Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Have a little baby–or young child–who’s keeping you up at night? Read what sleep expert Rachel Waddilove has to say, and I guarantee that you’ll get more shut-eye. Her new book, Sleep Solutions: Quiet Nights for You and Your Child from Birth to Five Years, just came out, and below, she gives you her top tips for getting your kid to snooze for long stretches of time. Gwyneth Paltrow and even the British royal family trusts her–so you can too. If you are tired, you simply must check it out.
KK: What is the number one way to promote good sleep in babies? Toddlers?
RW: The most important thing to do to enable your baby to sleep is feed him well at every feeding. If you are bottle feeding then you will know how much he is having, but if you are breast feeding it is more difficult to tell until you have learned the signs that baby is full. A baby with a half full tummy will not sleep well until the next feeding. Having a good bedtime routine is important for toddlers, too. Don’t let your toddler get overtired as he will find it difficult to settle into a good sleep pattern.
KK: Do you think parents should let their kids cry it out?
RW: If you are sleep training your baby or toddler it will be important that you do leave him to have a shout for a little while as you are teaching him that he needs to sleep when you say so. It is important that you have someone who knows about sleep training that you can chat this through with, as it can be an anxious time for parents.
KK: At what age can we expect our children to sleep through the night?
RW: Babies as young as four weeks old can sleep from about 11 p.m. until six in the morning, but it is more usual for a baby to be about eight weeks old before he can sleep through the night. However, many babies do not sleep through the night until they are three to four months old. By the time your baby is five months old, he may well sleep from seven p.m. until seven a.m.
KK: What are some of the benefits of having a baby who sleeps well for its mother?
RW: The benefits for a mother whose baby sleeps well at night are huge as we all know how detrimental sleep deprivation is for a family. If a baby sleeps well mom will feel happy and contented with her baby and will feel able to cope with everyday life. She will feel happy to take her baby out to play dates and to meet friends for coffee or lunch. She will feel happy to leave her baby with a babysitter while she and her partner go out for a meal. If she has other children it will mean the whole family is calmer as mom will be more relaxed if baby sleeps well.
KK: Sleep deprivation is a natural and inevitable part of parenting young children. True or false?
RW: Sleep deprivation is not an inevitable part of parenting. Having said that, of course there will be broken nights when baby is young and when he is teething and of course if baby is ill. Also, it is natural that sometimes babies and toddlers will wake during the night, but this shouldn’t be the general rule. If you teach your baby to sleep well from a young age then normally you should be able to have good nights especially when he is sleeping through until the morning.
KK: How important is a bedtime routine for babies?
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RW: It is very important that baby has a bedtime routine. It is a good idea to start a routine early on as baby will become used to the same thing happening at the end of the day and this will continue when he is a toddler. It gives a sense of stability and security and also is good for parents, as there is a set bedtime, and you don’t have to expect your baby or toddler to be up all the evening, giving you both time for each other.
Wednesday, October 24th, 2012
So many books came out this week that it’s difficult to choose which ones to recommend to you. Need funny baby names? Horrified by a scandal? How about a decent night’s sleep with your baby? There’s a brand new read for all of the above–plus one more on creativity. It’s a hot week for book geeks, so be sure to check out my picks for parents.
Hello, My Name is Pabst: Baby Names for Nonconformist, Indie, Geeky, DIY, Hipster and Alterna-Parents of Every Kind
by Miek Bruno and Kerry Sparks
Quirky names rule in this over-the-top, funny baby name book. Just take a look at the first author’s moniker. He didn’t like being one of six Mikes in his kindergarten classroom, so now he goes by Miek. If you’re not into popular standbys such as Jennifer, Jacob, Sophia and Daniel, this book is for you. It’s broken down into unique sections offering even more creative ideas. My favorite chapters are Names You Can Drink at the Bar (Ketel, Booth, Rocks, Olive) and, just in time for Halloween, Morbid Names for Your Little Goth Prince/ss of Darkness (Raven, Voltaire, Dante and Lestat.) If I were headed to a babyshower, this would be one of my gifts.
Silent No More: Victim 1′s Fight for Justice Against Jerry Sandusky
by Aaron Fisher
Late last week, Victim 1 broke his anonymity before his book hit shelves. Aaron Fisher was 11 years old when Penn State football coach Jerry Sandusky recruited him to be his Second Mile children’s charity. At age 14, after enduring “hundreds” of incidences at the hands of Sandusky, Aaron was the first person to tell authorities what was happening. Aaron stuck to his story for three years during this scandalous national investigation. He helped a jury convict the coach on 45 counts of sexual assault. With the help of his mother and his psychologist, Aaron shares his side of this horrific story in his memoir.
Sweet Dreams: How to Establish and Maintain Good Sleep Habits for Your Baby
by Arna Skula
The author, Arna Skula, is a clinical nurse specialist in Iceland who works at a clinic for babies with sleep problems. In her book, she turns her experience and research into advice for parents. She addresses the importance of circadian rhythms, the baby’s age, developmental state and other factors in the infant’s sleep patterns. She helps parents know what they can reasonably expect from their baby and what to do to help the little one sleep well and feel happy. The book offers advice from birth up to 24 months. Check out her free sleep chart to get a feel for her work.
The Missing Alphabet: A Parents’ Guide to Developing Creative Thinking in Kids
by Susan Marcus, Susie Monday and Cynthia Herbert, Ph.D
This book is all about cultivating creativity in our kids. The authors believe the future belongs to children with innovative minds. They offer up The Sensory Alphabet, basic building blocks that are as powerful as the ABCs. One cool part is the Field Guide full of ideas for creative things families can do at home, in museums and around their neighborhoods. If you’re interested in the creative process and how to foster it, this book will give you ideas and tools.
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