Friday, December 6th, 2013
‘Tis the season for making your list and checking it twice! If you’re still clueless about what to get your kids or other loved ones, be sure to tune in to Parents Twitter and Pinterest pages from December 9 to December 13. We’ll be sharing tons of ideas for stocking stuffers, kids’ presents, homemade gifts, and more. Three talented bloggers– Amanda Kingloff of Everyday Fun, Lydia Beiler of Thrifty Frugal Mom, and Melanie Blodgett from You Are My Fave– will be joining in the fun by pinning their favorite crafty and unique gift ideas to the Parents pinterest board. Get in on the conversation and share your ideas (or borrow someone else’s) using #ParentsGifts on Twitter and Pinterest. See you then!
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Monday, December 3rd, 2012
One month after Hurricane Sandy hit the Northeast, many families are still struggling to recuperate from the damages they suffered from the storm.
To help, two women (Joy Huang and Kimberley Berdy) launched Secret Sandy, a Secret Santa-type endeavor for affected families who need extra help this holiday season.
Children and their families can register on the site and write letters to Secret Sandy with their wish lists, which will be sent to registered people who wish to donate. This is one example of a letter by a 3-year-old boy from Gerritsen Beach, N.Y.:
When we were hit by Hurricane Sandy, I was so scared.
The first thing I thought was the water was coming in my house fast.
When Hurricane Sandy was over, all I saw was all my toys broken. All I felt was sadness.
For the past few weeks, we have been living in different places & now a hotel.
The thing that I miss most is my Thomas & friends scooter & Thomas trains.
The one thing I really want for the holidays is to be back home, in my own room.
To get a Secret Sandy or to give a gift, register today at SecretSandy.org. To read letters and receive more information, check out Secret Sandy on Facebook and Twitter.
Image: Pile of gift boxes of various colors isolated on white background, via Shutterstock
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Monday, December 3rd, 2012
Editor’s Note: In a post for an ongoing series, Dr. Harley A. Rotbart, a Parents advisor, will be guest blogging once a month. He will be offering different advice, tips, and personal stories on how parents can “savor the moment” and maximize the time they spend with kids. Read more posts by Harley Rotbart from this series.
This year, consider an unconventional strategy for holiday gift giving. No, this isn’t an altruistic piece about charity and volunteering—although both are wonderful expressions of the holiday spirit—since reality is reality, and most of us use the holidays to give fun gifts to our kids. Instead of buying budget-busting individual gifts that end up gathering dust by Valentine’s Day, invest in inexpensive presents that will turn your home into the “go to” place for your kids’ friends. Parents’ time with young kids goes by fast, and once they become teenagers, it’s even harder to corral them, see them grow, and eavesdrop on their lives. So, starting in your kids’ pre-teen years, turn your home into a kid magnet.
When I was growing up, my best friend Steve’s dad bought a pool table for himself and his adult friends, but he let us use it as long as he was supervising or within earshot. Steve’s house became “the” house for our friends, and his dad had a front row seat as we turned into little pool sharks. My parents missed seeing me in all of my adolescent bluster on those billiards nights; my wife and I didn’t want that to happen to us.
So, when we stumbled on what seemed like the perfect holiday gift for our tweens at a garage sale years ago, we took a $55 chance; if it wasn’t a hit, we would resell it. But it turned out to be the find of the decade: an honest-to-goodness adult-sized poker table, with a felt-covered center and felt-lined cup holders on each of the six sides, priced at an amazing $25. And, for $5 each, we also bought the six retro orange vinyl chairs that sat around the table. Yes, the table and chairs had seen better days, but none of the cosmetic damage was beyond the cure of a little glue, tape, and paint. By the time my wife (the handy one in the family) finished the tune-up, the set was pretty cool looking, and it fit in with what was already in the basement: the indoor mini-basketball hoop (purchased for $12 at a previous garage sale), the shelves full of board games (including “Twister,” the ultimate game for the awkward tween years), the sports and national parks posters, and the makeshift ping pong table.
We never imagined the impact that poker table would have on our parenting experience. Our basement became the epicenter for our kids’ middle school and high school friends for the next 10 years, until our youngest left for college. Penny-ante poker, blackjack, Texas-hold’em, and “War” alternated at our table. There were Coke cans in the cup holders, chips (poker and potato) scattered across the table, and cards tossed about in celebration or disgust during wonderful weekend nights. Even today, with our kids in college and graduate school, they gather with their old friends over vacations to play poker in our basement! We never figured out what it was about a real poker table—versus a folding, kitchen, or ping pong table—that could create such a profound and prolonged attraction in our basement. But it was a joy to be “the” house that everyone wanted to hang out in, the place where we could eavesdrop on our kids’ very own “World Series of Poker” games, cater the snacks, and watch our kids grow up rather than watching them gravitate to their friends’ houses where the cool stuff was.
Should you buy the biggest TV on the block or the best video game system to draw kids’ attention? This is a very personal, and philosophical, decision. But for my money, the best activities are unplugged and get kids talking and laughing loudly enough that you can eavesdrop from the top of the basement stairs. Only you know your kids well enough to pick the perfect gifts for them and their friends, but pick ones that are age-appropriate. Here’s a short garage sale shopping list, in case you can’t find a poker table, for transforming your house into “the” house: foosball table, air hockey table, pinball machine, board games (trivia, strategy, wordplay, charades), electric train set, mini car racing track, construction toy sets, camping tent, magic set, homemade stage (for music, theater, puppet, magic, and fashion shows), wardrobe cabinet (stocked with cool old clothes, hats, and costume jewelry from your closet or the thrift shop), makeup table, doll house, and play kitchen. You may not stumble on the “find of the decade” on your first try, but with all the money saved by avoiding toy stores, you’ll be able to afford shopping garage sales again next year.
Happy holidays, and happy eavesdropping!
Dr. Harley A. Rotbart is Professor and Vice Chairman of Pediatrics at the University of Colorado School of Medicine and Children’s Hospital Colorado. He is the author of three books for parents and families, including the recent No Regrets Parenting, a Parents advisor, and a contributor to The New York Times Motherlode blog. Visit his blog at noregretsparenting.com and follow him on Facebook and Twitter (@NoRegretsParent).
Image: Beautiful living room decorated for Christmas via Shutterstock.
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Monday, November 29th, 2010
My sister is the best kids’-gift giver I know. Every single present she’s bought for my children over the years has been perfect for their age and developmental stage, not to mention something I hadn’t thought to give, and most importantly a hit with my girls. (No pressure on me this holiday season, her 8-month-old daughter’s first! And now I know how my two other sisters have felt for the past five years.) Part of the reason she’s so good at this is because it’s her job to know what kids like; she’s a pediatric occupational therapist here in NYC and one of the founding members of The Meeting House, an innovative after-school program for children who need a little extra help socializing and communicating. So she can spot a good toy, game, and activity a mile away.
Each year she creates a list of gift ideas for the parents of the children she works with. For the most part, the kids are between 3 and 8. The list is so helpful, I asked her if I could share it here. (In a few cases, her picks echo some of the toys we here at Parents picked for our 2010 holiday toy guide, or have featured in a previous issue.) The descriptions are hers, except where I chime in as noted:
To work on increasing independence and comfort for dressing:
EZ Sox are adorable socks that have little handles on them for small hands. Helps young children learn how to put on their own socks without the frustration that typically comes along with that. [From Kara: My 2-year-old happens to be better at putting on her socks than my 5-year-old, but they're both getting these this year.]
If you have a child who doesn’t like tags or has a difficult time with the feeling of some clothing, the brand Soft Clothing is perfect. Really cute clothes without tags, seams, etc.. [From Kara: We've featured these in Parents. The designs are very cool.]
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