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Wednesday, October 29th, 2014
Here’s the newest installment of a brand new series from the Parents beauty department about mommy bloggers. Each installment will feature what beauty means to real moms no matter what their beauty routine is like—and how they take time to themselves after having children.
Cassie Bustamante (Jalapeno Photography)
Meet Cassie Bustamante. She’s the face behind Primitive and Proper, your new go-to for all things vintage furniture, thrifting and interior decor ideas, and mom to Sawyer, 9; and Emerson,7. Cassie started blogging as a way to promote her furniture refinishing business, but now she helps run a vintage barn sale in Maryland.
What is your beauty routine like?
I keep things pretty quick and efficient. After I shower, I moisturize and use an eye cream, then it’s under-eye concealer, a little blush, lip gloss, and mascara. If I am going out, I will wear eyeshadow and eyeliner.
How has your beauty routines changed since you had children?
I stopped getting pedicures, manicures, the periodic facials, and I now spend much less time in the shower!
What is the importance of taking time to yourself?
My life is so busy with my business, my family and my blog that I crave time just for me. Most days I run or take my dogs for a hike, and the fresh air allows me to think, focus and decrease my stress. And I always notice that stress takes a toll on my skin. Exercise and alone time keep my stress levels down, and keep my emotions in check.
The best beauty advice I’ve ever received is… A genuine smile is the best thing you can put on your face.
My beauty advice for moms is… Those sweet little eyes look at you with nothing but love and see you as the most beautiful woman in the world—just as yourself—with no makeup on. Remember not to judge yourself too harshly because those eyes are watching you and will start to judge, too, or doubt themselves.
Have your children ever commented on your makeup or beauty routine?
Ha! Yes, just last week we were headed off to get family photos taken, and Emmy had a little patch of dry skin on her chin, so I told her I wanted to put concealer on it. She said, “Is that the makeup you put on your forehead to cover your zits? Because you do have zits on your forehead.”
PRIMITIVE AND PROPER’S FIVE FAVES
Bare Ecentuals Pretty Amazing Lipcolor
1. Black Sparrow Soaps Dead Sea Mud Mask: This mask helps minimize my pores and keeps my skin feeling smooth. It’s also locally made, and I prefer to buy local when I can!
2. Under eye concealer: I am not super picky about this, but I prefer it to come in a stick! Since having kids, I find this to be an instant face lift!
3. Burt’s Bees Naturally Nourishing Milk & Honey Body Lotion: It smells soft and subtly sweet and leaves my legs feeling smooth. It’s also gentle enough to use on my children.
4. Eco Natural Soaps Blush in Pink Rose: This blush goes on beautifully and leaves me with the perfect glow.
5. Bare Escentuals Pretty Amazing Lipcolor in Confidence: I love this lipstick! It applies much like a gloss and stays on like a stain, which is great for this low-maintenance mama!
For more beauty tips for busy moms, watch our video!
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Wednesday, October 8th, 2014
MEET THE LIFE & WRITINGS OF KATE BAER
With the help of deep breaths, grace and nachos,Kate Baer finds the time to juggle caring for Waylon (3) and Eva (8 months), posting on her blog, The Life & Writings of Kate Baeur, and taking time to herself. I’ve taken a couple cues from her book recommendations, and you should,too!
What is your beauty routine like?
Sometimes I wear mascara. Sometimes I take it off.
How has your beauty routines changed since you had Waylon and Eva?
Last week, I put on a little lipstick, and my three-year-old son asked if I was bleeding, so there’s that. Honestly I just keep it simple. A little mascara, eyeliner, and bronzer, if I’m feeling fancy.
What is the importance of taking time to do so?
If I can wake up, brush my teeth, put my hair in a long braid, and throw on some mascara—I feel like I can conquer the world. Or at least make it until second lunch.
What’s the best beauty advice you’ve received?
“If you retain nothing else, always remember the most important rule of beauty, which is: who cares?” -Tina Fey, my spirit guide.
My beauty advice for moms is… if you have pants on, you’re winning.
THE LIFE & WRITINGS OF KATE BAER’S FAVES
1. L’Oreal Telescopic Mascara is the bee’s knees.
2. Neutrogena Makeup Remover Wipes to take it off. I could not live without those magic wipes.
Bridget Hunt of Tales of Me and the Husband
MEET TALES OF ME AND THE HUSBAND
Bridget Hunt has a big brood. There’s Nathaniel, 21; Jordan, 19; William, 14; Lindsey, 12; and Parker, 3. Are you tired yet? Well, that’s not it! Bridget and her husband, Steve, have another baby on the way in December! Then there’s her blog, Tales of Me and the Husband, where she write about all her kids, favorite recipes, health tips and how she met her husband, and posts pretty picture accompaniments.
What is your beauty routine like?
Less is more. And that’s not because that’s necessarily my motto; instead, I’m spinning a potential negative into a positive! Glass is half full—for today anyway! I don’t have a lot of time, so when on the run, it’s always a little under-eye concealer, swipe of blush, mascara and eyebrow pencil—the last being a more recent addition and now has become an absolute necessity. How many years I went with almost invisible eyebrows!
Do you have any beauty advice for moms?
It’s amazing how much more I get done when I feel good, and it’s amazing how I manage to feel good (or pretty good, anyway) if I don’t look like crap. So a little bit of makeup and a decent outfit go a long way. My hair routine, however, is “throw it up in a bun.” Luckily, buns have a way of looking a little polished—or at least that’s what I tell myself.
TALES OF ME AND THE HUSBAND’S FAVES
1. Nars lipsticks: They STAY ON—especially the matte ones.
2. Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Wiz: The best! Invisible eyebrows, be gone!
3. Benefit Cosmetics High Beam: When I’m feeling a little fancy (and have a summer tan going), this gives this lovely dewey look to your cheekbones!
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Monday, April 15th, 2013
This isn’t an easy post to write. And it won’t be an easy post to read.
But I hope you’ll read it, because it’s about a blogger who’s special to us here at Parents.
Kate Leong, a mother who writes the blog Chasing Rainbows, was catapulted into a parent’s worst nightmare a few days ago. On April 10 she posted this short, urgent update on her blog’s Facebook page:
“Gavin went into cardiac arrest and is being choppered to DuPont. It’s very grave. Please pray.”
Those of us who have been following the blog and Kate’s Facebook updates sent prayers, strength, and positive thoughts for Gavin’s recovery. The love that poured in from many who don’t know Kate, and knew nothing about her even a few short days ago, would be enough to restore even the most cynical observer’s faith in the human race’s capacity for kindness and compassion.
I’ve never met Kate. But in some small way, I feel like I know her. I became acquainted with Kate through our magazine’s annual Blog Awards contest, for which I’m the editor. Kate’s blog, “a mommy’s quest to make the impossible possible,” was a finalist in the category “Most Likely to Have You Reaching for the Tissues.” She had the support of fellow co-finalist Momastery blogger Glennon Doyle Melton, who believed in Kate’s blog so much that Glennon encouraged her readers to go vote for Kate.
Kate was surprised she’d been nominated, and so excited to be selected as a finalist. Chasing Rainbows didn’t win, but on the Friday after the votes were in, Kate wrote me the most gracious email. She thanked Parents for including her in the contest. It brought her many letters of support, referrals, and suggestions in her efforts to get help for Gavin, who Kate said remained undiagnosed and whose multiple health problems were “a mystery to everyone but God.” As Kate modestly wrote, before the exposure of the contest, her blog had had “a good little following.” But she’d never felt the need to promote it. The competition, she said, gave her the push to do just that.
While Chasing Rainbows didn’t claim the very top honor, Gavin, she said, was the real winner. Kate wrote: “One day, when he’s no longer a mystery, I will drive to Parents’s offices and introduce you to him so we can thank you in person.”
Yesterday, on April 14th, Gavin David Leong died. He was 5 1/2 years old.
He died on his mother’s birthday.
Those of us who were following Kate’s updates last week knew this was coming. Kate had told us the fight was over. A picture on the Chasing Rainbows Facebook page of Kate lying in a hospital bed beside Gavin, looking lovingly at her gravely ill son, unconscious and his eyes parted, is an image that will likely haunt me for the rest of my life. Through the horror (does any other word suffice?) of it all, Kate never stopped blogging, and in her words and pictures, she brought us a window in real time onto an experience that no one should ever, ever have to suffer: losing a child.
Last Friday, after I closed Kate’s Facebook page, left work, and headed home, I thought about that sweet email to Parents from Kate, which expressed such hope and optimism for Gavin. She’d sent it only last month.
That evening, I was filling the tub for my 1 ½-year-old. She was pulling bath toys off a nearby shelf, and enjoying watching them splash into the water. Rubber duck. Shark. Cup. My mind wandered to Kate again, and to Gavin. And to his brother Brian, and his father, Ed. I thought about the terrible pain Kate’s already endured as a mother, as readers of her blog know, and how really, really unfair life can be. And my heart began to race, I felt sweat at my temple, and I had to catch my breath. A casual observer might have said I was having something akin to an anxiety attack. But later, I was able to recognize the feeling, because I’d had it before: sitting in the waiting room at a famous cancer hospital, long after all the treatments and prayers for a friend’s recovery were over, after the goodbyes had been said, and we were just waiting. Waiting for the inevitable to happen.
The feeling was helplessness.
When you irrationally say to no one listening, Make it stop. Just make it stop.
Why do bloggers affect us so much?
They’re not our family. They’re not our friends.
Certainly, what we feel for someone we know and love is not the same as what we feel for a person we’ve never met.
But that’s the thing about blogs: They affect us because they generously invite us in. Bloggers share many parts of themselves, their families, dreams, hopes. We feel a connection that transcends the barrier of a screen monitor. And when a blogger you like is suffering in a way you could have never imagined, and you’re watching that pain unfold post by post, picture by picture, it hurts because it almost feels like it’s happening to a friend. Because in a way, after reading dozens or hundreds of their posts, you do know them, maybe even better than you know some of your “real-life” friends. When a child dies, it hardly matters if you’ve been acquainted with that mother’s circumstances for years or since last week. You hurt deeply for her.
As one woman on Facebook posted to Kate, reflecting a sentiment that was repeated over and over: “We don’t know each other, but my heart is with you and your whole family.”
People often lament the breakdown of community in our society. And therein lies the power and beauty of the blogging world: In a few days, Kate’s fan base and support network grew from hundreds to thousands. Her fellow bloggers rallied around her, as did an ever-growing army of caring strangers. In the past few days, I’ve been receiving thoughtful emails from other bloggers in our contest, wanting to tell me about Kate, and Gavin.
They feel like they knew them, too.
To honor Gavin’s memory, Kate is asking for this:
“I have a special project that ANYONE can do—that can be FREE—and would be the best birthday present you can give me…. I’m asking you to help someone… document it with words and or a photo… and place it on the Chasing Rainbows Facebook Page. Then be sure to check the page often to get inspired by the outpouring of love.”
Will you help someone?
For Gavin, and for Kate?
Photo: Gavin via Chasing Rainbows Facebook Page
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Monday, January 7th, 2013
It’s that time of the year again: our annual blog awards!
Between now and January 27, you can nominate your favorite blog (or your own) in one or two of six blog categories:
- Most likely to have you reaching for the tissues
- Most likely to make you laugh
- Most likely to inspire you to change the world
- Most likely to make life as CHO (Chief Household Officer) easier
- Most likely to wow you with photos or videos
- Most likely to help you achieve a personal goal
We’ll select five finalists in each category, and then leave it up to you to select the winners!
Voting will take place between February 6 and February 24. The winners will be announced on Parents.com on March 1, and then featured in an upcoming issue of Parents.
Visit our Facebook page today to cast your votes.
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Wednesday, May 16th, 2012
In case you missed it, Time magazine sparked controversy this past week after debuting the cover of their weekly news magazine, which featured 26-year-old Jamie Lynne Grumet breastfeeding her 3-year-old son, Aram, with the bold headline “Are You Mom Enough?”
The article accompanying the cover discusses attachment parenting–which includes three principles: breastfeeding, co-sleeping, and “baby wearing.” Discussion has been heavy over the controversial cover and the principles it attempts to discuss. Three of our Parents blogs weighed in on the topic: High Chair Times, Parents News Now, and Love & Diapers. Check them out by clicking the link. Then, tell us what you think in the comments section below.
Image via Time magazine
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Monday, January 30th, 2012
Carpooling Parents Don’t Always Use Booster Seats
Parents use booster seats inconsistently when carpooling with young kids, according to a new study.
One-Room School Also One-Student School
In a prosperous ranching corner of Montana, Amber Leetch, age 11, makes up the entire Sunset School District 30.
A Blog as Therapy for Teenagers
Researchers find blogging provides a therapeutic value for teenagers.
Updated Guidelines for Treating Babies Exposed to Drugs in the Womb
The question of how best to help babies who have been exposed to drugs in the womb — including prescription pain medications, antidepressants and illicit drugs like methamphetamine and cocaine — can be an emotionally charged issue. Bringing science to bear on the issue, the American Academy of Pediatrics has just updated its guidelines on treating these infants.
British Teen Hospitalized After Eating Nothing but Chicken Nuggets for 15 Years
Talk about being a picky eater. A British teenager reportedly has eaten “practically nothing” but chicken nuggets for the past 15 years. And now she’s paying for it.
Blood Found in Home Belongs to Missing Girl
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Blood discovered in the home of the father of missing Maine toddler Ayla Reynolds did come from the girl and was “more blood than a small cut would produce,” the girl’s family says investigators told them.
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Monday, August 1st, 2011
At Parents, we’re a big fan of blogs. We have real moms and dads blogging for us every day and we’re always updating our GoodyBlog with parenting news, stories, and lots of fun giveaways.
But now we want to hear from you! We’re looking for the best, most useful, and most innovative blogs on the web for moms and dads. Is there a blog you read every morning before the kids get up? Or is there a blog you just have to check during naptime? Tell us! You can nominate your favorite blog (including your own) on the awards homepage. Blogs can be nominated in the following categories:
- Best Craft for Kids Blog
- Best Family Travel
- Best Daddy Blog
- Best Mom Tech Blog
- Funniest Mom Blog
- Best Food Blog
- Best Kids Health Blog
- Best Gear and Toys Blog
- Best Mom Fashion Blog
- Best Special Needs Blog
- Best Local Mom Blog
- Best All-Around Mom Blog
There will be two winners in each category—a People’s choice and an Editor’s choice. The People’s Choice will be solely based on who has the most votes and the Editor’s Choice will be chosen by the bloggers and editors of Parents.com and the editors of Parents Magazine.
We’re looking for blogs that surprise and delight us, make us laugh, cry, think, take action or compel us to constantly hit refresh. If you know a blog with that special something, help it get the recognition it deserves. Nominate it today!
The contest begins on August 1, 2011 at 12:00 am EST and ends on October 15, 2011 at 11:59 pm EST.
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Monday, July 11th, 2011
Ellen Seidman had been looking forward to having a child since she was one herself. “I had a history only of baby love” she wrote on her blog Love That Max. But after a healthy full-term pregnancy, Seidman’s son Max had a stroke at birth and was left with cerebral palsy.
Although Max’s diagnosis changed her life, she hasn’t let it slow her down. Seidman has held senior positions at many magazines, is currently a freelance magazine editor and has found time for a new Parents.com blog To The Max. She writes about the misperceptions people have about children with special needs and how her family tackles them. Seidman does not want pity for her son or the rest of her family, husband Dave and daughter Sabrina, 6, but she does ask one thing: Say “hi.”
Check out Seidman’s new blog To The Max (and don’t forget to say “hi”)!
Meet our other featured bloggers:
Heather Morgan Shott, High Chair Times
Richard Rende, Red-hot Parenting
Jill Cordes, Of F I Sing
Check out all the blogs!
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