Tummywatch Tuesday: 29 Weeks

I feel like it’s been forever since I posted. Time drags on ever so slowly when you have a sick kid in the house. Remember last Tuesday when I mentioned Roy was sent home from daycare with a fever over 104? It broke that night, so I figured we were in the clear. He developed a slight rash, as he tends to do with fevers, so I gave him some Benadryl, which usually does the trick. This time, it didn’t.

The rash got worse; developed into open sores and feet so tender he couldn’t stand on them. It was a different sort of rash than the one that sent us to the emergency room back in June. Finally, we took him to the doctor. Diagnosis: Scarlet Fever. Did you know people even got Scarlet Fever anymore? I didn’t. But they do. Well, Roy, The Boy Who Gets All Skin-Related Maladies, does.

So it was a rough week comforting and distracting an understandably inconsolable boy; constantly cleaning and dressing his wounds. I wished so badly I could weather all the pain and problems for him. He is finally on the mend. Not 100 percent, but headed in that direction. Next week will be better.

On the very worst night of his sickness, Roy barely slept. Since Clint had to work the following day, I was on duty. I tried everything—sleeping in his room, bringing him in ours, cuddling on the couch, letting him cry, even a Sesame Street special on Netflix. It wasn’t until he was exhausted beyond belief that he finally dozed off for a few hours. It took me even longer because the sleep deprivation and worry combined to get me thinking crazy, that I’d given him too much medicine or overlooked a telling symptom or screwed up in some way. Eventually, I, too gave in to the night’s catnap.

So the next day was even harder, of course. Sleeplessness makes even the tiniest decision seem impossible, the simplest of tasks seem Herculean. It it took me back a year and half to when Roy was a newborn, when I remember thinking How long can this possibly continue? How long can a human being even function without sleep? It also delivered me a few months into the future. It was a taste of what’s to come.

Had Roy had this illness during the height of my morning sickness or when my back was feeling worse, it would’ve broken me. But it didn’t happen then. And I can only hope the universe is as merciful when there are two.

Baby’s butternut squash-sized and in the middle of a growth spurt. The way my big belly makes my scarf jut awkwardly out in front of me in that photo up top cracks me up. I’ll give you a more positive post later this week, OK? After all, Thanksgiving is on its way. We’re hosting 20-some here, and I’m really looking forward it. We have so much to be thankful for.


Butternut squash image credit: Kristada Panichgul

Add a Comment
Back To Love & Diapers
  1. by Gretchen

    On November 15, 2011 at 6:05 pm

    Hey Berit,
    It’s your old college friend, Gretchen. Congrats on the new little squash!

    I’m so sorry Roy had scarlet fever! Owen got it last year and I was in shock. I had no idea anyone still go it these days. It was pretty awful for him and he missed a week of kindergarten and was rundown for weeks afterwards. The worst part was after he was on the mend and all his sores and rashy spots started peeling. His entire palms were peeling in giant patches of skin. So get ready for that one!

    Hang in there and give Roy a big squeeze! xoxo

  2. by anti jen

    On November 15, 2011 at 7:57 pm

    You are a very, very good mom, Berit Thorkelson. And to think: You’ll get even better when your little squash blossom arrives. Is there a Mom Olympics? Yes, I believe there was at your house this week. Gold medal.

  3. by Berit Thorkelson

    On November 16, 2011 at 10:19 am

    Gretchen! I remember that from FB now. Roy’s following O’s timeline, only his peeling is more on his feet. Man, bedtime is rough when we clean and salve them up. Heartbreaking.

    Thanks, anti jen. You’re my fave cheerleader.

  4. by Eve

    On November 17, 2011 at 3:09 pm

    Oh boy. Poor Roy. Man, you guys have been through it! I hope all is better soon!