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar could adopt and raise all 14 of them. That way she doesn’t have to worry about them and the welfare checks can go back to the state.

  40. by ADK

    On December 10, 2011 at 5:55 pm

    Golly shucks… 8 new kids taking up all your time Octomom… Ya think? Oh that’s right, you didn’t think you just clamored for your 15 minutes of fame.

    Didn’t get your TV show?

    Do society and your 8 babies a favor and adopt them out to loving families who will give each one of them complete, undivided and loving care instead of running into the bathroom to cry.

    In the end Octomom, it’s not about you, it’s about the children.

  41. by ElizabethAnn

    On December 11, 2011 at 7:18 pm

    I would give anything to be a parent. I’m 44, and childless due to injuries suffered at the hands of a criminal, and sustained when I was only 14. I’ve known forever that my family and friends would go on to raise families–with all the good AND not-so-good stuff that comes along with that awesome responsibility–and that I would be forever wondering what that would be like. This article makes me so sad for the children and the blatant lack of gratitude this woman has. Some people have so much and don’t even know it. Praying for her and the kids. Hopefully she turns it around.

  42. by catherine mearns

    On December 12, 2011 at 8:34 am

    never have I read so many comments from so many perfect people. I am a mother of 3 grandmother of 2 greatgrandmother 2 and I have told my kids that I love them but there are times I really dislike them, grow up people are you walking in this womans shoes and, maybe if you were to drop your problems and worries and took up her load I bet it would not be long until you dropped hers and picked your own back up. The woman needs help, she is asking for it, she is being ignored and most people here are just being ignorant.
    How easy it is to be blind deaf and dumb to others problems when it gives you respite from your own, be grateful it is not you.

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  44. by Cora Moore

    On December 15, 2011 at 6:18 pm

    The ones who are really suffering are the kids. I am 33 years old and thank God my husband and I have had our first child. I know what it is like to be told that your never goingot have kids and long for one more than anything in the world. I have also suffered from postpartum depression and had to have a cecersan birth. I thank God everyday for my beautiful daughter. I tried ot get pregnant when I was single, but I couldn’t. I thank God now becasue looking back I was younger but I know that I couldn’t have given my child the proper care that they needed by myself. You hear terrible things in the news everyday about parents ahrming thier children, drwoning them in bathtubs, letting thier boyfriends kill them or doing other atrocious things to them. That woman needs help and she needs to get it either voluntarily or involuntarily (be committed) before those beautiful children cease to exist. Children do not ask to be born, with Gods’ help we bring them into this world. Should CPS take them I hope and pray that those 8 babies are adopted together and the other 6 go to other homes at least in pairs and later be told that there brother and sister to the rest. May God bless those children.

  45. by Roses

    On December 16, 2011 at 9:38 am

    I had 2 boys, 17 months apart, and I can tell you they about done me in. They were active, curious, bright, and did i say active? And I about had a nervous break; so i can absolutely understand this woman’s plight. PLEASE tell me someone is going to intervene!!! She and her babies need help and right NOW. Right now, i feel like a bystander, watching a beautiful mother and her children about to wither up and die. They all need help .

  46. by MaryE

    On December 17, 2011 at 1:12 pm

    CPS needs to get every child out of that home. How long before she kills them? Then everyone will be crying about how we didn’t see this coming. All the money handed out to her was spent on plastic surgery on herself, not her children.When she’s sitting on the bathroom floor, who’s taking care of the babies? Selfish B_ should be locked in solitary, get all the peace and quiet she wants

  47. by Lily

    On December 20, 2011 at 9:49 am

    Where are her doctors? Her kids’ doctors? Shes obviously not shy bout sharing such feelings, so it would surprise me that she didnt say anything to the doctors, unless the doctors dont even care to ask “how are you doing?” anymore! why havent her doctors treated her for her severe depression???

    hope her doc and the kids’ pediatrician sees this and treats her post-partum depression immediately. If those kids need cps to step in temporarily, then so be it. It’s better than reading that one has been hurt by her hand.

  48. by tina

    On December 21, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    I have to say this is what is wrong with Americans to much freedom of speech, if what is said is true. The woman is not stupid she knows how almost all feel it was not a wise choice. But, If she is suffering. The thing to do is not post so much negativity. Downing her. If anything be more positive, offer suggestions, options, creative things to do with them all as a mother. ETC…But, you know she reads online. This would do nothing but push her down more and more. So one day God forbid something does happen to all those with so much negativity… Maybe you’ll have what you want.

  49. by Twilight

    On December 22, 2011 at 6:49 pm

    I feel that this is an admission that she can NOT take care of these children. They should be removed immediately. Not properly “disciplining” or basically not doing anything to guide and raise the elder six children is Neglect. I understand she is overwhelmed as well she should be. She CHOSE to have all of these children, all 14 of them, thorough artificial insemination when she neither had a job or any other means for raising and taking care of any child. Come on CPS! Take the kids away from her NOW and make her get her tubes tied before she does it again! These children are accruing so many mental problems due to this psycho mother of theirs and her selfishness. Oh wait, CPS will wait until she decides to go off and kill the babies and children before they do anything. That is the way it works doesn’t it? And another thing………LOOK at her! Is she still getting plastic surgery with the free money she is getting to take care of these children? If that is the case then she had plenty enough money to hire a nanny or two to help her, idiot woman! NO this is a complete ploy for more money so that she can nip and tuck more of her body and take care of her own selfish wants forgetting about her children’s needs!

  50. by Twilight

    On December 22, 2011 at 7:27 pm

    I noticed on here that some people didn’t realize that ALL of her children were through In-Vitro. She had used her welfare money to have it done multiple times. The father’s of all these children are anonymous donors who sold their sperm.
    Octo-mom, if you really cared anything for these children at all, you would realize that raising and providing for them is beyond your ability. Please adopt them out to homes that can give them the amount of love and attention they deserve. That is the BEST thing you could ever do for them at this point. I have one wonderful son and he is a hand full all by himself, but I love him dearly. I can not imagine taking care of so many babies at once. There have been many mother’s over the centuries who have given up their own babies not out of lack of love, but from knowing that it was the best thing for the children. From my perspective you really bit off much more than you could chew and now it is time to think of them, not yourself. You made a series of terrible judgement calls and I for one would be more supportive of you if you made such a decision as adopting your children to better homes for their own good. I would have to say that the thing that upsets me the most about your bad judgement calls is that you continue to make them and are not appropriately dealing with the problem at hand, that problem being you can not adequately take proper care of these children!
    I am not perfect either but I make sacrifices of my own wants for my one child to have what he need s and even non necessary things like his Christmas presents. I wear clothes that have holes in them because I have not bought clothes for myself in years, I have sold some of my belongings during a pinch so that we can provide for our son. When the going gets tough a mother who truly loves their child will ALWAYS put their children FIRST! I am not perfect, but I live by this rule.

  51. by JUDY OLIVER

    On December 22, 2011 at 11:23 pm

    I THINK I HAVE THE ANSWER TO HER PROBLEMS, THE DOCTOR THAT DID THE ATRIFICIAL INSEMINATION SHOULD HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR AT LEAST THE LAST 8 CHILDERN, HE KNEW SHE ALREADY HAD 6 CHILDREN BUT DECIDED TO GO AHEAD AND DO THE PROCEDURE ANYWAY. HE KNEW SHE DIDN’T WORK, HAVE A JOB OR WOULD BE ABLE TO SUPPORT SO MANY CHILDREN. SO, FOR MONEY (PROVIDED BY THE STATE FOR THE FIRST 6 CHILDREN)HE DID THE PROCEDURE ANYWAY…..WHAT HAPPENED TO “DO NO HARM”, I THINK THAT IS PART OF AN OATH THEY RECITE WHEN THEY BECOME LICENSED?

  52. by Responsibility First

    On December 23, 2011 at 8:20 am

    People like her are the reason socialism does not work. Those who are enabled at the expense and accountability of others do not take seriously the implications of bad judgment or bad behavior.

    It is time to stop rewarding people with welfare – it’s almost like holding working people at gunpoint and stealing money. Having babies w/o the means to take care of them is one of the most neglectful things one can do and then to force total strangers (society at large) to provide for their needs is beyond reprehensible.

    We need to stop rewarding these behaviors. Solution:
    On WOMEN: Forced DNA testing to determine paternity. No social benefits without this. Those who ask for society to take care of their needs should be forced to have a tubal ligation (no more children) and THEN will have to repay all the dollars society if forced to spend to provide for them in the form of community service (@minimum wage) until the debt to society is paid off.

    On MEN: The fathers will contribute to the payment in order to reduce the amount of money being stolen from society at large. Split the community service (@minimum wage) with the mother. And yes, forced vasectomy or jail.

    This would be a step in the right direction to reduce the self-made, self-inflicted poor in this country.

    What amazes me is that there is an increased burden on hard-working people in this country that makes it almost impossible to achieve/strive toward a quality of life that is better than being poor.

  53. by Diagoras

    On December 24, 2011 at 1:15 pm

    This shows that the modern trend of having fewer children at ages when we’re more mature to handle the responsibility is the right direction. Most parents can’t handle more than 4. The fewer you have, the more resources you can give to the few you’ve got. And I don’t just mean financial, I also mean in terms of energy and attention. When it comes to being a good parent, it is quality and not quantity that matters. Because I think if we’re all honest with ourselves, we have to admit that anyone would be stressed and feeling negative about having to care for 14 children, 8 of them babies! Having fewer is better!

  54. by Gale

    On December 25, 2011 at 6:20 am

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  55. by wzrdrcr

    On December 25, 2011 at 9:57 pm

    Just further proof population control a must the chinese have it right with the one baby a person law.

  56. by Ahria

    On December 29, 2011 at 12:19 am

    She needs help, obviously. Christians and pro-lifers should be out in force volunteering for the twenty-one years required to take them to American adulthood. Why should babies be taken away to be given to those who can’t have them when people should be helping her keep them. Yes, she made her bed, but where is the village . . .

  57. by Rachel

    On December 30, 2011 at 10:37 am

    First off at wzrdrcr, you are an idiot! Second it is hard for me to feel sorry for her because she did this to herself. She didn’t naturally get pregnant 14 times! Obviously if she already had 6 children she had no problems getting pregnant but went and got invetro anyway because she thought it would make her famous! She should be ashamed of herself for saying these things about her children. What is that saying you reap what you sow? The only ones I feel sorry for are her pour children who have a crazy mother who doesn’t want them!

  58. by molly cruz

    On January 1, 2012 at 1:55 pm

    Ms. Suleman made history, but unlike the Dionne Quintuplets and several other multiple births, because of her ethnic derivation and status as single has had nothing but denigration, when she should have been helped instead. She didn’t know all the embryos would hatch, they rarely do. So either send her money or lay off. She has enough to worry about without all this ill will, which is no doubt affecting her emotionally as well as her children. Nothing would make these hen-peckers happier than to see her fail or have a breakdown. I never read so much hostile tripe in my life. What’s done is done, and it is amazing, surely at least Guinness World Records should reward her, and the rest of us should tend to our own foibles. They are a pretty bunch actually. The state should provide her a nanny or two. So, shut up, haters. what makes you so great?

  59. by Carl

    On January 1, 2012 at 2:17 pm

    I would very rarely say this in most cases, but CYS had better step in to protect these babies, or there may be another Andrea Yates senario brewing………….

  60. by aspkin

    On January 1, 2012 at 7:56 pm

    I am a longtime eBay retailer, Four weeks ago I got suspended. My health care provider even prescribed drugs, because i just couldn’t control the stress any longer.

  61. by Skully Anderthal

    On January 2, 2012 at 8:04 am

    Octomom,well she is in drastic need of ongoing therapy,period! However theraputic prayer can be for the person doing so it will not do anything for Octomom.Thousands have and still are using prayer and nothing changes for she and only she can change her mind set.Then only can change occur in her life.The babies are the real tradgedy for they deserve stability,love,and care.Octomom is bankrupt in all areas of her life and has no management skills and as a result the babies suffer from a lack of just about everything.She chose to be irresponsible and became a household name and now all she has is shame.I truly feel sorry for the children but not for her for she has yet to get it!

  62. by Jennifer

    On January 3, 2012 at 11:37 am

    I cannot believe that this mother still has these kids. I mean if i said i had suicidal thoughts CPS would be all over trying to take away my babies. These kids are not safe. She absolutly makes me sick!

  63. by becky

    On January 8, 2012 at 10:13 am

    I feel sorry for her kids, but not for her. She chose to have all these kids, if she couldn’t handle her older ones, why in the world would you have more? I think she wanted to get famous, which she did and thought she would get money which she didnot and now doesn’t want to deal with them. I hope she does the right thing and lets people who can’t have kids adopt them.

  64. by Fern

    On January 9, 2012 at 3:59 am

    She seems like she’s suffering from quite severe post-natal depression.

  65. by Firebird

    On January 9, 2012 at 8:58 am

    SHE ISN’T SUFFERING FROM POST PARTUM DEPRESSION, SHE’S SUFFERING FROM POST PUBLICITY REJECTION! This woman is an insult to women the world over. She is, without doubt, a despicable, disgusting creature. People complain about teens having babies, but at least the vast majority of them take good care of their children and give them unconditional love. This woman only loves herself and is more than happy to parade her ‘disgusting’ children in front of the media to facilitate her craving for money and publicity. Her ‘disgusting’ babies should be removed from her immediately and given to loving, caring couples desperate for a baby of their own. She should be deeply ashamed of her actions, her selfishness, her lack of love for these beautiful children, her lack of compassion and for her unrelenting complaints about lack of money. For God’s sake woman, YOU already had six children, YOU decided to have more… what the hell is wrong with you??? Stop bitching, stop complaining, do the right thing and hand your children over and, in the meantime, STOP WASTING YOUR MONEY ON PLASTIC SURGERY AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS!!!!! STOP HAVING FETISH PARTIES WHEN YOU SHOULD BE TAKING CARE YOUR CHILDREN. It’s funny how you don’t feel like suicide when that’s happening. Next time you’re in the bathroom contemplating suicide because of your children, try remembering whose fault it is that you have so many! I have absolutely no sympathy for you at all. There are many people in this world suffering from severe depression for many different reasons, they get help for it and struggle on. Your depression (if that’s what it REALLY is), is self-inflicted, I think they also call it self-pity! Here’s a thought… hand over your children, get yourself a job and pay your own way in the world instead of wasting taxpayers money and STOP whining!!! YOU ARE DISGUSTING AND YOU MAKE ME SICK!
    And to Molly Cruz, I’m not a hater and what makes me so great is that I have a sense of right and wrong, scruples, principles, ethics… also known as a conscience, something Octomom clearly hasn’t!

  66. by Ozzi

    On January 10, 2012 at 5:51 am

    Give the babies up for adoption at least. The older kids are going to be problems for anyone who adopts them now, but let them go too.

    She needs psychological help before she kills them all.

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  68. by steve

    On January 18, 2012 at 6:47 am

    I’m in Afghanistan at the min, and I would gladly fight the Taliban any day of the week, than look after 8 screaming babies, I don’t know how my wife copes with 2 kids. Women are amazing, that why I love being married to one lol

  69. by Eddy James

    On January 24, 2012 at 8:23 am

    That Dr should be forced to pay child support for all 8 for the next 25 yrs,Just what was he thinking any way? She already had 6 kids.

  70. by Stephanie

    On January 31, 2012 at 12:28 pm

    you Frikkan attention whore, you shouldn’t have had children, you just wanted to be frikkan famous and now your infamous and your children are suffering from your selfishness and your fame whore ass. They deserve a mother who will love them and a mother who will never say they hate them… look at their faces, how the hell can you say you hate them? I love those babies and I don’t even know them… you know why? because I am a natural mother and I LOVE all 4 of my children, even though 2 of them are my step children… FEEL free to send your children MY way and I will show them how it feels to be LOVED and WANTED!

  71. by Brooke

    On February 1, 2012 at 2:32 pm

    I feel bad for the children. I doubt there basic needs can be met, let alone love, affection, and encouragement. They will grow up feeling like a burden and feeling unloved. Regardless of what you think of her, someone needs to help those 14 children!

  72. by Marcus

    On February 3, 2012 at 5:00 am

    She’s just grumpy cuz she hasn’t had REAL sex in like years.

  73. by SarahE

    On February 11, 2012 at 7:42 pm

    I have 5 boys, all with varying degrees of autism from 13 to 2 years old. I was on birth control for 3 of them, that failed. I have had times where I’ve been very frustrated with their behavior. I’ve had times when they were babies when I had to put them safely in their cribs and walk out of the room for a few minutes when they were colicky to gain my composure. My husband worked all the time and was rarely home for the youngest 3 so I was pretty much on my own. First and foremost, yes she made a mistake, but WHY ON EARTH if you had children with special needs (I know one if not 2 of her older kids are autistic.) Would you CHOOSE to have 8 MORE!?! Not to mention the 8 will all be infants at the same time. Yes I agree she needs help but maybe she deserves some consequences too! It’s not fair that all the consequences are on the children who are obviously allready being neglected! I don’t nessesarily think CPS jumping in and snatching all the children out of the home is a good idea, but they do need to be involved in this case! I think the court should appoint someone to supervise her parenting, make sure she is seeing a psychologist, and someone to monitor her budget to be sure the states money is being spent on the children’s needs. Obviously she will never be able to get a job as long as the 8 youngest are still in her household she should be forced to Work IN the home taking care of those kids like every other stay at home mom in the world. That being said, as much as I don’t agree with her motives let’s not critisize someone who is forced to be on welfare to take care of their children, because let’s be real the best of us are only 1 step away from financial ruin at any given time.

  74. by SarahE

    On February 11, 2012 at 7:46 pm

    Also the doctor that did the in vitro needs to not only lose his liscence but also sell off all his assets to pay back the state for the children’s current and future care because as crazy as the mom seems to be HE was the one that knew better, there would be no “octomom” if it wasn’t for him!!!

  75. by BBlaw16

    On February 13, 2012 at 8:26 am

    There was an old lady who lived…

  76. by Jessika

    On February 13, 2012 at 8:41 am

    This woman absolutely disgusts me. She chose to have more children after already having 6 that she could not take care of with out state funding. Women like this is why the country is running out of money, because there are to many of them milking every state for whatever they can get.

    I understand postpartum depression, I suffered from it myself. It is hard to deal with. Never once did I wish I didn’t have my child. I was more upset because I felt I couldn’t do enough for her, because she cried so much as a child.

    Children are a wonderful blessing and if you can’t or don’t want to take care of them properly you should look into finding a way to give them a better life, even if it means putting them up for adoption. And never if you can’t take care of the children you have intentionally go out and try and have more.

  77. by jinxed13

    On February 14, 2012 at 10:27 am

    First of all, Octomom wasn’t “forced to be on welfare to take care of her children,” she forced the taxpayers to support the children and her on welfare because she chose to have in vitro fertilization without having any means or intention of supporting herself and the children by any means other than welfare, housing subsidies, and Medicaid. It has been the liberal policies that have turned millions of healthy individuals into what they call “victims of society” when in reality, it isn’t society that is victimizing them, it’s the policies and politicians (not to mention, bad decisions made by the individual) that is making people like Octomom victims.

    If you’re on welfare, you get a bigger check for every child you have. If you get housing subsidies, you get a bigger residence as your family grows. Paid maternity isn’t the reality of the working taxpayer who doesn’t get raises in pay for every child they have, nor do they get a bigger residence provided to them as their family grows, unless they provide the bigger residence for themself via their working for an income to support their family. Just stop and think what the welfare payments would be for 14 children, and then it isn’t too hard to understand how Octomom has had the money to have numerous plastic surgeries.

    Octomom says her financial woes are overwhelming? Well, the people who are paying higher and higher taxes to support programs that encourage irresponsible breeding, are having overwhelming financial woes, too, and are finding it hard to support their own families, let alone, hers. For those who said that the state should pay for nannies for the children, it isn’t the state that would be paying for her nannies, it is the taxpayer. The overwhelming majority of taxpayers can’t afford to pay for a nanny and don’t have one, so it’s pretty outrageous for anyone to suggest that Octomom be provided with nannies paid for with our tax dollars.

    Octomom was looking for fame and also a way to avoid working to support herself, and decided that making babies was a great income generating career. The downside was that chidren are time-consuming and often exhausting, needing around the clock parenting. I’m sure the doctor was looking for fame as an infertility expert, too. There is something radically wrong about government policies that would allow a person to have in vitro fertilization and get welfare, subsidized housing, and subsidized medical care.

    It isn’t ethnicity that is driving the disgust people have had with Octomom’s decisions and behavior, it is disgust with politicians and policies that make pregnancy an income generating career for women (and men, except in this case the sperm donors didn’t know that their sperm was going to be used by a woman to garner welfare) who don’t want to work to support their children. It’s not ethnicity that is driving the disgust people have had with Octomom’s decisions and behavior, people are also disgusted with a doctor who chose to accommodate her desire for in vitro fertilization knowing that she was supporting the other 6 children she had with welfare and other taxpayer provided subsidies. He also knew her age and with his education and experience, should have had the good common sense to know that facilitating a pregnancy in a young, single woman with 6 children and no means of support except for welfare, was bound to create problems in the future for both mother and children. He should have referred her to a psychiatrist instead of providing in vitro fertilization.

    She and the doctor made really bad decisions and the taxpayer is stuck with the bill. The children are stuck with a mother who doesn’t have any job skills, little to no common sense, little desire to actually parent the children, and unreasonable expectations that her childbearing history would result in fame and fortune. With the household these kids are growing up in, I’m sure that the taxpayers will be paying to support at least some of them for life as without proper discipline and guidance, it is likely that one or maybe more of the kids will commit crimes that land them in jail or prison. This is a sad situation and it is the children and the taxpayers who are the victims of Octomom’s ridiculous decisions.

  78. by Meg

    On February 17, 2012 at 9:05 am

    I can understand her as a mom. It can really be stressful and when we are sad because we are not getting any much help, we say things that can be hurtful. I cannot really blame her since she consulted a psycho doctor who injected so many embryos to her. I suggest her to relax and try to manage her kids properly. I’m sure she can handle it as long as she knows how to do it.

  79. by Anon

    On February 17, 2012 at 12:39 pm

    Amber- it is not unloving to be honest with yourself and in hindsight admit you wish you didn’t have kids as long as you are taking care of your children.

  80. by Erin

    On February 18, 2012 at 10:15 am

    Go ahead and kill yourself! then the babies will be taken and seperated, and given decent homes. The life they lead apart cannot be worse then the life you’ve provided them.

  81. by Angela

    On February 18, 2012 at 10:18 am

    This woman makes me sick she is a selfish ugly person. The children (who did not asked to be born) should be given new homes before this sick twisted thing gets any more ideas. Children are a gift from god and should be cherished every single day, some people try for years and can’t have any. Shes not got post natal depression shes a very good liar and should be sterilised.

  82. by calmond

    On February 18, 2012 at 2:12 pm

    I am shocked at how cruel so many of these comments are. Yes, this woman had more babies than she can handle and clearly it was a mistake and yes, now she is suffering postpartum depression as a consequence of that (postpartum depression generally occurs when women feel they don ‘t have the support and abilities necessary to raise their children) but to wish for this woman to kill herself and to say that she disgusts you is so cruel. Whatever you may think of this woman, I think the commenters here are much worse.

  83. by Christi Emerson

    On February 18, 2012 at 2:37 pm

    Does this woman not realize that everything she says publicly will one day be read by her children? All they have to do is google their mother. I will bet anything that one day her children will abandon her when they realize that the only reason they exist is because their mother wanted publicity.

  84. by Liz

    On February 22, 2012 at 8:51 am

    Set aside all the judgement I’m reading in these comments, is anyone doing anything about this? CPS needs to step in and make sure these children are taken care of, she is an admited unfit mom and this is a dangerous situation for these children. Someone needs to check up on them before she ends up like Andrea Yates.

  85. by Rebecca

    On February 24, 2012 at 10:33 am

    by molly cruz

    On January 1, 2012 at 1:55 pm

    Ms. Suleman made history, but unlike the Dionne Quintuplets and several other multiple births, because of her ethnic derivation and status as single has had nothing but denigration, when she should have been helped instead. She didn’t know all the embryos would hatch, they rarely do. So either send her money or lay off. She has enough to worry about without all this ill will, which is no doubt affecting her emotionally as well as her children. Nothing would make these hen-peckers happier than to see her fail or have a breakdown. I never read so much hostile tripe in my life. What’s done is done, and it is amazing, surely at least Guinness World Records should reward her, and the rest of us should tend to our own foibles. They are a pretty bunch actually. The state should provide her a nanny or two. So, shut up, haters. what makes you so great?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Have you lost your mind? She should be helped by people sending her money, or Guinness World Records should reward her, the state should pay for her to have a nanny or two? She purposely had invtro, with no job and receiving welfare, no husband and 6 kids already. So that is why so many people are outraged by her. She chose to do this. She walked into the Dr ‘s office and asked for the procedure. She had gotten a settlement for something I can’t rememver, and instead of using that money to support her 6 kids, she got plastic surgery to try to look like Angelina Jolie, and had invtro. She made her choice and now she can’t stand the consequences. She should be evaluated by mental health professionals, and the kids should be adopted out, so they have a chance at a real future. Handouts and rewarding her bad choices will only enable her and keep her on this path of distruction she is on. Help her in other ways, like treatment and job training.

  86. by Ryan

    On March 1, 2012 at 10:07 am

    Child Protective Services should be involved. Does she have an open case in her area?

  87. by Ryan

    On March 1, 2012 at 10:12 am

    by molly cruz

    On January 1, 2012 at 1:55 pm

    Ms. Suleman made history, but unlike the Dionne Quintuplets and several other multiple births, because of her ethnic derivation and status as single has
    had nothing but denigration, when she should have been helped instead. She didn’t know all the embryos would hatch, they rarely do. So either send her
    money or lay off. She has enough to worry about without all this ill will, which is no doubt affecting her emotionally as well as her children. Nothing
    would make these hen-peckers happier than to see her fail or have a breakdown. I never read so much hostile tripe in my life. What’s done is done, and

    Sorry, I just read through some of these posts. Are you serious Molly Cruz? This is racially motivated? You obviously did not know that this woman already had something like 6 children with no job, income, or partner before embarking on this endeavor. Stop dropping the race card every time an ethnic person is called out for doing something stupid. Accepting stupidity from ethnic minorities is in itself the worst kind of racism.

    P.S., I myself am Hispanic.

  88. by Ryan

    On March 1, 2012 at 10:17 am

    Forgive the multiple posts, but I must comment after reading the posts. I think a personality disorder is a more appropriate label to stick on this individual.

  89. by katie

    On March 1, 2012 at 12:49 pm

    If she is SO overwhelmed, which I cant imagine it is, then why doesn’t she give the babies up for adoption. I know it would be hard, but they would have better lives and she can do a option adoption where she can be in their lives still. I would never say my children disgust me, that is horrible. But with all the media attention, doesn’t she have some money?? Give her a reality show or something, then im sure she could afford help, like a nanny or two. Im sure she never thought she would of had eight at once. Maybe sh wanted 7 or 8 kids total, but not 14! I get frustrated with my 3 sometimes and need that mommy alone time every once in a great while, i can imagine her. Best thing to do would be open adoption, if she loves them but she cant provide and she cant handle it, that would be the more loving thing to do for them.

  90. by Joe

    On March 1, 2012 at 2:00 pm

    If she couldn’t support all those kids then she should have thought about that before hand already knowing she was going to be a single mother. It’s not the kids fault. She brought them here into the world and now she needs to fig it out. No hand outs and no one should feel bad bc it was her decision and she knows it. There’s no reset button so make it work

  91. by Monica

    On March 5, 2012 at 5:16 pm

    Why are so many women defending her for doing this to herself ON PURPOSE? All on her own? She already had 6.

    If you feel sorry for her, you are an ignorant lazy hack.

  92. by KitWood

    On March 6, 2012 at 1:58 pm

    Please! Let,s get together and HELP!! The local churches/Houses of Worship in her area should coordinate efforts to rescue Octomom and her children. Each church take one day a week (more if not enough churches/Houses of Worship) and provide the family with daycare when older children are in school. Provide a noon meal, diapers, baby food, etc. and let Octomom go hide alone for a while. As she gets better, provide a part-time job and maybe teach her to write a website online that others can pay to read.
    Relief from stress, hope for the future and physical care can do wonders. Religious people, get together and MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN A CARING, WAY IN THIS WOMAN’S LIFE!!! So many of the public feel that Christians talk a lot but wimp out when it comes time to WORK! Show the world that we can make a difference, even in this poor, confused Octomom’s life.
    Hope and pray that this time next week she will start receiving help, if not sooner.
    PS She should be included in all decisions so she can be a part of the solution, rater the problem.

  93. by Leah

    On March 6, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    Octomom should have thought about what the consequences would be if she had in vitro fertilization without anyway to support herself. She should also have had a psych consult prior to undergoing a procedure that could result in multiple pregnancies. Social Services need to be involved. She sounds like she is crying out for help & possibly having a mental breakdown. These kids are in danger & need to be rescued

  94. by unclesmrgol

    On March 7, 2012 at 10:59 am

    Every child a wanted child. She could just take the kids over to Planned Parenthood. They’ll know what to do.

  95. by rosanne krisanda

    On March 7, 2012 at 11:12 am

    these babies and older kids need to be taken off her–she is mentally ill..please someone do this before she is on the news again for something horrible…

  96. by d

    On March 8, 2012 at 3:23 pm

    Even a licensed daycare would never leave one person alone with 14 children, let alone 8 babies at one time!!

  97. by Bert

    On March 12, 2012 at 10:42 am

    I will supply the bullet but I bet she doesnt have the guts. Do your kids a favor and disappear.

  98. by itslikemusic

    On March 12, 2012 at 12:09 pm

    “omg please give me attention, please, i need attention, give me attention.”

  99. by Sandy

    On March 13, 2012 at 9:53 am

    Why feel sorry for this woman? Because she’s a human being who is clearly overwhelmed and terrified and in a very dark place. This doesn’t mean we can’t feel bad for her children and take any necessary steps to secure their comfort and health, but focusing on your moral outrage only serves to make you feel smug and superior. As a society we need to be better than that. (Most parents reach a point of exhaustion where they wonder if they should have ever had a child, especially if they have colicky babies or multiples or children with special needs. They just don’t say it to national media.)

  100. by Calvina Edwards

    On March 13, 2012 at 1:13 pm

    This woman disgusts me.
    Get a job and stop whining. Deal or give them up.

  101. by Jennifer

    On March 16, 2012 at 2:41 pm

    Somebody needs to take these kids away before something tragic happens. After a mother kills her children, we all say “why didn’t somebody do something before she snapped”. Well, here you go!

  102. by Happy2BMe

    On March 16, 2012 at 10:21 pm

    Sounds like somebody’s got a case of BUYER’S REGRET. She thought she was going to pop out 8 kids and then make some money off of them. That’s what she really thought was going to happen, and when it didn’t turn out that way, she got pissed. She thought she was going to be another Kate Gosselin. WRONG! WRONG!

    You would be surprised at how many mothers who hate their kids. Those who really lose it end up killing them. Those who don’t kill them survive by either abusing themselves to numb the pain or abuse the kids. Some women are NOT MEANT TO HAVE A KID. Nadya is one of those women! TOO BAD,SO SAD, NADYA. I have no sympathy for her. BED.MADE.LIE.

  103. by Big Vajayjay

    On March 19, 2012 at 11:10 am

    Her vajayjay disgusts me.

  104. by quetip

    On March 20, 2012 at 10:12 am

    This clearly irresponsible woman needs ALL her children handed over to social services. She had no means of providing for them before she decided to have another 8 children after her other 6… so she has no right to complain about the financial burden when she choose to be a single mom to a litter. Where is the common sense? So many people are desperate to be parents once. They plan for their childrens needs, they sacrifice so that child always come first, and they want to give their love to another soul…NOT with the mentality that they need to create a person that will be forced to love them for the rest of their life. Children are NOT here for us, it is the other way around.

  105. by Voice of an unwanted child

    On March 20, 2012 at 10:53 am

    My mother became pregnant at 14 and had me at 15. Everyone begged her to adopt me out, but she refused because she wanted to be loved (her own parents loved her dearly, but my mother has severe mental problems). I lived with my mother in her parents home until she married at 18 and left me behind. After her abusive husband demanded she ‘take possession’ of me so that her mother wouldn’t be able to nag them about my care. I was removed from my grandmother (and only caregiver until then) and after I was found beaten in my crib and left w/a broken hand, my stepfather’s mother took me to stay with her for the next 2 years…until she shot herself. I then went back to my mother’s mother until I was almost 8. At that point I was ripped from my home and the people who loved me and forced to live w/my mother, her husband, and their two sons. I was molested for 9 years that I remember, constantly beaten, always belittled, and treated like a slave cleaning house, cooking meals for six every day, writing checks and walking them to the utility companies, disciplining my little brothers, all the work that a mother does in the home. In return I was raped regularly while my mother would take a handful of pills and leave the house to ‘party’ knowing what her husband and his friends would do to me. I begged for many years to not stay there and the mantra of the home was that I was going to do what I was told to do because I belonged to them. My mother took special pleasure in emotional abuse and I was told daily that I was evil, I ruined her life, I could not really be her child, I was possessed by evil (because my grandmother was Baptist and I was a faithful child), I was always the target of anything that went wrong. My mother used to tell me she wished she’d killed me before I was born and I used to agree. Leaving an unwanted child in the home does lifelong damage to that child. I had four suicide attempts by 15, 3 more after. My state requires parental consent to mental health services until 16, as soon as I turned 16 I tried to commit myself and found out I was not the problem. I spent six years in therapy for anger management and other coping skills. I was so badly damaged that I was told I’d never have children, yet was blessed w/two sons, both extreme preemies, and never wanted to see my child hurt and struggle so much, so I had my tubes tied at 20 because I knew even then that I could not provide for more children and didn’t want my health problems to haunt my children. I can tell you I spent many angry years knowing that I was not wanted, not loved, and not welcome in my family. When I moved out at 15 to finish school and work for college, I knew my entire life would depend on what I could do for myself. My heart goes out to any child who is ‘unwanted’ because I know that they are the most special of God’s blessings because as life goes on He is the only parent we have. Removing these children from parents like this is not punishing the parent, it is rescue for the child! Get your thinking straight.

  106. by Allison

    On March 20, 2012 at 8:04 pm

    Well said, “Voice of an Unwanted Child.” I don’t know what more anyone could say after that. Absolutely all children need a stable, loving, home where they are protected, cared for, and loved. I cannot fathom withholding that from my own two sons. My heart breaks to hear about your childhood, and story makes me think of a Bible verse: “For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the LORD will take me in.” (Psalm 27:10)

    I can’t imagine who a single mother could possible provide that sort of home for 14 children, and especially when EIGHT of them are all toddlers. But the fact of the matter is, what’s done is done, it isn’t right, but lets deal with the present now rather than the past. The bottom line is not her, it’s these precious children. I do hope the community and even CPS if need be, get involved for the best interest of these little ones. That said, it sounds like she’s facing some major depression, and who wouldn’t be under those circumstances? She needs professional help.

  107. by Charissa

    On March 23, 2012 at 9:57 am

    Octomom disgusts me. I think she should be put in jail for saying and thinking such a thing. I can’t imagine how a single mom would be able to take care of that many children, however, she gave birth to the little dears. At least put them up for adoption and make sure they all go to very loving families! But to say your children disgust you is extremely trashy and low.

  108. by Robin

    On March 24, 2012 at 11:25 am

    Yeah…right….

  109. by ashley

    On March 26, 2012 at 9:26 am

    Okay people enough with the bashing… I am very sympatheic towards her and to me it looks like she is suffering from an extreme case of postpartum… she needs some serious help and I cant believe nobody has stepped in. Im sure in her right mind she doesnt really feel that way about her kids but when you suffer from postpartum you feel a lot of different irrational emotions that you cant control. I am definatly going to try to remember to keep her in my prayers.

  110. by Gina K.

    On March 26, 2012 at 10:06 am

    Really? She couldn’t think before she brought 14 children into the world as a single mom that it would be tough!!!! I have one child, and find it hard to spend time with him between school and both my boyfriend and I working. She made her bed, and now she has to lie in it.

  111. by stephanie

    On March 31, 2012 at 8:27 am

    Why is ‘octomom’ getting so much attention from people? women way back when had lots of children too, my own great grandmothers had 14 and 19. I really think we should focus more on those women that didn’t have their children for selfish reasons, and not on ‘octomom’. I personally believe she just wanted fame, and she got it, it’s just negative. she probably just says things to get her name back in the news when she’s feeling bored. I also agree she should give the kids up for adoption they would be much better off. I myself have done that and the baby is much better off, she’s with a couple that can provide for her and they love her a ton, as do I. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, and it would be for ‘octomom’ too, but she needs to think about the children not herself. If she can’t take care of them financially and most importantly emotionally then she should hand them over to the state, it would be more responsible then what she’s doing now.

  112. by Augie

    On March 31, 2012 at 10:43 am

    Just two words…NUTBAG !

  113. by Sue

    On April 3, 2012 at 7:54 am

    OK, so what are the authorties going to do about it? This kind of reporting drives me crazy. Finish the story! I can inmagine having so many small children is difficult but is her family or friends helping? One person cannot do this alone. Its difficult with 2 children never mind eight! Perhaps she should put them up for adoption. She is mentally ill.

  114. by JoyR

    On April 19, 2012 at 1:04 am

    ok, it has been 9 months since this article was written and many blogs written about what should have been done and/or not done, and what should be done and/or not done. but what has happened since, did CPS step in, did anyone investigate, did she herself do anything for herself and the babies, and i mean all the babies.
    Just by her statement and the fact that she made it public, to me, meant she knew she needed help, and it was in desperation that she cried out for some.
    so what was done, does anyone know?

  115. by Evie Oglesby

    On April 19, 2012 at 3:43 am

    my boyfriend and I working. She made her bed, and now she has to lie in it.

  116. by armywife8605

    On April 19, 2012 at 6:27 am

    So when is Children’s Service doing to step in..I hate stupid articles that whine about ignorant people and what or how they treat their kids but nothing is ever done about it..if she was a normal non famous parent she would of had those babies taken from her or at least an investigation opened.

  117. by hay there

    On April 19, 2012 at 7:51 am

    This is obviously “old” news….
    1 she IS an angelina Jolie-wanna-be!
    Angelina is in the news…
    Octo mom is just an everyday person. how can she get in the news like angelina? she comes up with an idea…have more than 6 kids at once! Well, she got her wish to be in the news. Not get a career in the movies, but 2 be in the news. Because she has no money to speak of… all this is on the tax payer. She got a free house.
    2 when those babies were born, the state should have taken them away then and adopted them out. she she NOW give them up for adoption. But she WONT….WHY?? Because in her sick mind, she can still get some kind of attention out of them for her self!
    3 she IS sick and those babies sheoud be taken away and given to good families. and Octomo should be TREATED for her sickness. For doing and going Above and beyond to do things to get any kind of attention… is sick.
    Hello… she got plastic surgery- on someone elses dime- to look like angelina jolie.
    she got 8 kids- on someone elses dime- to get in the news…. like angelina jolie.
    that is going to EXTREMES to BE like angelina jolie. U gotta be SICK to Want to be and have the life of Another Person!
    I do not know about anyone else, but doing family searching I have found that my Great, Great Grandmother had 10 KIDS! She did just fine. Her mother befor her had 12. And My Mother in law had SEVEN Boys (yes, ALL boys) and Several mis-carriages and a pair of still-born twins. One would have been the daughter she had wanted. These people didnt think having kids was going to be a cake-walk, they didnt have the help of the Neighborhood OR the Gift of a free house. BUT they were all mentally stable and wanted their kids. I think now that she has said she feels at times she could kill herself, they should swoop in and take all the kids and commit her until she is well enough to car for the 1st 6 she started with and adopt out the rest. It can b open adoption where she can visit them, or just cut the cords clean and make it closed adoptions. depends on how she would be if she were to get treatment. But the State of Cal. WONT Do A Thing! Why??? It’s NOT a Children issue-they dont care too much about the kids. Its a CASH Issue… The state is Broke! If it’s NOT a CASH Issue, they would have removed the babies a LONG TIME AGO! That’s why Oct mom dosent get treated…on some one elses dime. Because Cal Dosent have any more dimes.

  118. by Sean

    On April 19, 2012 at 10:56 am

    Suicidal and Neglecting Her Children-> Child Welfare

    - Put her on a 3 day mental hospital hold already.

  119. by nancy

    On April 20, 2012 at 9:49 am

    post partum depression??? give me a frggin break…the ‘ babies ‘ are 3 yrs old! anything to call attention to herself…that is all this is. for every ‘interview’ she gives, she gets paid. everybody needs to ignore her, then she’ll go away

  120. by Lulu

    On April 20, 2012 at 10:51 am

    Um, Nancy, this article is old. It is dated July 2011, but who knows when the interview was done. The picture looks like it is a year or 2 old.

  121. by Diane

    On April 20, 2012 at 1:57 pm

    There are a lot of people who would love to have children but can’t. She should put them up for adoption… all 14 kids!

  122. by Maryann Garza

    On April 27, 2012 at 10:20 am

    That’s why some people say, “Becareful what you wish for.”

  123. by soulwoman

    On May 3, 2012 at 10:36 am

    people please stop judging. the babies are at stake here. she made a mistake–who hasn’t? she needs some serious help.

  124. by Mayra Motcz

    On May 4, 2012 at 11:34 am

    At this point, she should look into finding help and better caring parents for these babies. Her children’s does not deserve to be treated like this from her.

  125. by Rocky

    On May 11, 2012 at 11:02 am

    Enough of “Octoass”. Do us and your offspring a favor and follow through on your suicidal ideation.
    Moron!

  126. by rbmeoe

    On May 11, 2012 at 11:16 am

    “Some days I have thought about killing myself…”
    +++++++++++
    Please go with that thought!!!! It will be the only way any of those 14 children will have a chance for a normal life!!! With you and your delusional, self-centered, egomaniacle, ugly butt out of the way, maybe these kids can be put in decent homes where THEY will be the focus of attention, NOT their horrific excuse for a mother!! YOU disgust the rest of the world, and it would be a far better place WITHOUT YOU IN IT!!!!

  127. by MSm

    On May 13, 2012 at 1:32 am

    You may feel overwhelmed and kids will be gross at times with tons of poop and boogers but NEVER ever say you don’t want them to be alive.
    You can handle this Nadya and if you can’t ask for help! If you really want to permanently be away from your kids then allow them to be adopted out to safe healthy families. If you actually don’t want to lose your family then get some help for yourself. There’s no shame in being overwhelmed. It happens. But do not hurt yourself or those blessings of children you have… I myself would be more than willing to be a nanny or respite caretaker for you to get a break, and recollect yourself. Or if you choose to adopt out I’d be happy to help you with that process in getting them into safe homes. I pray you can remember how much you love these little pieces of the future you are in charge of!

  128. by stacy

    On May 14, 2012 at 10:05 am

    This woman clearly thought this would make her rich for having these kids and now that she is not she does not want them ! There are so many people in this world who can not have kids so give them up for adoption and give them a normal life and happy life .

  129. by Raccman

    On May 19, 2012 at 11:52 am

    The “lady” should now have all the children removed from her care as she is not fit to raise or care for them ! The children “DISGUST” her ? Isn’t that too bad ! The “lady” disgusts THE WORLD !

  130. by KLE

    On May 20, 2012 at 11:38 am

    Every mom has had days when she hated being a mother. Suppose this is what she meant? Every mom whos ever changed a poopie diaper or cleaned up vomit has felt a little disgusted. We’ve all gone in the bathroom, shut the door and cried. Careful…we dont want the govt. to have the power to come take our kids away based on comments we made. Unless shes found to be an unfit mother..neglectful, abusive..dont wish Children and Youth Services on her. Shes in over her head and she knows it. She has to know itd be best for the babies to let loving families adopt them. But she cant let them go. Shes going to crash and burn. Its just a matter of time.

  131. by Claire

    On May 22, 2012 at 2:11 pm

    I am extremely worried for her children. But what will be done about it? What will the next headlines about her be? It’s horrible to say, but her depression could lead to a murder-suicide situation. Articles are posted for readers to interpret… But will anyone step up and do something?

  132. by Catherine

    On May 22, 2012 at 2:47 pm

    Yes, I have days where my children frustrate me, but never have I said they disgust me and I wish they weren’t born. This isn’t about punishing her for making these statements anyway, it’s about protecting these children from someone who is clearly capable of doing them harm, whether emotional or physical. This woman has a lot of issues–as made obvious by her incessant ploy to have child after child after child via in vitro….when she knew she was incapable of supporting them! She is a drain to state resources, yes, but scarier than that is that it is highly likely that she is not using her resources to give the children all that they need. Those poor children are not getting the love and nurturing and emotional support that they deserve and need to grow into healthy adults. That is the bottom line. Something should be done, but as someone else stated above, CPS will not likely get involved until there is an obvious sign of neglect or abuse. Legally they cannot, so unfortunately something bad may have to happen. Hopefully it will just be something like a neighbor witnessing her leaving the children alone without a sitter or something–it’s enough to report neglect with the octuplets as young as they are.

  133. by Debbie

    On May 22, 2012 at 3:52 pm

    what a loser she is. she thought these kids would be a get rich quick deal and not that they have not done that shes done with them!!!!!

  134. by Lindsey

    On May 24, 2012 at 4:13 pm

    Wow. Just wow.

    Maybe she should give her children to one of the hundreds of thousands of people who want children but can’t conceive naturally.

    Faster those kids get away from this woman the better. How is this woman not committing child abuse???

  135. by CC

    On May 29, 2012 at 1:46 pm

    Where are the authorities, where. Where was the ethical brain of the MD who started this. Where was HER brain. Obviously she has some mental issues or wouldn’t be in this predicament in the first place! Give them up for adoption and give them a better life….lock yourself up in the bathroom and think about that one. I think the entire country would applaude her AND we can stop hearing about this issue all together.

  136. by Karen

    On May 29, 2012 at 8:51 pm

    I am a mother of 4, Twin girls and 2 boys. There was a time when I question my own ability to take of my children as well “Octomom.” Yes, she got pregnant for all the wrong reasons but we need to stop condemning her. She is obvious a women who is suffering from post-partum depression. Having kids and the wrong expectations about your life after given birth can be overwhelming. ” Octomom” needs to let her family and friends help her. We as mothers in general need to stop attacking one another and help each other as the loving little big women that we can be!!!!

    These words were brought to you by a fellow outcast mom, “Octomom.”PLEASE SEEK THE HELP YOU SO DESPERATELY NEED. YOUR CHILDRED DO NEED YOU IN THERE LIVES. AN APOLOGY TO YOUR KIDS FOR THAT ARTICLE IS NEED FOR ALL OF YOU GUYS TO HEAL AND LET THEM KNOW EVERY SINGLE DAY, EVERY WAKING MINUTE THAT YOU LOVE THEM(KIDS)AND THEY ARE THE MOST IMPROTANT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE!!!! GOOD LUCK, OCTOMOM!!!!!!:)

    Karen

  137. by Janet Pfeiffer, The Secret Side of Anger

    On May 30, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    This mother needs immediate help. She is high risk for abusing her children. Being overwhelmed and feeling disgusted by her own babies puts them in harm’s way. She doesn’t need to be judged; she needs immediate intervention – for the sake of her innocent children as well as her own sanity.

  138. by Kenty

    On May 31, 2012 at 11:15 pm

    She does need help: both mental and social. She chose her life and has to live with the consequences. She wanted to be a mom and now she is mom. Maybe Supernanny can help her with these children. She could enlist the help of the 6 older children for simple tasks like getting the babies’ diapers, bottles, etc. Most children would jump at that opportunity to play “mommy” or “daddy” to their younger siblings. There are things she can do to help. CYF can help with getting parenting classes or getting her in-home help without removing the children. I am a single mother by a rape. I have custody of my child. I did not have custody for the first 5 and a half months of my child’s life simply because I thought I wasn’t a safe parent and feared for my child’s safety. After counseling (which I still attend to almost 6 years later)and several parent classes, I have custody of my child. While in a “foster home”, my child was abused (bruises at 3 months of age on her legs with the foster caretaker claiming it was from her learning to crawl) and them violating visitation orders, etc. I had CYF’s help in getting her back. CYF got an organization called Holy Family to come into my home daily and help me with the tasks of caring for my newborn and also ensuring I went to counseling. I couldn’t have done it without their help. CYF isn’t always a negative thing-it got me the help I desperately needed to become a safe parent. She too can use their help (or SupperNanny’s) to get over her issues and raise her family in the proud parent way. I am now proud of my child and all the things I learn from her daily. It is still a struggle but I am very happy to have it. I can’t imagine my life without my child regardless of the situation she came out of. I still take parenting classes because I don’t want to be the abusive parent that my parents were to me. I know there are better ways to raise a child than with abuse and fear. I want to encourage my daughter to be the best she can. Yes she can be more than a handful and sometimes I get at my wits ends. I send her to her room for quiet time during those times and I take a time out. During this time out I read a few pages of a book or listen to soothing music or sit on my porch. Then I explain to her why I got to that point and ask her what she thinks she can do. She usually laughs at me and tells me that I need a corner time out. She does take it seriously and usually offers suggestions like curl up with her and look at a book or something quiet. I have a hard time with one I can just imagine having 14. I do want another child but I want to wait until I am married and better equipped at handling it. Yes I will work with my parenting classes when that time comes. My advice for her is to keep a journal where you write in it daily at night after the kids go to bed. Get the older children involved with daily routines such as preparing the babies’ bedtime story, helping with getting bottles (already made of course), etc. Ask your local church for help-you’d be surprised at how many people come to help you. Call CYF yourself and ask them for help. They can give you organizations that can help you if you really want the help. Yes there’s a risk you take at losing custody of some of your children but before they do that-they will do everything in their power to help you. Ask family to help you. Set up a schedule of volunteers and keep it daily. Get your family members (not the kids) involved with creating a daily routine. It is not going to get any easier the more they grow up. Seek professional mental help through counseling-it’s helped me. You will be fine. Just take it one day at a time and one step at a time. Contact Supper Nanny-she’ll be more than enthused about helping you. She’s done miracles for families. The greatest advice I can give you: PRAY! God will help those who help themselves-he provides- you need to take him up on it.

  139. by Nancy

    On June 1, 2012 at 12:54 pm

    Each one of us has made and paid for our own mistakes. I believe Octomom is now seeing hers. Children are never a mistake BUT not being ready, able, and willing to do right by them is. I believe her statements are a cry for help. I would be doing everything in my power to get these children into a good daycare and a stable enviroment. Mom needs therepy and a VERY orginized plan of how to hand this, ENLIST ALL the help she can get. Also, a strong support group (maybe)a church would help alot, she isnt going to be able to do it alone. Crying on occasion in the bathroom does help with some stress,but without any other positive actions I dont see any changes.She has to take her stress and let it motivate/empower her to positive action,good for her and the family. If after all this she can not do right by these children she needs to find good adoptive homes for them. I wish them well and Gods blessings.

  140. by Ashley

    On June 5, 2012 at 10:09 am

    I think that’s called postpartum depression. I had it and it was devastating. She needs help. 14 kids is a lot for one person to deal with. But she should not have allowed those comments to be printed.

  141. by Samantha

    On June 5, 2012 at 4:46 pm

    Even if you regret having that many children why would you ever tell a tabloid journalist that?

  142. by Kristy

    On June 8, 2012 at 3:55 pm

    She should of thought about that before she decided to get pregnant.

  143. by Meagan

    On June 9, 2012 at 1:22 pm

    Hind-sight…..

  144. by Charlotte

    On June 14, 2012 at 12:24 pm

    This woman will say or do anything for attention. And I ‘m pretty sure she lives in California, which is no doubt why this procedure was done despite her already having six children. She is a nut case and I have no problem ignoring her whining about trying to mother all those kids when she didn’t need get pregnant that last time. She will probably end up suing the state for allowing her to do it. Eventhough the state pays her some ridiculous amount already in welfare, I have no doubt that this is just the sort of crap that got California in it’s current money crisis. They will probably pay her! Crazy stupid mess.

  145. by Nancy

    On June 25, 2012 at 1:29 am

    It is not possible for one person to take care of so many young children alone. She may have post partum depression or she may be depressed because she is trying to handle an impossible situation. Despite the fact that she caused the problem herself, there are children who need to be properly cared for and they need adults in their lives who love them and have their best interest in mind. I hope someone steps forward to help, whether it is her family, friends (if she has any), or CPS. The children are at risk.

  146. by Amy brown

    On June 26, 2012 at 6:16 pm

    A lot of parents feel this way but will never actaully share it due to society norms.

  147. by Shiela C.

    On June 27, 2012 at 1:58 pm

    I understand her stress. But saying her babies disgust her, I think it’s not right. I think she needs help.

  148. by jana

    On June 27, 2012 at 5:16 pm

    WOW!!! I can’t believe some of you would actuallly tell someone “the world and her children would be better if she killed herself” You should be ashamed of yourselves!! Yes she did have 14 children and yes she does need help and maybe she should give her children up… but You people that are sayinthe world would be better with out her…. I am so glad I dont have you for my family or friends!!!!!

  149. by Dontblvevrythngyouread

    On June 28, 2012 at 4:36 am

    The source here is InTouch. No better than a tabloid. This was a false story and she never said those things per another interview on tv. People jump to conclusions and judge before even looking at the whole story.

  150. by Denise

    On June 28, 2012 at 9:04 am

    Two words…dumb bitch!!

  151. by MORAIMA

    On June 28, 2012 at 6:57 pm

    all i have to say is bitch u should have never had them in the first place you disgust me. you use to be a bitch now your a whore sucking dicks and fucking tom and joes and then have the nerve to come home with your nasty full of god know deased men u fucked and kiss those little one ur nasty BITCH.

  152. by Cancer Survivor

    On June 29, 2012 at 9:52 am

    I am an Ovarian Cancer survivor. I suffered from Endometriosis for years and was never able to become pregnant. Being able to create life is a gift from God that unfortunately I was not blessed with. Post Partum Depression? Imagine the night before my Hysterectomy, when the nurse brought the surgical release forms into my room which required my signature…signing away your ability to have children forever…that was one of the worst moments of my life. Some women are so ungrateful and selfish, seeing their children as a burden instead of a blessing. DON’T BECOME PREGNANT IF YOU DON’T WANT A CHILD/CHILDREN. This woman became pregnant ON PURPOSE because she wanted a reality show. I’ll adopt one of her babies if she doesn’t want them. My maternal instinct still has not died within me and I have so much love to give a deserving child. I pray one day I hear the words: “I love you mommy”.

  153. by kim brown

    On June 29, 2012 at 10:32 am

    social services need to step in and help this woman. it is too much for her to handle on her own. please someone help her and the children.

  154. by Debra S

    On June 29, 2012 at 10:38 am

    NO woman ever actually realizes what they are in for when they have a baby. Even ONE baby can make you feel like it is the end of the world. It is very very hard. Too many single moms go into it and then reality bites and it bites HARD.

    Octomom- you are nuts already- we all saw this coming, even your own mother said you are nuts.

  155. by mom of twins

    On June 29, 2012 at 11:07 am

    she truly has mental issues like the ones mentioned earlier, add/hd and depression. i think the add/hd is what prevented her from thinking before she made those statements. she needs help. her conditions are real and are effecting her life. i hope that a counselor reads that article and offers his/her help. her children need her to be healthy.

  156. by gg

    On July 6, 2012 at 6:54 am

    LOL-LOL-LOL-LOL-LOL-LOL!!!!!! That’s okay, because she disgusts all of us as well!!! I hope ALL of those kids drive her totally, completely, and absolutely INSANE, CRAZY, and BATTY!! This is exactly what this vile Liberal moron deserves. I’m really angry that our messed up Liberal idiot government is actually giving her welfare money, food stamps, public housing, and whatever else she’s getting. This is exactly what is wrong with our government, system, and country, and it needs to STOP!! We need to abolish the entire fraudulent welfare system that is bleeding us dry!! This is one of the primary reasons we are broke, because of LIBERAL entitled programs that should’ve been abolished many, many years ago. If it had, maybe we would not be in the mess we’re in right now? If I were the President of the United States, and I should be because I know exactly what the problems are and how to resolve them, this is one of the many things I would change, abolish, reform, toughen, and overhaul immediately!! Taxpayers should not be forced to pay irresponsible idiots like her, just like they should not be forced to support violent killers in prison for their entire lives. What a nightmare. Our criminal and civil justice system and laws, penal system, sentencing laws, appellate laws, parole system, etc., etc., etc., is nothing but a JOKE!!! If Liberal idiots are so concerned about the lives and welfare of vicious, heinous, sadistic, insidious, brutal, and violent SCUM in prison, then let them pay for them, because taxpayers should not have to. This just chaps my hide. This woman is trying to get out of the mess she created, and she’s going to try and get the state to intercede and take them off her hands now. If I were the President of the United States I would make sure she got absolutely NO help whatsoever from either the state or federal government. She needs to get off her ass and get out and work to support the mess she’s made. She created her own mess, so she should have to live and deal with it, period!! Case closed. I don’t even want to see or hear about this witch again, that’s for damn sure. Everyone needs to just ignore her and all the on-going stories about her that the Liberal press keeps doing, so she will go away.

  157. by GG

    On July 6, 2012 at 7:08 am

    by Alice SAYS: – On July 14, 2011 at 12:22 pm
    CPS should take the kids away from her. She’s a total wacko. If her babies disgust her that much, why did she had assisted fertilization when she already had 6 kids?? This woman is a ticking time bomb.

    OH NO THEY SHOULDN’T!!! UH, NO WAY, NO HOW. SHE MADE HER BED, NOW SHE’S JUST GOING TO HAVE TO LAY IN IT. THIS IS HER MESS AND SHE’S JUST GOING TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH, PERIOD!! IT IS NOT THE STATE’S RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE CARE OF THESE KIDS. LET HER PARENTS TAKE CARE OF THEM, SINCE THEY LENT HER THE MONEY THAT CREATED THE MESS IN THE FIRST PLACE. WHY SHOULD TAXPAYERS BE FORCED TO PAY FOR HER MESS. NO WAY, NO MORE!!

    I AM SO SICK OF BLEEDING-HEART LIBERAL MORON TRASH LIKE HER, AND OTHERS JUST LIKE HER, WHO ARE RUINING, DECIMATING, OBLITERATING, WEAKENING, AND DESTROYING EVERYTHING IN THIS COUNTRY. IT’S TIME TO STAND UP AND SAY ‘NO MORE!!’

  158. by Lindsey bullington

    On July 10, 2012 at 12:47 pm

    This Women really angers me she knew very well what she was getting into fromthe start and she says the kids discust her how could anyone say a thing like that I have 3of own and one on the way they make me mad at times but the way to get over that is find someone to watch them for a few hours and go chill out somewhere

  159. by becky

    On July 15, 2012 at 11:00 pm

    she needs help i wish i could help her i am a single mom of one that is very hard when you are very young she needs to talk to a cps worker they can help her and hopefully help her like they did with me. she should just go down to her local dhs office an ask… thats what i did they helped me sooo much an i thank them

  160. by Stephanie

    On July 18, 2012 at 10:11 am

    Why is social services not looking into her comments and the way that she locks herself in the bathroom, leaving her children unattended, while making threats to her own life? Why are they ignoring these statements?? Shame on the social services department in that area, and for people not reporting her to them!

  161. by Barbara

    On July 19, 2012 at 12:48 am

    No way. The doctor who gave her in vitro should never get his license back!! You can tell that this woman has mental problems just from listening to her speak. She is scattered and nervous and strange, you can tell something is wrong with her mentally. He never should have helped her get pregnant. He was only thinking of money.

  162. by It.Really.Doesn't.Matter

    On July 22, 2012 at 2:14 am

    *THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T HAVE 8 FRICKIN’ BABIES! Duh! Did she think this was going to be Lillies and wonderful rainbows? She’s RETARDED..sorry! How can you form your mouth to even say something about those babies like that…here’s a thought Witch, if you feel that way–GIVE THE BABIES UP FOR ADOPTION TO PEOPLE WHO WILL LOVE AND CHERISH THEM, you dumb dirty tampon for brains! Gosh this chick irritates the hell out of me! She’s the worse! [Dep't of children & family services: REMOVE THESE CHILDREN FROM THIS SCHIZOID BEFORE SHE DOES SOMETHING TO THEM! PLEASE!] Because what’s going to happen is, she’s not going to hurt herself she’s going to hurt the babies! #sad!

  163. by 'Idiotmom"!

    On July 24, 2012 at 3:42 am

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  164. by Bonnie

    On July 25, 2012 at 3:39 am

    She should put them up for adoption so that the children would have great parents who will not be disgusted by the children. She knew what she was getting herself into and because of her selfishness she now has all those children who will not know that it really means to be loved by someone who has the time, patience and love to give them all.

  165. by Crash

    On August 5, 2012 at 9:50 am

    Sorry, but this is why children shouldnt be born out of wedlock.

  166. by MixedChick

    On August 6, 2012 at 7:46 am

    She is disgusting the octo ivf was a ploy I think the MD was in on to cash in on what they thought would be a reality show cash cow and then come to find out she disgusted everyone and no one was buying. Well, this is the end result. All courtesy of tax payer dollars. She faked a back injury to get the money for the IVF (how do you have a bad back and carry that many babies?) but you cannot work? Please, no sympathy here from someone that has lost children of my own, btw the MD should be given a restricted license to work under supervision and pay child support. Ultimately this is his fault. No one gets pregnant naturally with 8 babies, she was not even able to get pregnant naturally, he let the patient dictate what SHE wanted? So if an 80 year old came in and wanted to have a baby I guess he would oblige her with donor eggs and hormones? We are all disgusted. The difference is we have to support you and your brood since you are all on social security, medicaid, food stamps, etc.

  167. by SarahBean

    On August 6, 2012 at 6:02 pm

    Well, Here is my two-cents worth.

    1) Just because someone has a mental illness does not give you the right to judge them and belittle them as parents. 1/4 People on this planet have a mental illness, does that mean we should take all of the children away from all of the mentally ill parents? There are so many mental illnesses and not all of them are serious. I can bet you ten to one most of the people posting are very selfish stupid people themselves. Such a horrible thing to say. Were suppose to be here to help each other, not hurt each other. God. No wonder the world is crashing downwards.

    2) Yes, she made a huge mistake, LIKE EVERYONE ELSE DOES… and if you say you don’t make mistakes it makes you a liar too. Everyone makes mistakes, sometimes repeatedly. And this doesn’t make me an “ignorant hag”. Your selfish rude egotistical comments actually make you ignorant. Do you even know what that word means? At least I understand a little more then most people do. It’s called a hand up, She obviously needs a job to support her little ones and a daycare, which is usually provided by a CPS agency.
    Should you take the kids away? HELL NO, that will just make it worse for the kids. Do you even know what putting kids in a Foster Home will do to them? Emotionally and Mentally damage them, which will also add even more Mentally Ill people into this planet. It’s simply stupid people like this that cause all this mental illness.
    Maybe just maybe if you were more understanding and kind to one another it wouldn’t cause so much pain where people like US have to go and help them out of it. Bullying, Put Downs, gosh, What happened to being against bullying? Obviously a bunch of hypocrites if you ask me.
    Seriously, before saying crap about other people and judging them look in the mirror and remember your past, what you have done, and how low to rock bottom you have hit.
    And if you’ve NEVER hit rock bottom, nice to know someone handed the world to you on a silver platter, spoiled brat. You need to learn to survive without all that cash flow and learn to have to go by survival instincts.
    Am I sticking up for her? No, Im not. She made a stupid mistake, but that doesn’t mean ruining and damaging the kids is a good idea either.
    God people these days are complete idiots.

  168. by Noelle

    On August 19, 2012 at 9:46 pm

    GOD FUCKING DAMN! It is plain to see that she has postpartum depression if not postpartum psychosis… but the bitch needs to shut the hell up and get help for herself so that she can think straight and do what is best for her children. And i’m not just talking about the octuplets. How the hell she dealt with the first 6 kids… i have no idea… but i think she should give them up for adoption and make their lives better. She had no business getting pregnant 6 times in the first place being single with no solid form of income… but then to get artificial insemination after that is just plain stupid. Child services should take ALL of her children away and she should never get custody back. Then she should get her tubes tied so that her dumb ass doesn’t make another move to get rich from being pregnant again. Just get help and let them frikin GO. Oh… and don’t lock yourself in your goddamn bathroom while your 14 kids are doing god only knows what and probably not even eating. Like… seriously?

  169. by Carmel

    On August 24, 2012 at 2:40 pm

    This woman is so disgusting. She is probably abusing the children, both physically and mentally. Why couldn’t she try to get a decent job instead of doing the filth? I wonder what the poor children will grow up to be? After knowing what their own mother said about them and what she has done to make money, I really feel sorry for these innocent children.

  170. by ANGELICA TILLER

    On August 25, 2012 at 1:58 pm

    I DO NOT FEEL SORRY OR BAD FOR HER AT ALL. I THINK IF SHE DIDNT WANT THEM AND THEY DISGUST HER THEN SHE NEEDS TO TURN THEM OVER TO CPS OR PEOPLE WHO WOULD LOVE TO HAVE AN ADDITION TO THEIR FAMILY. SHE DID THIS TO HERSELF. NOW SHE HAS TO LIVE WITH IT. WHEN THOSE CHILDREN GROW UP THEY WILL RESENT HER, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY READ POSTS LIKE THIS. SOUNDS TO ME LIKE SHE ALREADY IS INSTABLE AND NEGLECTFUL TO THOSE CHILDREN. LOOK AT THE DUGERS. THEY HAVE 19 CHILDREN AND THEY CAN STILL MAKE IT AND RAISE THEIR CHILDREN IN A STABLE AND ORIENTED ENVIORMENT. THEY HAVE ORDER AND CONTROL, WHATS WRONG WITH OCTO-MOM? SHE CANT HANDLE HER OWN CHILDREN, NOR DOES SHE ACT LIKE SHE EVEN WANTS THEM NOW. OCTO-MOM SHOULD GET HER STUFF STRAIGHT AND TOUGH IT UP. THIS MAKES ME VERY ANGRY, SHAKES HEAD….

  171. by Karen

    On August 27, 2012 at 10:48 am

    Instead of everyone bashing her poor decision making process…think of these babies, our future…….she needs help, period! Sure she made her bed now lie in it sounds easy, wash our hands of this doesn’t affect our life right? Wrong…..!!! This is why our country is in trouble everyone out for themselves! I pray that people in her community reach out and help! This isn’t going to end well!

  172. by Karen

    On August 27, 2012 at 11:04 am

    I also pray people have more mercy for you haters out there if you ever need help God forbid! She’s probably having a nervous breakdown- none of you could handle this! Not one of you alone! She needs help! Pray for her stop judging already! Pray for your own ugly hateful hearts too! What’s done is done……..can’t change what has happened so many of you had nice ideas of community help?? This is what that poor family needs……..we help other countries, let’s help our american brother and sisters too!

  173. by April

    On August 29, 2012 at 8:09 am

    As a Mother, how you could say you love your babies but you wish you’d never had them? To me, that means you don’t love them. Great job putting this in print now too, octo”mom” (and I put the “mom” in quotes, because she is a horrible one and I only see her as a uterus that brought 8 innocent babies into the world). We all know this octomom is a huge thing now; and when these kids grow up they’re going to forever be known as the kids with the octomom. Someday one of their classmates is going to print this article off and show it to the kids. Maybe one of them will commit suicide or try to hurt themselves because of her selfish words and behavior. She should be ashamed of herself. Every mother has hard times during the first years (and beyond) of raising a child; but we don’t put it in print and say we never wish we had our children. Shame on you.

  174. by Linda

    On September 1, 2012 at 9:11 am

    Whats really sad is that many, so many so called ‘Mothers’ out there could really care less about the birth of their children. I think these women care more about them getting pregnant, ‘getting their 9 months of attention/fame’ & people really caring about how they are doing. They don’t think about how their will be effected & more complicated because they didn’t think out how much a child would change things. My own little Sister finally had a child of her own. I asked her if she was just ‘on top of the world’ that she finally her own little boy & she said she could really ‘care less if he was in this world or not’. That literally made me cry. Not for her, but for him. Every child deserves to be treasured while here on this earth. Especially considering we were treated like crap as children. She should go OUT of her way to make her babies life the best it could possibly be, full of love, acceptance & support, especially considering ours was full of judgement, beatings & bullying. I have to give the Octomom a little more credit than my selfish, spoiled jerk of a mom Sister that should do a better job on loving her boy. At least the Octomom has 14 kids to worry about & my selfish Sister only has the one. Sucks for his so bad!!! :(

  175. by Linda

    On September 1, 2012 at 9:18 am

    * OH & I guess I should mention that her child came out looking middle eastern. Black hair, eyes, & dark hairy skin. How do you explain that one to your 6’4 blonde hair, blue eyed husband. Poi
    Poo Poor

  176. by Linda

    On September 1, 2012 at 9:28 am

    I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. She did give birth to a baby that looks straight out of the Middle East. Sad considering her hubby is 6’4, blond hair, blue eyes, just like his other children. Someones got some explaining to do some day. Because what the whole world see’s from the outside is SAD!!!! Daddy got punked while away at war!!!

  177. by M

    On September 3, 2012 at 2:38 pm

    NO one knows what she is going through. Its so easy to talk about someone else. Im sure she loves her children but she is beyoned overwhelmed. People saying bad things about her should be put in the same situation and then come to this site and comment. People are saying she knew what she was doing and has other kids? I dont know but if so she is crazy…lol. This lady needs serious help taking care of them and herself. Im sure she gets a total of zero sleep. Sleep deprivation is a form of torture in some places. I hope someone will help take care of those sweet little angels. Babies are hard work though…

  178. by s

    On September 11, 2012 at 12:42 pm

    Would give almost anything for just one of them…legally completely open. Wish she had my number and was willing.

  179. by Whitney

    On September 13, 2012 at 1:48 pm

    I just want to say that there are plenty of people who want children and can’t have them. To hear her say that she wished she’d never had them disgust me. I having been batteling with infertlity for a while now and I would give anything to have just one child. She should consider herself blessed. Someone like her doesn’t deserve those babies.

  180. by Mary

    On September 16, 2012 at 7:59 am

    There are always good people that our world would be better and then there are some people that need to start over as a cockroach and begin evolution once again– I am amazed at the state of our world and yet, we as humans do nothing but spit and blame–amazing to me, the stones that are thrown toward a human being that is need of help. I know the human race will have to start over once again–

    this woman is suffering the “blues” times 100 million. This condition happens to women after pregnancy– she needs help. Where can I see her and go to her and help her– she doesn’t need just ime off, she needs help and she also needs to realize her enormous responsibility to care for humans that now belong to her through the graces of karma — I want to know her wherabouts, I can handle a troop of kids and they would all get to bed on time, eat regualr dinner, stimulate their minds , do their chores, learn lessons in life and go out and be productive citizens and never raise a hand to spank them– all with one hand behind my back– I know lots of mom’s that can do that–everyone of my friends are Mom’s just like that– anyone want to join me– we have babies and a Mom that need some help.

  181. by Anna

    On September 17, 2012 at 11:25 am

    Seriously — when is someone finally going to take those poor kids out of that house and get them proper, loving homes?

  182. by MommyGuest

    On September 21, 2012 at 8:24 am

    The comments on here are off the grid! I am a mother of multiples and let me tell you mothers that have only had a child at a time–you don’t know what you are talking about! The phrase “my children disgust me” you people are taking out of context. We all have bad days because of our children. You are throwing stones you have actually carried and have never admitted to having a hard time carrying. Times that by 100 and you have octomom! I know you mothers throwing stones at this poor woman and suggesting adoption for these poor children (taking them away from each other) could not stand a day–let alone an hour with 14 children! Why? Because to make off the grid comments like clearly states that you do not see some of her reality and have sympathy for her. Yes, this is coming from a mother of multiple. I have twins and have 2 times your bad day for mother that have had a child at a time. I feel her pain times 4 (she has 4 times my trouble!). All I can offer is prayers. The writer of this poorly written article is a demon! How could you publish something like this???

  183. by jennyjo

    On September 24, 2012 at 7:07 am

    I can’t believe that people here are still clamoring for help for her. Doesn’t anyone remember that she WAS given help when they were born, she had a combination of help from the state along with many volunteers. Her father gave her help. More volunteers gave her help. She threw them all out when they talked about her being around for photo opportunities only and going out clothes shopping for HERSELF all the time.Even Dr. Phil gave her lots of help for counseling for herself and her kids and all kinds of child care items and child care help. Then she did many interviews who must’ve paid her. Then she did porn. I’m sure that they paid her too. As for anyone complaining about her food stamps, calling it a problem with a liberal government, I’m not thrilled about that either, but the truth is that in the US we are not supposed to allow children to starve to death no matter what the circumstances of their birth are. Maybe Mitt Romney would pull the food out of their mouths. In any case, those kids need to be removed from the care of their disgusting mother. I wouldn’t even call that woman an animal because even animals feed their young and keep them clean.

  184. by Dani

    On September 24, 2012 at 4:13 pm

    I hate seeing stuff like this. I can understand the whole single mom thing, I did it for 7 years with my kids. I now have married someone who I love and we together now have 4 kids. They are our kids (2 are mine from a previous marriage, 1 is my step son, and 1 is mine and my husband’s.) But I think of them all as my kids and I would bend over backwards and defend them and I love and want all of them. There are several women out there who can’t have kids and would being willing to take some off her hands and would show them what it is to be LOVED and WANTED. If money wasn’t an issue for me or my husband I would be willing to take them. I have worked taking care of 13 kids at a time for several hours a day so I know how stressful it can get.

  185. by Nixxx

    On September 24, 2012 at 8:27 pm

    At this point, she us taking what she’s sown. She get these children for personal gain. She saw the Gosselin family getting rich & famous for having sextuplets, and thought she’d get herself a huge slice of that ”multiples mania” pie. I’ll bet she expected TLC (or a similar network) to be banging the door down with offers and for rival networks to start an all out bidding war. I mean, The Gosselin’s had eight and they were raking it in! She’d top that with her in-vitro endeavor! Imagine the dollar signs that were dancing in her head, the sponsorship and endorsement deals that would provide her with all the diapers, formula, cloths and other baby essentials she needed. I don’t care WHAT she says to the contrary. She’s been doing anything and everything she can to profit from her circumstances since her initial plan didn’t pan out as she’d expected. When the networks and baby product companies didn’t bite, she abandoned the ”profit from the children” bit and changed to a different (and obviously more desperate) tack; to exploit herself using her notoriety as ”Octomom”. She’s disgusting and pathetic. This is what sure gets for bringing these children into the world out of greed, not love. Sure got the exact opposite of what she set out to get. I don’t feel bad for her, she had 14 kids, ALONE, on PURPOSE, it’s her own fault it didn’t turn out the way she wanted. I do feel sorry for all of those children though. Maybe if she would stop all these shenanigans to get rich quick and be up front and weekday got get here

  186. by Nixxx

    On September 24, 2012 at 8:32 pm

    At this point, she us taking what she’s sown. She get these children for personal gain. She saw the Gosselin family getting rich & famous for having sextuplets, and thought she’d get herself a huge slice of that ”multiples mania” pie. I’ll bet she expected TLC (or a similar network) to be banging the door down with offers and for rival networks to start an all out bidding war. I mean, The Gosselin’s had eight and they were raking it in! She’d top that with her in-vitro endeavor! Imagine the dollar signs that were dancing in her head, the sponsorship and endorsement deals that would provide her with all the diapers, formula, cloths and other baby essentials she needed. I don’t care WHAT she says to the contrary. She’s been doing anything and everything she can to profit from her circumstances since her initial plan didn’t pan out as she’d expected. When the networks and baby product companies didn’t bite, she abandoned the ”profit from the children” bit and changed to a different (and obviously more desperate) tack; to exploit herself using her notoriety as ”Octomom”. She’s disgusting and pathetic. This is what sure gets for bringing these children into the world out of greed, not love. Sure got the exact opposite of what she set out to get. I don’t feel bad for her, she had 14 kids, ALONE, on PURPOSE, it’s her own fault it didn’t turn out the way she wanted. I do feel sorry for all of those children though. Maybe if she would stop all these shenanigans to get rich quick and be up front on what got get here, admitting the mistakes and bad judgment calls could actually be her salvation. That’s a story I’d be interested in…the truth, and it could be worth millions. Everyone loves a happy ending right?

  187. by nixxx

    On September 24, 2012 at 8:36 pm

    ” She’s reaping what she’s sown” is what that was supposed to say. Stupid autocorrect

  188. by Nixxx

    On September 24, 2012 at 8:43 pm

    At this point, she is reaping what she’s sown. She had these children for personal gain. She saw the Gosselin family getting rich & famous for having sextuplets, and thought she’d get herself a huge slice of that ”multiples mania” pie. I’ll bet she expected TLC (or a similar network) to be banging the door down with offers and for rival networks to start an all out bidding war. I mean, The Gosselin’s had eight and they were raking it in! She’d top that with her in-vitro endeavor! Imagine the dollar signs that were dancing in her head, the sponsorship and endorsement deals that would provide her with all the diapers, formula, clothes and other baby essentials she needed. I don’t care WHAT she says to the contrary. She’s been doing anything and everything she can to profit from her circumstances since her initial plan didn’t pan out as she’d expected. When the networks and baby product companies didn’t bite, she abandoned the ”profit from the children” bit and changed to a different (and obviously more desperate) tack; to exploit herself using her notoriety as ”Octomom”. She’s disgusting and pathetic. This is what she gets for bringing these children into the world out of greed, not love. She got the exact opposite of what she set out to get. I don’t feel bad for her, she had 14 kids, ALONE, on PURPOSE, it’s her own fault it didn’t turn out the way she wanted. I do feel sorry for all of those children though. Maybe if she would stop all these shenanigans to get rich quick and be up front on what got get here, admitting the mistakes and bad judgment calls could actually be her salvation. That’s a story I’d be interested in…the truth, and it could be worth millions. Everyone loves a happy ending right?

    THIS IS HOW THE FIRST POST SHOULD READ. Sorry.

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  260. by PregnantAndHappy

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  262. by LilMean

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    Sad story for everyone involved. I do have to say, I am disgusted by how other women refer to women as whores…any need for name calling? This woman needs help not judgement. I confident there is not one of you that has not done something that someone else may consider “not normal”. I am a mother of 2 girls and a grandmother of 2 boys and let me tell you – I breaks my heart to hear a mom speak these words about her Children – but she needs help not words of disgust. Yes Child Enforcement should be involved but to help with parenting skills and to give support not to remove the kids unless their is abuse and neglect. Shame on you all for posting such negative feedback. Learn to love without judgement people.

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    On January 23, 2013 at 1:57 am

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  268. by LYNDA JEFFERIES

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  270. by becky

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    hey FLIMP.. are you not judging when you say shame on us and love w/o judgement?? dont you feel sorry for those children?? i am judging, she is selfish. dont we have enough children in the world who are neglected and depressed?? i have accepted that she is a complete nut case, and it is what it is… but yes, judgement is upon us…

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  273. by Katie

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    3.) She DID-ABSOLUTELY- get more than enough help from the community, neighbors and churches. AT LEAST 8 helpers from the community (sometimes more-never less, working in shifts) around the clock, taking care of those babies-the house and the other kids- I guess until she threw them out (thank you, jennyjo post #183 for enlightening me as to what happened with that!) And I have no doubt that it’s a fact that the county was also sending help, as someone else mentioned. I have wondered if she even participated even a little in taking care or any of them. I’d be willing to bet she took advantage of that as much as she could and played it to the max, and jennyjo confirms my suspicions about that.
    4.) I read early on that she was talking to a tv station (I guess the one that does all the reality shows-idk-I don’t watch them) about doing a reality show.
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    I don’t know why that doctor got his license suspended. This is the first time I’ve heard about it. (I haven’t followed her story after I figured it was all for money, but had to read this one due to the headline. Does anyone know if it was due to this case (should have been, once the story broke)Ever since I heard he fertilized a welfare mom with 8 embryos, that already had 6 kids, it’s been my opinion that he should be held liable for the child support (and who knows, they, or some of them could be his kids anyway).
    I suspect that those of you who are standing up for her don’t live in CA. She’s been getting “help” from all of the CA taxpayers since day one.
    I divorced my husband when I was pregnant with my 6th child, after it became apparent that he always wanted me pregnant thinking that I wouldn’t leave him if I was pregnant if I caught him cheating. As far as I’m aware, he cheated from the 3rd child on, maybe even the first 2 but I was too naive to suspect. I finally had enough. I had a full time job that didn’t pay enough to support us all so after I had the baby, I went and got a construction job as a first-year apprentice that started out at twice what I had been earning. Upon becoming a journeyman I was making 24.83 an hour, 4x more than my hospital billing job. Now journeymen are making over $50.00 an hour (I’m retired now though). I supported all my kids on my own-no help from their father, or relief on weekends for visitations, he wasn’t interested, so like her, I had them 24/7. I managed to keep us all off of welfare and any kind of aid because they were my responsibility, and because I didn’t want to raise a bunch of welfare kids. Not to mention being humiliated and ridiculed by schoolmates because of it. (During my school years, a long time ago, we didn’t do that, but we all knew who the welfare kids were and these days kids are not kind like we were raised to be). Never once did I lock myself in the bathroom (or any other room) or say my kids disgusted me and/or I wish I never had them. Just like many posters have said “she made her bed and now she can lie in it-I’m a firm believer in that and I accepted what was dealt to me Guess I was raised with better morals than she was. Well, born and raised in CA, I don’t think it’s my responsibility to support her kids, but apparently she thinks it IS my (our) responsibility. It’s time for her to get off her ass and take care and support her kids.
    I too, think they should be given up to loving homes for adoption, and I don’t think they’d suffer for it. Most couples would love to have more than one child and 3 or 4 might possibly be adopted to one home and with an agreement to let them all keep in touch. Some have suggested open adoption so the mom could see them. I don’t think she’s interested. Her scheme didn’t work out how she wanted it to so they’re really of no use to her anymore. I have 2 thoughts on that:
    1.) Putting the children up for adoption isn’t an option with her, unless it would be profitable for her. But I don’t think she’d have to think twice to sell any of them if the price was right. Only way they’ll get rightfully adopted is if CPS removes them from the home and she’s proven unfit/incompetent. And they would first be put in foster homes, unless her family was willing to take them, if they were fit to do so. She would be given quite a long time to improve, get mentally healthy and financially able to care for them (I believe) in order to get them back before they are permanently taken from her and adopted out. Well at least that would give her plenty of time to go recruiting for her own show and more donations with a new story to tell if she wasn’t tied down w/the kids.
    2.) She’ll keep them until that happens in her continuing efforts to use them for her moneymaking schemes, which is why she keeps going to the media. Personally I don’t think she’s doing it for attention, but to get all she can out of it. I’d also be willing to bet there are still people (er, suckers) and maybe even companies and churches still donating to her, which I’m sure she’s not claiming on her welfare forms.
    With 14 kids, I bet she’s receiving OVER
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    $1,500 of aid (cash/check, whatev) per month, (idk, but prolly 200 in fs and 200 welfare per kid, would put each at 2800 per month, maybe they give even more than that. AND wouldn’t doubt she hits up all the free food banks in her area on a daily basis not to mention the food donations she prolly gets from churches. Hopefully the rest of the community have become sick of her by now.
    Wouldn’t doubt she sells the food stamps and uses the welfare to buy herself clothes and makeup etc as someone above stated the volunteers were thrown out of her house for complaining about her shopping and spending on herself. She obviously thinks it’s my and other Californians duty to let her skate. And I also bet all the money she made from her porn and stripper stints were spent on herself.
    Back in the ’90′s, my neighbor (who grew up on welfare and has 2 welfare kids herself (which is what all these 14 kids will likely do, unless the laws are changed and enforced) told me with the new welfare reform, was now (well, then) only allowing families to be on welfare for 2 years.
    during that time the parent(s) were required to get a job and if they couldn’t, or weren’t willing to find one, were required to enroll and attend job training run by the county and have a job at the end of the two years bc they would no longer be able to receive benefits after 2 years. I’d like to know what happened to that law. She’s still on welfare and her oldest kid will be 18 in september, and will prolly breed another generation of welfare kids from the rate she’s going. These welfare lifers know all the tricks and that’s no bull. She had a great paying job at a pharmacy and quit just to go back on welfare and sit on her butt all day and have 2 additional kids for more money (and claiming she doesn’t know who the fathers are although she definitely knows, but if she were receiving child support for 3 kids, she might be awarded more than welfare pays and wouldn’t be able to be on welfare anymore so I now have the honor of supporting her family as well.
    And being in CA, octomom could go out and get a real job and the county will pay for her child care, so it’s not as if all her earned money would be going toward that (but still prolly spend it on herself and expect others to support her kids. That would also get her away from the kids while productively spending her time making money instead of locking herself in the bathroom to cry or eat (why the bathroom anyway? Why doesn’t she just go in her bedroom. I’d rather eat in the bedroom than the bathroom any day. I think she just says things that sound the worst).
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    If the county doesn’t want to take the kids FOR THEIR OWN SAFETY AND WELL-BEING, it would be in the county’s and state’s best interest to appoint someone to take control of her welfare checks and food stamps to be assured it is being spent in the children’s interest, first and foremost making sure their needs are met, and even their medi-cal to make sure their medical needs are met (wonder if they’ve even been vaccinated?) If someone else had control of the finances she probably would start thinking of “getting rid” of them.
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