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Parents Goody Giveaway: Enter for a Chance to Win a $130 Kitchen Playset from Melissa & Doug

Tuesday, May 6th, 2014

When we got the chance to talk to one half of the duo behind Melissa & Doug, we learned that many of the toy company’s products are inspired by the creators’ kids. “I’m always watching how my children play and what they enjoy” Melissa says. One thing that’s always been super popular with her brood of six: play food.

Melissa & Doug is known for its cooking and cleaning lines, especially Let’s Play House, and a new one called Order Up Diner is on the way for December. If your tots are as crazy about pretend food as Melissa’s kids, try out Cook’s Corner Wooden Play Kitchen. Little ones as young as 3 can get the feeling of being a chef with their very own play cutting board, sink, cooktop, fridge, and storage shelves. Plus, there’s a real working timer!

This week, Melissa & Doug is giving ONE lucky GoodyBlog reader the chance to win a Cook’s Corner Wooden Play Kitchen, valued at $130! To enter, leave a comment below, up to one a day between today and the end of the day May 12. Be sure to check back on May 13 and scroll to the bottom of the post to see who won. We reach out to winners via Facebook message (it goes into your “other” message folder on Facebook), so if you win, look for us there as well. Goody luck!

In the meantime, help your youngster figure out the right way to set a table for family sit-downs!

Congrats to our winner Edie Jauregui!

Manners & Responsibility: Teaching Your Kids to Set the Table
Manners & Responsibility: Teaching Your Kids to Set the Table
Manners & Responsibility: Teaching Your Kids to Set the Table

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Meet the Woman and Toy Creator Behind Melissa & Doug!

Friday, March 28th, 2014

Imagine if your job was to think up the next big children’s toy. For Melissa Bernstein, co-founder of Melissa & Doug, it’s just another day at the office. As the ideas person at the toy company (her husband Doug helps with operations), she’s responsible for overseeing the design process of the products your little one adores. Though the company began humbly in Doug’s parents’ garage 25 years ago, today it’s a major toy manufacturer, with more than 250 products launching in the next year. Parents chatted with the mom of six to see where she gets her inspiration (take a guess!) and what it’s like running her own business.

P: How has being a mom influenced your toy ideas?

M: I’m always watching how my children play and what they enjoy. They test every single product we make, and a lot of times really help hone the idea and help improve it throughout the process. I told them I never want them to just tell me they like something because I’m their mom, so they are very critical. Many toys they’re just kind of like, “Eh, they’re OK.” I know when we have a winner because they’ll react a lot differently.

P: Are there any specific products that were inspired by your children?

M: In our house, role play has always been a favorite activity. That inspired costumes they can try on and become other characters. They also love food preparation and serving, and that inspired a lot of our pretend cooking and cleaning items, like our Let’s Play House line and Order Up Diner set coming out next December. Another thing that our kids love to do is make play food in the sand. I used to take tupperware containers and old spice jars from our house to the sandbox, and they would make sand cakes and pies with water. The lack of fun activity-based sand toys sparked us to create items where you can actually make sand food, like ice cream cones and pizza.

P: If you had to pick one favorite toy you’ve made in the last 25 years, what would it be and why?

M: For me, it’s our coloring pad because I love taking something that’s out there already and improving upon it. I was never a fan of coloring books. Many of them are so thick you can’t lay them flat on a table or counter, making it hard to color. When you go to rip out a page, it leaves this jagged edge. I also found the grey newsprint paper not very nice for getting colors to pop. Since the images are printed on both sides of the paper, when you use markers it bleeds through and you lose one of the images. The other thing I never liked about coloring books was that my kids could never find an image they wanted to color and would end up arguing over the same one or two pictures. About five to seven years ago, we created a coloring pad that was actually a bit larger than a coloring book. It faces horizontally, so there’s more surface area in front of a child. It’s printed on white bond paper, so the colors stick out. Plus, the images are printed on one side so there’s nothing to bleed through and the pages are easy to rip out because of the binding at the top. Most of all, we created the images in conjunction with children, so every single picture on every single pad is 100 percent child-approved. They will be just as excited to color that 50th page as they are the first.

P: How did you and your husband come to realize the toy business was where you wanted to be?

M: Three out of four of our parents are educators, so we always were instilled with an educational philosophy growing up and really loved children from the beginning. When we decided that we wanted to do something on our own, children was pretty much the first thing that came to mind. We were both like, “Kids, we got to do something with kids.”

P: What helps you two maintain a good working relationship?

M: Believe it or not, for years we actually shared the same desk. That’s how close we’ve been! We are really fortunate to be two halves of a complete circle. We’ve always focused on different parts of the business. Because we’re dealing with separate areas, we can ask each other what we think of an idea and be somewhat objective because we’re not standing over each other every day. Without the support of each other to help us through, I can’t imagine making it through the last 25 years.

P: What tips do you have for other moms looking to start their own business?

M: Don’t let fear get in your way. Everybody told us not to do it. People thought our business wouldn’t work because we were not only creating toys, but also doing a lot of things counter to what was being done. We just listened to our hearts and never really thought about what people said because we knew we were doing the right thing. Follow your dream before it’s too late. Yours is probably just as good as ours, if not better. The first idea we started with isn’t what we’re doing now. We morphed along the way by listening to the market and reacting to what’s going on. As long as you’re open to listening and making changes, you’ll find your way.

P: Your company was founded on the principle of educating children. What makes you so passionate about that issue?

M: When we started it was all about nurturing minds through simple play. Then technology came into the picture. While it’s an amazing tool for society and our business, it can disrupt children’s creativity and their ability to problem solve on their own. Now moms like me are struggling to make sure their kids aren’t tethered to technology 24/7. That’s what keeps us coming into work everyday, this mission to really promote parents to connect with their children through play.

PS Ready to get creative with your kid? We’re rocking these pom-pom flowers in our Parents office!

Pom-Pom Paper Flowers
Pom-Pom Paper Flowers
Pom-Pom Paper Flowers

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Let’s Not Pretend That Play Isn’t Important

Friday, September 7th, 2012

This is a guest post from Mary Hynes-Berry, Ph.D., a senior instructor at Erikson Institute in Chicago. Erikson is a leading graduate school in childhood development, working to improve the care and education of children up to age 8.

Last week, a University of Virginia press release announced “Pretend Play May Not Be as Crucial to Child Development as Believed, New Study Shows.” Angeline Lillard, Ph.D., the lead investigator, reported that, in a review of 150 prior studies, “We found no good evidence that pretend play contributes to creativity, intelligence or problem-solving. However, we did find evidence that it just might be a factor contributing to language, storytelling, social development and self-regulation.”

Early childhood experts see those statements as contradictory. The last decade’s explosion of brain research firmly establishes that, in early childhood, development is very much intertwined; cognitive, social-emotional, and motor skills all affect one another. Developing language, storytelling, social development, and self-regulation will contribute to developing intelligence, creativity, and problem-solving skills—meaning pretend play is an active ingredient in all of them.

What’s more, while we can identify different kinds of play, it is difficult to isolate just one form—and that’s what this study does. The study concludes that constructive play is a crucial factor in developing creativity and problem-solving skills, but rules out pretend play.  That doesn’t make sense. Think about how your own children play: When they’re imagining, they’re also usually physically moving about and constructing props or settings, such as turning a box or a few blankets into a castle or a rocket-ship, right?

The danger of this study is that it could fuel the current obsession with testing, which pressures teachers to drill numbers and letters into children, leaving no time for play-based learning. In fact, Dr. Lillard recognizes the same point in the conclusion of her academic article.  Her final sentence should have been the lead for the press release: “The hands-on, child- driven educational methods sometimes referred to as ‘playful learning’ are the most positive means yet known to help young children’s development.”

Image: Barefoot baby girl “shopping” via Shutterstock.

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